Both Ways is the Only Way I Want It

Both Ways is the Only Way I Want It

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Award-winning writer Maile Meloy's return to short stories explores complex lives in an austere landscape with the clear-sightedness that first endeared her to readers.

Meloy's first return to short stories since her critically acclaimed debut, Both Ways Is the Only Way I Want It is an extraordinary new work from one of the most promising writers of the last decade.

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Hardcover, 240 pages
Published July 9th 2009 by Riverhead Hardcover (first published 2009)
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Chana
A friend of mine asked me to read this book as it had received good reviews but she wasn't impressed with it. She wondered what I would think. So here it is:
From the title, "Both Ways Is The Only Way I Want It" I made the assumption that it was a book about relationships, a non-fiction book. And even though my usual reaction to pop psychology self-help books is a gag reflex, it probably would have been better than what this book turned out to be.
It is a book of fictional short stories about the...more
·Karen·
This wonderful title is a quote from a poem by A.R.Ammons, and is an apt description of the quandary encapsulated in each of these stories. Often enough the wanting it both ways is the classic case of the husband hoping to keep both wife and lover, or hoping for the chance to juggle the two - funny how it's rarely a woman trying to keep all the plates spinning. But this is not the only kind of wishful thinking, there is also the child who regrets the departure of her mother's glamorous lover and...more
Alan
Apr 20, 2011 Alan rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Alan by: short review
Meloy’s stories are flawless: the writing is clear and economic, the settings and ‘plot’ and characters conjured with minimum fuss. Altogether perfect pieces largely about adultery, and breaking marriages (or maybe not), but also about childhood incidents looming later, murder, rape, stalking and industrial accidents. The collection is aptly titled – the stories usually take the reader into a situation where a decision is about to be made, and often leave them with the outcome still in the balan...more
Barbara
Meloy captivated me immediately with her skill and finesse. She has certainly succeeded well in the art of the short story. Each tale captures the essence of her characters with mirth, sympathy or suspense.
I appreciate the recommendation by my good friends in Goodreads and anticipate reading more by this author.
alana Semuels
I usually don't go for collections of short stories -- usually the themes are so similar (immigrants have it hard, people cheat on their spouses, music is cool, that after the first few stories, I'm bored. Also, there's no plot egging you along, making it easy to put the book down. But I couldn't put this book down. The prose is gorgeous, the stories are simple and memorable. I read it in a day. If you're going to read one book of short stories, make it this one. Or Olive Kittredge. But this one...more
Barksdale Penick
These stories are all set in Montana but feel different from each other. That is, some collections of stories have a consistent ambience, but these didn't, although there were some consistent themes. Infidelity and coming of age appeared in many stories, in tales that mostly seemed very true to life. There was one story with a shocking set of facts, but mostly it is about the rhythms and routines of life. The young man driving eight hours to say hi to a girl he liked, who had showed little inter...more
Jo Case
The title of her fourth book is strangely apt for Maile Meloy. Her most recent novel, A Family Daughter, was a daring experiment in having it both ways, following the seductive literary soap opera that was her first. Liars and Saints followed the entwined lives of one Californian Catholic family, the Santerres, over sixty years. In A Family Daughter, Meloy resurrected a character whose death had been pivotal to Liars and Saints, making her the meta-fictional author of the original (and recasting...more
M
Malie Meloy offers darkly sugary tales of people who want it all in this collection of short stories. Each one offers its characters a glimpse at past, present, and future, as they decide which way to pursue their dreams. A drifter seek the attention of an out-of-town teacher in "Travis, B." Young co-ed Layton finds herself on a camping encounter at the behest of her lawyer father and his desired client in "Red and Green." The titular "Lovely Rita" is at the center of a small-town heartbreak, wh...more
Justin
Oct 15, 2011 Justin rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Kiesha
Recommended to Justin by: Brett
This book is collection of eleven short stories. I would never pick up a collection of short stories of my own volition. This collection, however, came highly recommended so I felt compelled to give it a chance. I liked it, or I should say, them. I cannot say that I have changed my mind on short stories, only that I liked this collection - helped in no small part that many of the stories were set in Montana.

