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Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way: A Guide to Letting Go of the Sh*t that's Holding You Back
An Amazon Editors Pick
“You can trust him.” --Tabitha Brown
IT AIN’T EASY GETTING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
THIS BOOK IS THE SOLUTION
If any of this sounds like you, it’s best you start reading this book now! You seek more fulfilling relationships and dating experiences You’re ready to shake off shame about past mistakes and step into your power You want to say “see ya” to the toxic people and emotional gut-punchers Your “people pleaser” days are over and it’s time to learn how to effectively say no MJ Harris has got a lot of “best friends”—over five million to be exact. His hilarious, straightforward, raw advice has made him the go-to person across social media for everything you need to know about getting your shit together.
He knows you need help—whether financial, spiritual, or in a relationship—because you never learned how to properly handle the hurt and anger you’ve experienced in the past, it has become the emotional trash in the way of being your best self. Don’t nobody want that!
Whether it’s fixing your family issues, situationships, money, or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to stop blocking yourself from bigger and better things.
This isn’t your gentle guide on breathing or journaling. MJ serves up no holds barred advice on how to navigate your emotions that will help you disrupt cycles of trauma, create boundaries, and transform into a goddess of emotional wholeness. Get the F*ck Out Your Own Way will help you learn how to make better choices and decisions. It will set you on the right path for a happier emotional life once and for all.
“You can trust him.” --Tabitha Brown
IT AIN’T EASY GETTING YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
THIS BOOK IS THE SOLUTION
If any of this sounds like you, it’s best you start reading this book now! You seek more fulfilling relationships and dating experiences You’re ready to shake off shame about past mistakes and step into your power You want to say “see ya” to the toxic people and emotional gut-punchers Your “people pleaser” days are over and it’s time to learn how to effectively say no MJ Harris has got a lot of “best friends”—over five million to be exact. His hilarious, straightforward, raw advice has made him the go-to person across social media for everything you need to know about getting your shit together.
He knows you need help—whether financial, spiritual, or in a relationship—because you never learned how to properly handle the hurt and anger you’ve experienced in the past, it has become the emotional trash in the way of being your best self. Don’t nobody want that!
Whether it’s fixing your family issues, situationships, money, or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to stop blocking yourself from bigger and better things.
This isn’t your gentle guide on breathing or journaling. MJ serves up no holds barred advice on how to navigate your emotions that will help you disrupt cycles of trauma, create boundaries, and transform into a goddess of emotional wholeness. Get the F*ck Out Your Own Way will help you learn how to make better choices and decisions. It will set you on the right path for a happier emotional life once and for all.
293 pages, Kindle Edition
Published January 9, 2024
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April 1, 2024
Can you handle this truth?
Once you get past all the cursing and a bit of weirdness; this book has deep authentic truths. I laughed and cried reading MJ’s book. The title does get your attention, although I wish it had a different title.
It did help me to see my tendencies of being “too nice.” As a Christian, I do want to help others; but I appreciate MJ’s wisdom about setting boundaries. Thank you MJ Harris
Once you get past all the cursing and a bit of weirdness; this book has deep authentic truths. I laughed and cried reading MJ’s book. The title does get your attention, although I wish it had a different title.
It did help me to see my tendencies of being “too nice.” As a Christian, I do want to help others; but I appreciate MJ’s wisdom about setting boundaries. Thank you MJ Harris
July 20, 2024
3.5 stars. I picked this one up for three reasons. First, it looked incredibly entertaining. Second, I find myself listening to people a lot and books like this help me understand and empathize. Third, I’m sure there are many ways that I block myself from progress and authenticity. So why not? It’s summer anyway 😂.
MJ Harris’ voice comes through loud and authentic. At the core, the message is one of self-worth and setting boundaries, two noble goals that so many struggle with usually because of unresolved trauma. Personally, I learned a lot from the emotional unavailability section and could probably do more to not project that image. Or maybe I’m just too extreme with my boundaries? Either way, a fun quick read.
MJ Harris’ voice comes through loud and authentic. At the core, the message is one of self-worth and setting boundaries, two noble goals that so many struggle with usually because of unresolved trauma. Personally, I learned a lot from the emotional unavailability section and could probably do more to not project that image. Or maybe I’m just too extreme with my boundaries? Either way, a fun quick read.
May 27, 2025
This book is exactly the kind of tough love many of us need. MJ Harris brings humor, honesty, and a whole lot of real talk to the table, offering guidance on everything from toxic relationships to emotional baggage. His voice is direct and unapologetic, and that’s part of what makes the advice so impactful.
This isn’t your typical self-help book filled with clichés and surface-level solutions. MJ dives into the messy stuff and gives readers the tools to confront it head-on. His approach is more like a conversation with a brutally honest, yet loving, friend. If you're looking for straight talk and the motivation to finally stop holding yourself back, this book absolutely delivers.
This isn’t your typical self-help book filled with clichés and surface-level solutions. MJ dives into the messy stuff and gives readers the tools to confront it head-on. His approach is more like a conversation with a brutally honest, yet loving, friend. If you're looking for straight talk and the motivation to finally stop holding yourself back, this book absolutely delivers.
July 6, 2024
Great read
I loved the directness in this book. It is very relatable for all ages. MJ hit things head-on. I loved at the end of each chapter MJ gave directions on how to make the necessary changes. They didn't make people feel like their way of living was perfect. They let you know you have choices. There are so many gems in this book.
I loved the directness in this book. It is very relatable for all ages. MJ hit things head-on. I loved at the end of each chapter MJ gave directions on how to make the necessary changes. They didn't make people feel like their way of living was perfect. They let you know you have choices. There are so many gems in this book.
May 17, 2025
Straight Forward!
Very Straight Forward! Very Unapologetic! Very Encouraging! Very Relatable! Very Real! Straight to the point! Each chapter shares many amazing gems about being your most authentic and unapologetic self while setting your own healthy boundaries.
Very Straight Forward! Very Unapologetic! Very Encouraging! Very Relatable! Very Real! Straight to the point! Each chapter shares many amazing gems about being your most authentic and unapologetic self while setting your own healthy boundaries.
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