This book and its author are a really good example of "talking the talk without walking the walk," or if you prefer, "burying a kernel of truth in so much garbage it totally overshadows the truth and alienates the reader.
The author was the featured speaker at a workshop I attended for people with disabilities and their families who wanted to become better advocates for themselves and their loved ones. We had read this book before her visit, and while I can't of course speak for anybody else present, I myself found the book amateurishly and tediously written.
I was quite willing to overlook the lackluster writing and say that the worst thing about it was its over-simplistic, one-size-fits-all, I'm-okay-you're-okay rah-rah-ness and assumed I would get a much better impression of Snow once I'd heard her presentation and talked with her in person.
I was wrong. Snow's philosophy is even more simplistic and unrealistic in person than it is in writing. What's more, it's coupled with a combative, confrontational, and rude personality. I witnessed firsthand her sneering contempt for a man who had won medals in Special Olympics, because she hates the idea of the Special Olympics. I watched her badger a mother as to why the mother's severely physically and mentally impaired son wasn't wearing a watch, regardless of the fact that he cannot tell time. And I was on the receiving end of her attempt to use the fact that I cannot see to try and make me believe that my brother, who was sitting right across from me, was laughing at me. He was not, and he was as shocked and upset as I was.
This author has no business advocating for anybody. She is an angry, bitter woman who has not drunk her own Kool-Aid yet demands that everybody else swallow it down. She isn't a disability advocate, she's a denier and a bully, and this book is a farce. And it's a shame, because disability awareness and inclusion is a very important and laudable cause. But we do not need these kind of tactics.