The title provides the unifying theme of the collection. And I guess it was the theme th...more
Jill
To write short stories, you need to be a bit of a magician. You need to pull characters out of a hat, breathe life into them, and weave a spell around the willing reader. Maile Meloy has that gift. Her 11 transfixing short stories are the only way you’d want them – effortless, genuine, and sometimes unpredictable.

In all these stories, the characters are faced with a choice (not unlike Robert Frost’s “Two Roads Diverged”). One choice usually takes them in a stable direction; the other freedom and...more
Jeruen Dery
I revisited the short story genre again. And once more, I found one that I liked.

Both Ways is a collection of stories that deal with emotional and psychological conflicts across several people centered around Montana. Every story features two or three people dealing with romantic relationships, and the cute thing about this collection is that I am impressed with the way the author paints a complicated picture about these people in just 20 pages per story.

All the tension occurs at the psychologic...more
Patrick Faller
Meloy's is another collection of stories that is burdened by its reliance on formal constraints. The collection's title establishes the thrust of each piece--characters stuck between a rock and a hard place, forced to choose. This would be okay if not for the fact that short fiction as a genre rests of just such a convention. Short stories are constructs that dramatize the motivations and consequences of choices taken. It's a bit of letdown when Meloy brandishes the central convention of all goo...more
Denise
Both Ways Is the Only Way I Want It is a collection of short stories mostly featuring men and women living in the fringes of the American West. They inhabit those small, western towns were people still have one foot in older, more simple ways and one foot edging into the fast-paced, more technological world. The stories are written in a plain, honest language that feels natural for the setting and characters.

In general I'm not a big fan of short stories. They either draw me in and then leave me...more
Andrew
This book was 2 stars most of the way, but got up to 3 in the latter stages, which makes me wish there were a 2.5 star out there in the Goodreads universe. I was looking forward to this, b/c I remember really liking her first collection. This, however, was just okay. I'm sure expectation affects my reading, but as with another acclaimed loved-by-every-critic collection, Wells Tower's "Everything Ravaged...", these stories (with the exception of "Lovely Rita," most of "Augustin," and parts of "Th...more
Maggie Tiojakin
To be honest, I expected BIG things from Maile Meloy's "Both Ways Is The Only Way I Want It" -- because before I got to know the author, I was exposed to all kinds of excellent reviews which appeared in a number of well-respected publications. So, when "Both Ways" was chosen to lead the 2009 list of "Best Books of The Year" in The New York Times -- I thought to myself: I have to HAVE it! Nevertheless, with me living halfway across the globe (Indonesia) -- purchasing this book took quite a bit of...more
Barry

What a find! Maile Meloy, I suppose, is not newly found. It seems the heavyweights of the industry have heaped honours on her since her debut collection of stories in 2002. But she’s new to me and Both Ways is the Only Way I Want It is one of the best books of 2009.

This is an author with talent to burn but we get no writerly pyrotechnics. Meloy is confident enough to rely on her clear, unadorned prose to propel us along. Her stories flow, swiftly as a Montana stream, and get us there scarcely be...more
David
It was short story time this weekend, as I hunkered down with this collection, Wells Tower's "Everything Ravaged, Everything Burned", and "On the Nature of Human Romantic Interaction" by Karl Iagnemma.

This was the winner of the bunch, though Wells Tower came in a close second. I liked almost all of the stories in this collection ("The Children" was the only exception, so that Meloy's batting average was 10 out of 11), and a few, "Lovely Rita", "Liliana" and "Agustin", were true standouts.

It's...more
Younkin Pete
I had never read a book by Maile Meloy, heck, I'd never even heard of Maile Meloy before I read this book. I'm not sure how I learn about "new"(to me) authors or how I decide whose books to read, it's not a very systematic process, but I'm glad it lead me to this book.
This is a collection of stories largely set in Montana, with a range of characters who speak in similar ways(as opposed to Nam Le, where each story could have been written by a different author, there is a clear voice here). The...more
Erin
I'm constantly bringing home short story collections in an attempt to read them. While I generally find the idea of doing so irresistible, I rarely get through the first story, let alone the first few pages. When I do I'm left feeling cold, as if I've missed something I was supposed to understand.

