Knowing your relationship style is important because your strengths and weaknesses in a relationship can help you alter your mental processes and gain an understanding of what makes a relationship flourish. Your attachment style may be the key to understanding your perspective on how relationships should work. Certain attachments can create misery that leads to insecurity and feelings of being unfulfilled. Are you constantly putting your desires before your partner’s needs? And are you expecting someone else to make you happy instead of realizing that happiness comes from within? Is your partner distancing him or herself from you? Fearing rejection and abandonment, a person with the fearful avoidant attachment style is passive-aggressive My goal is to help you understand the four types of attachments and how they can either hinder or improve your relationships. Write what you feel and see yourself when it comes to your relationship. You’ll learn about your attachment style and how to make changes so you can make healthy decisions.
ALL ABOUT YOU Write the best of you and your love style. What makes you happy and sad? It is important to know who you are in a relationship so that you can allow your partner to understand who you are in your own words.
BE HONEST We all have sides we do not want to accept. Are you clingy as they all say? Does your partner see you as a doormat because you take anything to keep them around? Express yourself here so you can see what changes you need to make to improve yourself.
WHAT DO YOU DESIRE ? What is your deepest desire when it comes to a relationship? Who are you when things do not go your way? The more you write the clearer the picture will become of your love style and what changes you must make to improve yourself to have a healthy happy relationship.
Antoinette M. Watkins writes under the pen name Johanna Sparrow and has been writing for over 22 years. She has published a variety of writings ranging from self-help books to children's stories. In these books, she tackles dealing with personal growth, relationships, conflict issues, and much more. She has used her expertise, knowledge, and experience to create a personal system that she has used since 1995. The "Heart Bruised Conscious Connection Renewal" (HBCRR) system helps in strengthening relationships.