As a psychiatrist who mostly provides help for people with serious chronic diseases, I haven’t found many memoirs to recommend to patients – the experience of illness is too personal and often too idiosyncratic for one person’s experience to apply well to another person. And I actively avoid the many, many books that purport to offer answers and cure. Learning Sickness is one book, however, that I have recommended to quite a few patients.
It is a very well written, honest description of a very significant year in the life of a young man with Crohn’s disease. The most valuable part, at least for my purposes, is that the book describes his transition from trying to live as if he was healthy to coming to accept that he has a disease. That arc is a journey that many people with chronic diseases will recognize and it is often an extraordinarily challenging one. It is all the more valuable to have a memoir from a person who has lived that transition, and brings the experience to life, because so many people have to find ways to deal with well-meaning friends and family who insist on equating acceptance with giving up. This is a book well worth reading.