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Misnamed, Misdiagnosed, Misunderstood: Recognizing and Coping with NVLD (Nonverbal Learning Disorder) from Childhood Through Adulthood
Do you find it hard to communicate? …You could have NVLD!
Non-Verbal Learning Disorder (NLD or NVLD) is a learning disability characterised by poor visual, spatial, and organizational skills. As well as incredible difficulty processing nonverbal cues. The name “Non-Verbal Learning Disorder” suggests that those affected have trouble speaking. However, this is not the case with NVLDers usually having above-average intelligence and firm mastery of complex vocabulary and language.
But the vast majority of human communication is non-verbal — body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice. Those with NVLD have trouble interpreting this non-verbal language and must rely on words alone to understand what others mean, which can lead to difficulties.
Linda Karanzalis shares her own experience as a child, teen, and adult battling undiagnosed NVLD. This book is a frank account of her struggles with academics, jobs, and relationships that sheds light on and will ring true for everyone affected by NVLD. This inspirational book will guide you on recognizing and coping with NVLD and how it differs from its common misdiagnosed disability; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and or Autism Level One (formerly Aspergers).
Linda not only empowers others to achieve their goals but also serves as a role model offering understanding, hope, and inspiration to NVLDers of all ages.
Grab Misnamed, Misdiagnosed, Misunderstood today and equip yourself with this new knowledge and apply your understanding to your life to achieve the potential you were always meant to.
Non-Verbal Learning Disorder (NLD or NVLD) is a learning disability characterised by poor visual, spatial, and organizational skills. As well as incredible difficulty processing nonverbal cues. The name “Non-Verbal Learning Disorder” suggests that those affected have trouble speaking. However, this is not the case with NVLDers usually having above-average intelligence and firm mastery of complex vocabulary and language.
But the vast majority of human communication is non-verbal — body language, facial expressions, and tone of voice. Those with NVLD have trouble interpreting this non-verbal language and must rely on words alone to understand what others mean, which can lead to difficulties.
Linda Karanzalis shares her own experience as a child, teen, and adult battling undiagnosed NVLD. This book is a frank account of her struggles with academics, jobs, and relationships that sheds light on and will ring true for everyone affected by NVLD. This inspirational book will guide you on recognizing and coping with NVLD and how it differs from its common misdiagnosed disability; Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) and or Autism Level One (formerly Aspergers).
Linda not only empowers others to achieve their goals but also serves as a role model offering understanding, hope, and inspiration to NVLDers of all ages.
Grab Misnamed, Misdiagnosed, Misunderstood today and equip yourself with this new knowledge and apply your understanding to your life to achieve the potential you were always meant to.
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Published November 22, 2022
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July 27, 2023
As an adult with NVLD as well as ADHD, I have been trying to get my hands on anything that can possibly help me make the most out of my life.
This book has deeply encouraged and touched my heart. I saw myself on every single page. Someone understands my struggles. I feel legitimately seen for the first time.
Not only did I receive encouragement from this book, but, I also found tangible things to help me in my daily life, the "how to's" that I had been looking for. It also let me know that somehow, I was also on the right track. I know that, somehow, it is possible to live a full life and to gain some kind of independence.
I am extremely thankful to have found this book.
This book has deeply encouraged and touched my heart. I saw myself on every single page. Someone understands my struggles. I feel legitimately seen for the first time.
Not only did I receive encouragement from this book, but, I also found tangible things to help me in my daily life, the "how to's" that I had been looking for. It also let me know that somehow, I was also on the right track. I know that, somehow, it is possible to live a full life and to gain some kind of independence.
I am extremely thankful to have found this book.
September 30, 2024
I met Linda at the International ADHD Conference in 2023, where I first learned about her book. Immediately following it, I purchased it and have learned so much. As someone who graduated with her Masters in Students with Disabilities and has taught, been an administrator, and a coach for neurodivergent students and adults, the research has been so limited for NVLD. The overlap of symptoms between NVLD, other processing issues, ADHD, learning disorders, and autism can sometimes be challenging to tease apart as an educator, parent, and clinician.
This is why Linda's book is so important to help guide educators, parents, and other professionals trying to understand what the symptoms mean in ourselves, our children, students, or patients so we can better manage them and work to level the playing field.
