Rachel2,050 reviews43 followersFollowFollowReadJuly 24, 2025I wrote a glowing review when I read the book in 2001. The authors were my marriage counselors. In retrospect, I don't feel at all glowing about them. And for all their (or his?) lovely descriptions of being soulmates, they divorced just a few years later. My marriage ended before that, but my ex and I had joked that we didn't know if they would last even as long as us. They were very supportive of narcissism, which they were unable to recognize, and he got quite angry at me for not wanting to get deeper than one book into the enneagram. I don't mean to attack anyone personally; I hope the authors are living great lives. But this book is lots of pretty talk that apparently didn't work even for them.psychology-brain
