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How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Simple Steps
It is possible to save your marriage. And it is not as complicated as many experts would lead you to believe. In fact, there are only 3 steps involved. And those steps are easily mastered. In this easily readable guide, Dr. Lee H. Baucom, Ph.D., the founder and creator of Save The Marriage, boils the process of saving your marriage down to 3 simple steps. If your marriage is in trouble (or headed for trouble), you will find help and direction in this simple, yet powerful, approach. If your spouse does not want to work on your marriage, you can STILL address the issues, working alone. If you and your spouse are working together, this guide will simplify the process and help you rekindle the connection that both of you are seeking. Do you find yourself wanting to work on your relationship, but are not even sure where to start? You will find a step-by-step guide that points out each step, telling you exactly where to start and what to do next. Are you frustrated with the relationship, but don't believe things can change? Your limiting beliefs are in your way. But you will discover how to change your limiting beliefs AND address the issues that are in the way. Do you find the same issues re-emerging after working on your relationship? You will discover how to work through the recurring issues. But more importantly, you will learn how to permanently heal the underlying issues. If you yearn for more in your relationship, or if you see that your marriage is headed for real trouble (and possibly divorce), you owe it to yourself, your spouse, your marriage, and your spouse, to unlock the simple secrets to an amazing marriage, regardless of the current problems. Is your relationship worth the risk? You can discover happiness for yourself and for your marriage, starting today.
- GenresMarriage
163 pages, Kindle Edition
First published October 1, 2013
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About the author
Lee H. Baucom
11 books6 followersFor the past 15 years, I've been answering the question, "Why am I here?" You and I, we both have a purpose. One that is bigger than whatever it is we are doing right now.
We are here to make a difference.
When I had a health crisis 15 years ago, I thought my time to make a difference was over. Gone. Before I was even 40 years old. I was fortunate. I recovered. And now, I am living in what I call "Bonus Time." The time I thought I wouldn't have.
Up until then, I was a therapist, doing my best to help people who came into my office. But I wasn't asking the question. I was doing my job.
Now I know that you and I, we only have a certain amount of time. We can spend that time without tapping into our purpose. Or we can find out what matters -- what really matters -- and we can do that.
My hope is that my writing unlocks a bigger life for you... a Thriving Life, full of meaning, purpose, significance, and IMPACT.
We are here to make a difference.
When I had a health crisis 15 years ago, I thought my time to make a difference was over. Gone. Before I was even 40 years old. I was fortunate. I recovered. And now, I am living in what I call "Bonus Time." The time I thought I wouldn't have.
Up until then, I was a therapist, doing my best to help people who came into my office. But I wasn't asking the question. I was doing my job.
Now I know that you and I, we only have a certain amount of time. We can spend that time without tapping into our purpose. Or we can find out what matters -- what really matters -- and we can do that.
My hope is that my writing unlocks a bigger life for you... a Thriving Life, full of meaning, purpose, significance, and IMPACT.
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July 1, 2018
Phenomenal
This book is completely insightful! I am using it in conjunction with the save the marriage system that he recommends! Although, my wife and I are far from being where we need to be, since I started following his system, I can see progress in our relationship where I didn’t think was possible and didn’t know how to create. Of all the things I’ve read out there about saving my marriage, his are what made the most sense to me and felt it the most right. Whenever I veered away from the teachings that Lee uses, I see my wife pulling away. Whenever I use his teachings, I see us coming closer to becoming a WE.
This book is completely insightful! I am using it in conjunction with the save the marriage system that he recommends! Although, my wife and I are far from being where we need to be, since I started following his system, I can see progress in our relationship where I didn’t think was possible and didn’t know how to create. Of all the things I’ve read out there about saving my marriage, his are what made the most sense to me and felt it the most right. Whenever I veered away from the teachings that Lee uses, I see my wife pulling away. Whenever I use his teachings, I see us coming closer to becoming a WE.
May 23, 2020
Ok
There is definitely some solid information in here to help strengthen relationships. My issues are that this book needs a better editor, and that it seems to go off on a general psychology tangent. It also reads like an infomercial for the author’s “system” in a number of places. Thankfully my marriage isn’t in danger of divorce, but if it was, I’m not sure how helpful this book would be - it’s just too scattered.
There is definitely some solid information in here to help strengthen relationships. My issues are that this book needs a better editor, and that it seems to go off on a general psychology tangent. It also reads like an infomercial for the author’s “system” in a number of places. Thankfully my marriage isn’t in danger of divorce, but if it was, I’m not sure how helpful this book would be - it’s just too scattered.
April 18, 2020
This is really an excellent book to use in marriage counseling, it is filled with good advice and steps to help married couples if they are having difficulties in their marriage and don't know where to turn for advice or help. It is definitely one book that I will get to keep on my shelves to use when needed. For those of us who do marriage counseling I highly recommend it. And if you are going through a difficult time in your marriage, get this book it can definitely help you! However, one caveat is the subtitle of the book, whereas the steps may be simple and easy, do not take them lightly. It will take work and a lot of time and patience to carry them out! Saving a marriage is not done in a few minutes, hours or even days it takes a lifetime. However, in the end it is worth it all! And after reading Dr. Baucom's book, I am assured that he would agree with that. Finally, I would encourage all married couples to get this book, highlight and digest it, you will be glad you did!
July 13, 2020
Less a star: Rambles a bit (for expansion purpose, it will be useful for some) and be aware there are plugs for his System (I've already paid for this book, so I'd rather it be Ad Free.)
What I like: It's useful easy to understand explanation about how relationships work and although this is about Marriage specifically, the info could be useful for any close personal relationships.
I recommend this book for anyone who is interested in relationship dynamics.
If it could be renamed to be more about relationship dynamics it would be a really great gift for newly weds.
This book reminds me of C.B.T therapy but without all the jargon and technical approach.
The book recommends you to take some more personal responsibility: so its not an approach to hope and feel Validated and some might say its Minimizing approach in that sense, but the authors point (as I understand it) is some kinds of Thoughts are Toxic/detrimental to relationships and really deserve to be actively minimized, and NOT validated... and definitely not acted upon.
What I like: It's useful easy to understand explanation about how relationships work and although this is about Marriage specifically, the info could be useful for any close personal relationships.
I recommend this book for anyone who is interested in relationship dynamics.
If it could be renamed to be more about relationship dynamics it would be a really great gift for newly weds.
This book reminds me of C.B.T therapy but without all the jargon and technical approach.
The book recommends you to take some more personal responsibility: so its not an approach to hope and feel Validated and some might say its Minimizing approach in that sense, but the authors point (as I understand it) is some kinds of Thoughts are Toxic/detrimental to relationships and really deserve to be actively minimized, and NOT validated... and definitely not acted upon.
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November 17, 2019
Very enlightening!
Fascinating book! I highlighted multiple parts on every page! I would definitely recommend for anyone in a long term committed relationship, regardless of the state that it’s in. Extremely eye opening and helpful.
Fascinating book! I highlighted multiple parts on every page! I would definitely recommend for anyone in a long term committed relationship, regardless of the state that it’s in. Extremely eye opening and helpful.
December 27, 2018
Strictly for research purposes of course...but this one is actually pretty good.
September 20, 2022
Dr Lee biocom is a master in marriage relationship,he has tremendous knowledge of relationship, thanks sir,keep going sir.
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