Having come across the New York Times' list of the best books of 2009 by chance while at the library, I decided that I -had- to bring home the book deemed the best of ten given my strange attraction to...more
Rose
I should probably work on my bank of cliches, but both ways is exactly how Maile Meloy dishes it out: Her spare prose + that bull’s eye take on the human condition = Literature (yes, with a capital L).

As an undergrad I had an English professor tell me the short story genre was not a real one, that true Literature (literature with a capital L) could never call itself such under 250 pages. Needless to say (but in case it’s not), this professor’s specialties were 18th-century and Victorian novels....more
Lisa
This one's as solidly stunning as her first collection, Half in Love. Few flashy plot points, zero flashy sentences, but a confidence in the telling so acute that the characters' lives stay with you for a long time. And Maile gets the West the way few writers do--the comfort and anxiety of slow open spaces, the barreling toward progress and development and peopled places not inconsistent with the ache for untouched land. Put down everything else you're reading and read this one.
Stephen Gallup
I was feeling bogged down in a novel with too many characters and just happened to notice this short-story collection on my shelf. I have no idea where it came from, but it jumped into my hands and for a while practically seemed to be reading itself.

The title and supposed theme of the collection has to do with choices in life, but I don't find that part really compelling. All fiction involves people making choices, right? The theme of agonizing over one option or another is most obvious in the...more
Sherry
"One can't have it both ways and both ways is the only way I want it." A. R. Ammons. So begins the introduction to Maile Meloy's second short story compilation "Both Ways Is the Only Way I Want It". Eleven tales skillfully navigate the uncertainties people feel when they create tension between wanting something and having something: fidelity vs. desire; risk vs. stability; maintaining innocence while seeking experience. Meloy paints a portrait of the landscape of the heart: resilient, yet so dan...more
Xiuqin
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Peter
What does one do when one is sick on a Saturday Night? Apparently, one drinks Yogi Digestion Tea (One was out of Throat Comfort) and writes Goodreads reviews at 9:40.

Part of me thinks that if I wasn't suffering from a bad cold with side effects of crabbiness I would have given this book a better review. As it stands, I think it's more in 3.5 territory. It's a good collection of stories, and there are some gems to be sure. But ultimately, for me, Meloy's greatest strength was also her greatest w...more
Eric Kibler
This is an excellent collection of short stories. I found them very accessible, and gobbled this book down in short order.

Meloy's milieu, like Raymond Carver's, is the American Northwest, although there are some detours into other locales. The stories run the gamut from funny to poignant to downright creepy in tone, but are always compelling.

A lot of the stories have an undercurrent or a hint (sometimes more than a hint) of the danger that women and girls face from unpredictable male figures. I...more
Teresa
I love the title of this book, and it fits each and every story. (Though, I wish, perversely perhaps, the phrase hadn't been used in one of the later stories ("The Children") -- it was better, I think, to have the poem it's from used just as the epigraph.)

In each story, there is the surface story, and then there is at least one other layer that causes you to reflect after you've finished the story, causing you to wonder what might have been, if only this one thing had not happened or happened d...more
Katherine Pearl
Utterly readable stories about people you could encounter just about anywhere, but with Meloy’s deft hand their everyday struggles become absorbing dramas. The complexities of adultery take center stage in many of the stories, including the one from which the title was drawn. My favorites were the more unexpected narratives. A cowboy, desperately alone and lonely, latches on to a newly-minted lawyer who has made a career mistake that could only seem logical in today’s economy. A bereft father tr...more
Lynh
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Katy
This is my first short story collection in a while. I used to be crazy about short stories. When I started reading this I remembered why, then also immediately remembered why I stopped being so crazy about them -- I want more!!! It always feels like I'm gorging on desserts when I read a whole bunch of short stories at once. Even though these are beautifully written, I felt like I wanted to stop and keep going at the same time and that kind of cognitive stuff bugs me.

That said, "The Children" had...more
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Maile Meloy was born in Helena, Montana, in 1972. A Family Daughter is her third book. Her short stories have been published in The New Yorker and The Paris Review. Her first story collection, Half in Love, received the Rosenthal Foundation Award from the American Academy of Arts and Letters , the John C. Zacharis Award from Ploughshares, and the PEN/Malamud Award. Her first novel, Liars and Saint...more
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