Downward Dog, Upward Fog
By Meryl Davids Landau
What a treat to find a book that gently guides those of us who know there’s more to life but haven’t found the route to it…. Meryl Davids Landau has penned a fictional novel reflecting her own quest to a spiritual life that celebrates our personal power rather than advocating some guru’s path. Landau takes us on a journey from the standpoint of Lorna, her protagonist, who lives and works a traditional life but feels there’s more available to her and wants to find out what that can mean to her life.
Lorna is a marketing consultant with an enviable job whose own background has held her back from experiencing the most life has to offer. Lorna realizes that her mother has instilled negative impressions that hold her back from realizing her full potential, and she’s committed to finding and releasing those roadblocks to her success. And she’s not worried about material success – she’s already achieved that - she’s looking for personal fulfillment that enables her to be and express the most loving person she can be.
Rather than preach to readers, Landau carries us along on Lorna’s journey from conventional life to a more spiritually fulfilling life in a way that provides a roadmap for anyone seeking the same. Even though the book is fictional, Landau lets us know that the path somewhat mirrors her own, and in the end, it seems clear that Landau is well on her way to a role as spiritual leader along the line of Marianne Williamson. Although I suspect that Landau will always be more accessible than many and not cast as a “guru” – I think her approach will be more helpful to seekers as they strive to find their own path.
Through Lorna, Landau unravels the many layers that a spiritual seeker might need to transgress… Lorna begins as a conventional career woman whose weekend fun includes meeting the girls at the bar for a drink. Her life includes a perfect suitor – a young man on a career path of his own who makes time for her when his career allows, but since he’s clearly destined for success the arrangement seems acceptable, especially since he’s perfectly handsome, sweet and fun in the intimacy department. But as Lorna explores more deeply into her own meaningful life, she questions whether her perfect man can really meet her needs since he does not share her quest for a more spiritually satisfying life.
Lorna also has to deal with issues laid on her by her mother – she’s never been good enough in Mom’s eyes and that weighs heavily on her as she tries to make her way in the world. She knows she needs to develop a new way of dealing with Mom, but that presents one of her greatest challenges. Through yoga and meditation, Lorna finds the way to deal gracefully with the challenges in her life and in the process she helps many others to do the same.
As Lorna explores options for a more spiritually satisfying life, she takes readers along on the tour. She investigates alternative health as well as several methods of self-help including yoga, meditation, even a retreat where no one is allowed to speak for the entire weekend. She shares details on these ideas as well as the healthy skepticism that any traditional person might feel. She also shares tips and techniques that readers can try on their own to begin their own journey toward a more spiritual life. While referencing several spiritual leaders and their advice, Landau never ascribes to any organized sect or religion that might put a reader off – she explores them all and integrates what works for Lorna as she develops her personal understanding and method for achieving better grounding for her own life.
I am pleased to highly recommend this quick, fun read as a means to connect with a more meaningful life, even for those whose life experiences have placed them solidly in the traditional realm. Landau reminds us that there is more to life than fancy clothes, cars and the American Dream of the perfect guy and house. She is successfully leading us toward a life filled with happiness and peace. I expect Landau is well along on her own path to be the next Marianne Williamson – a guide who leads those of us who feel successful in our lives, but know that there’s more to life than the material world can offer.