Thank you Linda for your expert information and for being a trailblazer in the field!
This is why Linda's book is so important to help guide educators, parents, and other professionals trying to understand what the symptoms mean in ourselves, our children, students, or patients so we can better manage them and work to level the playing field.
Thank you Linda for your expert information and for being a trailblazer in the field!
November 29, 2022
I received an advance reader copy (ARC) of the book. All I can say is that this is a much-needed book! Many people—laypeople and even health care and allied health professionals alike—are unfamiliar with invisible disabilities, particularly neurodevelopmental conditions, and the concept of neurodiversity. Since neurodivergent people (those with neurodevelopmental conditions) or NDs are wired differently from their neurotypical (NT) counterparts (those with normal brain function) and are expected to conform to NT standards, they often struggle in many aspects of life, leading to other conditions such as depression and anxiety. These neurological differences also cause frequent conflicts between NDs and NTs. Linda’s book helps build a bridge to understanding between them.
As someone with diagnosed ADHD, undiagnosed dyspraxia or developmental coordination disorder (DCD), and math difficulties, I really appreciate Linda’s coverage on ADHD and particularly dyspraxia and NVLD. Dyspraxia (DCD) and NVLD are little-known conditions. DCD is included in the DSM-5 but not covered under the ADA. There’s little to no awareness of dyspraxia (DCD) in the US and the rest of the world except the UK and some Commonwealth countries where dyspraxia-related resources and assistance are more plentiful, so I’m glad that a US-based author is spreading awareness on this condition. There’s no official recognition for NVLD whatsoever. The lack of knowledge of these conditions makes it difficult for those with these disabilities to get proper school and workplace accommodations. Some people like me have used a workaround—using a recognized neurodevelopmental condition they already have to get accommodations for an unrecognized or little-known one, especially when those recognized and unrecognized conditions have overlapping symptoms or traits). Unfortunately, this doesn’t always work out.
After reading this book, I’ve realized that I also have NVLD traits, particularly difficulties in social interaction (one example in particular that my NT family likes to cite is gullibility when I was much younger, though I’m less naïve these days), motor coordination, visual-spatial processing, and math.
In the book, Linda encourages NDs to accept themselves for who they are and play to their strengths, which they do have. (Educators and employers, take note!) She provides educational and employment resources for NDs. She also highly recommends self-employment, which allows for self-accommodation.
Linda’s book should be required reading for everyone, especially NDs (and those who haven’t been diagnosed or suspect they’re NDs), their loved ones, health care professionals, coaching professionals, education professionals, and employment professionals (HR, recruitment, etc.).
As someone with diagnosed ADHD, undiagnosed dyspraxia or developmental coordination disorder (DCD), and math difficulties, I really appreciate Linda’s coverage on ADHD and particularly dyspraxia and NVLD. Dyspraxia (DCD) and NVLD are little-known conditions. DCD is included in the DSM-5 but not covered under the ADA. There’s little to no awareness of dyspraxia (DCD) in the US and the rest of the world except the UK and some Commonwealth countries where dyspraxia-related resources and assistance are more plentiful, so I’m glad that a US-based author is spreading awareness on this condition. There’s no official recognition for NVLD whatsoever. The lack of knowledge of these conditions makes it difficult for those with these disabilities to get proper school and workplace accommodations. Some people like me have used a workaround—using a recognized neurodevelopmental condition they already have to get accommodations for an unrecognized or little-known one, especially when those recognized and unrecognized conditions have overlapping symptoms or traits). Unfortunately, this doesn’t always work out.
After reading this book, I’ve realized that I also have NVLD traits, particularly difficulties in social interaction (one example in particular that my NT family likes to cite is gullibility when I was much younger, though I’m less naïve these days), motor coordination, visual-spatial processing, and math.
In the book, Linda encourages NDs to accept themselves for who they are and play to their strengths, which they do have. (Educators and employers, take note!) She provides educational and employment resources for NDs. She also highly recommends self-employment, which allows for self-accommodation.
Linda’s book should be required reading for everyone, especially NDs (and those who haven’t been diagnosed or suspect they’re NDs), their loved ones, health care professionals, coaching professionals, education professionals, and employment professionals (HR, recruitment, etc.).
