For early childhood educators, caregivers, nannies, and parents dealing with a child who bites other children and/or adults, this practical guide provides proven and realistic advice,
* how to intervene immediately after a child bites * seven key questions to help you assess exactly why a child bites * what adults need to know about child development, temperament, language skills, and limit setting to actually prevent biting * a puppet show script and songs that help kids communicate their feelings without biting, hitting or other inappropriate behavior * case studies of how this approach works with toddlers, two year olds, and three year olds
I think this book presents practical advice for how to understand and help children navigate strong emotions. I’m looking forward to applying the information it provided.
The only thing I wish it would have mentioned is when your child bite themselves. It will be interesting to see if the suggestions improve this behavior as well.
I bought this book after my 11-month-old had a few biting incidents at his daycare. I was feeling distraught, unsure how to help him learn not to do this. But the book gave me a clear plan of action. It explains how to correct a pre-verbal child in a way that he will come to understand, and that actually works -- within two weeks or so of correcting him, my son stopped biting. The book is also really helpful in that it explains the child's point of view, at various stages of development. Having a sense of what my son was thinking when he bites was incredibly helpful to me, so I could anticipate when it might happen and avoid putting him in that situation. I would highly recommend this to anyone who needs a little help dealing with this challenging phase.
Often asked for help when a child is biting I purchased this book for our collection. As with any informative book, you must practice what you have learned. From a public library collection standpoint I wish it did not have worksheets inside. The single most important piece of information I found was the Reasoning with your Child section. Adults often ask the child ..How would you feel if someone bit you - don't do that to someone...yet the child was not given any tools to use when the biting urge strikes. This book will give you some much needed suggestions and examples.