Tragic Learning to Navigate Life In Tough Times is an intimate and transparent memoir of how one mother discovered her own inner strength while enduring the heartbreaking fight for her children's lives. Author Diane Davis documents the tragedy of addiction, depression, and the downward spiral of those closest to her. Although tragic, she discovers victory, love; and an unexpected, joyful new beginning. This story will empower survivors of trauma and parents who've experienced the loss of their child or children to continue moving forward in pursuit of the inevitable light on the other side.
I was very touched by this book. With roots in the North Bay and Philadelphia — two places I have also called home — Diane Davis takes us through the shock and devastation of the sudden losses of her two adult children. The all-too-familiar pain, anxiety, and anticipatory grief of loving someone in the throes of addiction is palpable; day-to-day life is never settled, constantly suspended on a string. And yet our lives must continue marching on our own track, wherever it may lead us, despite the worries and the fears about our struggling loved ones and what may happen to them. There is little we can do to prevent disaster or to become saviors, but through a form of saintliness, Diane and her husband’s spirits prevail as they go on to raise their grandson after her daughter’s death. They provide him with a joyful and loving life seemingly filled with opportunity. As a person whose life has been seriously affected by loved ones’ addictions, I found much to love in Tragic Victory. The timing of reading this was meaningful for me, too; Diane, chillingly, mailed me a review copy days before a family member’s sudden passing in an accident. I picked it up when it called. Thank you, Diane, for sharing this heartbreaking story of grief, love, and faith with us. This book deserves a space in our hearts and on our shelves.
Tragic Victory by Diane Davis. Davis documents her grievous loss of both her son and daughter to alcohol and drug addiction. Her journey to find strength and meaning in life after such heartbreaking tragedies is powerful. Davis also provides insight and lists of programs to help others living through these same struggles and plights of addiction, suicide, trauma and loss.