February 7, 2024
It’s like seeing my self in form of book…
December 7, 2022
A timely self-help guide to identify, understand, and manage a non-verbal learning disorder
There is no visible sign of a non-verbal learning disability. You may look like other people, but your or your child’s brain functions differently from that of others. You find it hard to know where your body is in relation to spaces. And it’s near-impossible to read and interpret the body language or tone of voice of others. The result? You make inaccurate conclusions. This affects your ability to learn and interact with others at school or at work.
Sometimes, the symptoms overlap with conditions like ADHD or autism 1. Despite therapy, there’s little improvement in their quality of life. Instead, there are broken friendships, low self-esteem, rejection, anxiety, and depression. And, eventually, a loss of hope.
Does this sound familiar? This is where this book comes in. It offers help from someone familiar with these symptoms. She has learned how to overcome them and offers tips and solutions to help others live their best lives.
This condition is personal to the writer. She understands how you feel. As a learning disorder specialist, she first explains the science. Then, she offers screening questions to parents, adolescents, and adults. They also get a comprehensive checklist of the characteristics of the disorder. Best of all, she offers guidance to navigate school, higher education, and work.
Karanzalis shares about her life as a learner and adult. Her anecdotes show how she navigated life despite her differences. The writer’s supportive parents helped her see “being different is okay”, and it’s heartwarming to know. There are also personal stories of individuals she has helped with practical coping mechanisms.
Karanzalis encourages parents to trust their instincts. And not to delay seeking multi-professional help for their children.
Once past the science, the book is easy to understand. It’s packed with lessons learned, tips and resources. The disorder is yet to be included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. But it fills the gap in recognizing its differences from similar conditions. That paves the way to offer a special educational service. It’s not a one-size-fits-all handbook. Instead, it provides innovative interventions and information from an inspirational role model.
Finally, the book provides hope for individuals and families. It is also a must-have resource for counselors, educators, and healthcare professionals.
I received an ARC from Reedsy and am voluntarily leaving a review.
There is no visible sign of a non-verbal learning disability. You may look like other people, but your or your child’s brain functions differently from that of others. You find it hard to know where your body is in relation to spaces. And it’s near-impossible to read and interpret the body language or tone of voice of others. The result? You make inaccurate conclusions. This affects your ability to learn and interact with others at school or at work.
Sometimes, the symptoms overlap with conditions like ADHD or autism 1. Despite therapy, there’s little improvement in their quality of life. Instead, there are broken friendships, low self-esteem, rejection, anxiety, and depression. And, eventually, a loss of hope.
Does this sound familiar? This is where this book comes in. It offers help from someone familiar with these symptoms. She has learned how to overcome them and offers tips and solutions to help others live their best lives.
This condition is personal to the writer. She understands how you feel. As a learning disorder specialist, she first explains the science. Then, she offers screening questions to parents, adolescents, and adults. They also get a comprehensive checklist of the characteristics of the disorder. Best of all, she offers guidance to navigate school, higher education, and work.
Karanzalis shares about her life as a learner and adult. Her anecdotes show how she navigated life despite her differences. The writer’s supportive parents helped her see “being different is okay”, and it’s heartwarming to know. There are also personal stories of individuals she has helped with practical coping mechanisms.
Karanzalis encourages parents to trust their instincts. And not to delay seeking multi-professional help for their children.
Once past the science, the book is easy to understand. It’s packed with lessons learned, tips and resources. The disorder is yet to be included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders. But it fills the gap in recognizing its differences from similar conditions. That paves the way to offer a special educational service. It’s not a one-size-fits-all handbook. Instead, it provides innovative interventions and information from an inspirational role model.
Finally, the book provides hope for individuals and families. It is also a must-have resource for counselors, educators, and healthcare professionals.
I received an ARC from Reedsy and am voluntarily leaving a review.
November 28, 2022
I am a parent of a child with NVLD. I just started reading this book and it I am SO grateful that it exists. I have already sent the link to our psychologist, counselor, and occupational therapist. It is so difficult to explain NVLD in a world that looks at the outward appearance. Linda has done an excellent job of sharing the science of NVLD as well as what it is like to live with it. As a woman who grew up with NVLD, she shares personal stories and practical tips on how adults and children with NVLD can have the best life. She outlines what NVLD is and isn't and how those with NVLD see the world - that in and of itself is gold. I feel like I can understand my child better and even explain it to others. I am looking forward to finishing the book and will update if necessary, but for now, let me tell you - if you or a loved one has been diagnosed with NVLD, you need this book.
