"Being underestimated often helps the small person to feel nevertheless at a certain height."
"In tolerance there always lurks a certain arrogance. When you say no, however impudently, you place yourself still on one and the same level with the person who has said yes. But if you tolerate him, you are his
patron."
"Perhaps the most horrifying symptoms of life are the things — manners of behavior, joys, beliefs — with which people make life bearable for themselves. Nothing reveals so much the depths of the human level as what man reaches for in order to be able to continue his life."
"It is nonsense to say that life should be made into a work of art. Life has its own norms, ideal demands, that are only to be realized as and in the form of life — and cannot be borrowed from art, which has its own."
"With many people, the depth of their life (and indeed an actual, by no means contemptible one) consists in suffering over its superficiality."
"The poet—at least the dramatic poet—possesses the great love that gives rights even to one who is wrong. At least the right of existence. In actuality, evil does not exist on a basis of right, but only because it is there. In the work of art, though, it has an existence only because it is entitled to it."
"To C. F. Meyer’s phrase, “Enough is not enough,” one must counter with the following: enough is already too much. That is the deep contradiction in the relation of everything eudaimonistic/epicurean to the totality of our life — every such thing is for us either too little or too much. The first leaps into the second without passing through the equilibrium-range of “enough."
"Desire has already stepped beyond its climax when one recognizes it — sorrow, however, only approaches its climax at that point."
"Innumerable love and marriage relationships run aground or at least
lead to the deepest disillusionments because we tend to forget that an
experience can never be repeated as the same thing — even the fact that it was already there once before creates different psychic conditions for the repetition than the original possessed. If today we had an hour of happiness, we believe it could be repeated tomorrow and the next day and forever because the outward conditions — and in broad measure the inner ones as well — have remained the same. Yet happiness is just as difficult to repeat as any other psychic condition. Only someone who can create a new happiness tomorrow can have the same happiness tomorrow as today."
"The highest art of living: adapting oneself without making concessions.
The unhappiest natural condition: always making concessions and yet never reaching adaptation."
"It is astounding how little of the pain of humanity has passed over into its philosophy."