Confessions of a Christian Spinster: Finding Purpose in a Perplexed and Paired-Up Church

by Alisha Plummer

Encourages, challenges, and orients singles and ministry leaders to the role of the unmarried in church

Being single in today's church often feels like a waiting game. You're put on hold in ministry, service, even spiritual growth until you say "I do," and you're either pitied or not seen at all. Unlike today's church, God is not mystified by the presence of unmarried Christ-followers in the pews. In fact, he has masterful plans for those without a ring on their finger. Alisha Plummer points out how God is eager to empower them with purpose and passion.

In Confessions of a Christian Spinster , Alisha explores God's design specifically for Christian singlehood through amusing tales and scripturally based truths. She tackles the difficult questions the church often ignores, Where do I fit in? Does the church even want me? Has God forgotten about me? What happens if I never get married? Further, she confronts the church, calling for an adjustment to its couple-centric culture, and asking Christians to understand that their single brothers and sisters are not only valued by God but integral to his kingdom.

Singles will feel seen through Alisha's words; they'll be encouraged to seize their role in the church and inspire their pastoral staff to reinvent their culture on singleness. is a powerful resource for those seeking to live and thrive in a perplexed church--and a way forward for the church itself.

Genres: Christian Living

248 pages, Paperback

Published May 16, 2023

Reviews

[Erika Cisneros · Rating 5 out of 5]

Such a great reminder that no matter what phase in life, the important thing is to live for God. We are all given gifts and there is a challenge in the book to identify your giftings and use them to the fullest! Definitely a read for all Christians, not just singles in the church. Everyone can glean insight and wisdom from the book!

[Ellen Osborn · Rating 5 out of 5]

I enjoyed reading how the author navigated in their journey through singleness, and finished the book feeling drawn closer to God through her experiences and reflections. There is a good mix of encouragement and challenges that make the reader feel both connected with fellow believers and more confident in their own unique faith journey.

[Josh · Rating 5 out of 5]

Loved this book! Even for someone who falls outside the category of "Christian Spinster", it was an engaging and challenging read. There were enough stories and humor interspersed to keep this reader's attention and has an absolutely genuine thread throughout.

[Hannah · Rating 5 out of 5]

I loved this book! I read it when I was single (not even in a talking stage) and it brought me so much clarity. I would highly recommend it to anyone, even those who are married. It's so insightful and I will be referencing it for years to come.