**I received an advance copy of this book for a voluntary objective review.**
**I received an advance copy of this book for a voluntary objective review.**
December 4, 2022
Linda Karanzalis has provided the NVLD community a valuable resource, blending research with clinical guidance while helping the reader to understand what living with NVLD can feel like.
Regardless of how you found your way to this book, there is something here for you.
• If you are asking yourself, “What is going on? Could this be NVLD?” Linda gets you started with checklists of characteristics and deficits, screening questions for parents , and screening questions for adolescents and adults.
• If you are supporting a child who may have NVLD, Linda provides strategies and guidance for navigating the school years.
• If you are assisting a young person develop plans for their adult years, Linda offers insights into living choices, higher education, and work life.
While acknowledging that living with NVLD is not an easy journey, Linda instills hope, insight, and courage. Linda provides with guidance, strategies, and hope.
Regardless of how you found your way to this book, there is something here for you.
• If you are asking yourself, “What is going on? Could this be NVLD?” Linda gets you started with checklists of characteristics and deficits, screening questions for parents , and screening questions for adolescents and adults.
• If you are supporting a child who may have NVLD, Linda provides strategies and guidance for navigating the school years.
• If you are assisting a young person develop plans for their adult years, Linda offers insights into living choices, higher education, and work life.
While acknowledging that living with NVLD is not an easy journey, Linda instills hope, insight, and courage. Linda provides with guidance, strategies, and hope.
December 17, 2024
Having just received an NVLD diagnosis in my mid-30s after a lifetime of challenges that seemed random and difficult to pinpoint, I came into this hoping to understand more about my own brain and the neurodevelopmental disorder itself. This book did not disappoint. Linda Karanzalis provides a comprehensive look at NVLD and her own lived experience through childhood and adulthood, as well those of her NVLD clients.
While I did learn a lot, I'm left saddened and frustrated by the way the medical system has failed those of us with the diagnosis — the lack of resources, research, and attention, and more generally, the lack of understanding. That said, I felt validated by the author and her experiences, and I'm grateful for this resource, as well as the many others she provides.
While I did learn a lot, I'm left saddened and frustrated by the way the medical system has failed those of us with the diagnosis — the lack of resources, research, and attention, and more generally, the lack of understanding. That said, I felt validated by the author and her experiences, and I'm grateful for this resource, as well as the many others she provides.
January 6, 2026
The book had a lot of information, much of which I appreciated given that I know so very little about NVLD. This was recommended to me by the neuropsychologist that diagnosed my son with NVLD and I am very glad that I read it as there are aspects of NVLD that read like a biography of one of my sons! Other parts felt like there was a fair amount of bitterness behind that writing and perhaps some helplessness (which other parts of the book warn parents of 'NVLDers' to be wary of), so there was some things in there I needed to put the book down to not be annoyed about. All of this being said, it has been a big benefit to me as a parent and an educator to know about this and have some skills to use to help those around me that may present some of the symptoms.
January 15, 2023
Great book! Like all books about NVLd, I wish there were more details about solutions for adults, but this book gives a great overview of the topic!
May 18, 2025
Exceptional- truly exceptional
May 28, 2025
The checklist in this book really drove me to wanting to explore more. I feel this book really creates community in this type of diagnosis.
January 6, 2026
como uma pessoa com tanv me identifiquei demais com isso aqui. confesso que esperava um livro um pouco mais complexo, científico (talvez essa parte deveria ser um pouco mais mesmo, principalmente na questão do aconselhamento de tratamentos) com mais algumas grandes explicações etc., acabou que foi um pouco diferente, mas ainda assim valeu bastante a pena. a história do James no final tem similaridades muito grandes com a minha, foi realmente algo que me chamou muito a atenção e não estava esperando por algo assim quando estava chegando no final.
December 7, 2022
Linda K’s book Misnamed, Misdiagnosed Misunderstand is fluidly written. It is easily understandable and can bring light to so many people. Not only helping those who have NVLD & their families but anyone reading this will be enlightened upon completion of this book and recognize that they know people with NVLD.
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