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104 pages, Paperback
First published February 28, 2004
When I voiced out my thoughts to my mother, she just shook her head sadly and told me to raise my hand and look at my fingers. 'You see, Nyima,' she said, 'even the fingers are not equal. My dear daughter, it is written in the Holy Book that men shall lead women into eternity. And so, my child, it will remain.'
Her words did not deter me. I believe that men should indeed lead women but they should not control them like puppets on strings. Women should be allowed to voice their thoughts, as in my case. I wanted to tell my uncle that I did not want to marry Pa Momat. I wanted to complete my education and become a teacher so that I could share my knowledge with others. I wanted to scream it all out, let loose all of my torments and frustration, but tradition and customs prevented that. A woman had to accept her destiny and mine was to marry Pa Momat. (P.15)