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Generation Exile: The Lives I Leave Behind
“If you ever sing those songs again, they will kill your daddy,” the boy’s mother warned him after he continued to sing one of the hymns of the Chilean revolution in public. Rodrigo Dorfman, the son of prominent dissidents, was six years old when his family fled Augusto Pinochet’s military dictatorship a month after the CIA-backed coup in 1973.
In his fascinating memoir, Dorfman writes about his experiences as an exile and a migrant. He was dragged away from his homeland, “seduced by the thrill of flying on airplanes and visiting far-away places,” but reassured the family would return soon. They fled to Argentina, and then to Havana, Paris, Amsterdam and finally Bethesda, Maryland. His muse and identity were “sealed and stamped with that curse, with that blessing, with that irresistible myth: the eternal return.”
Mapping the memory of exile, he remembers the contradiction of living with his seething anger at losing his home and his resistance to settling down. Rebellion was an ancestral badge of honor he wore proudly. At 18, he returned to Chile and fought against the fascist dictatorship, running for his life with bullets and tear gas flying by. Dorfman’s involvement in the resistance movement there planted the seeds for his future life as a community-centered documentary filmmaker. His restless search for a place to call his own led to his wandering—around the United States, to Morocco and Turkey and the Path of Sufism. He finally made a home in the American South, where he became a “Latino” and found kinship with other immigrants who settled there. This compelling narrative recounts a displaced man’s life-long quest to establish family, roots and a sense of belonging by bearing witness to what he calls the “Nuevo South.”
In his fascinating memoir, Dorfman writes about his experiences as an exile and a migrant. He was dragged away from his homeland, “seduced by the thrill of flying on airplanes and visiting far-away places,” but reassured the family would return soon. They fled to Argentina, and then to Havana, Paris, Amsterdam and finally Bethesda, Maryland. His muse and identity were “sealed and stamped with that curse, with that blessing, with that irresistible myth: the eternal return.”
Mapping the memory of exile, he remembers the contradiction of living with his seething anger at losing his home and his resistance to settling down. Rebellion was an ancestral badge of honor he wore proudly. At 18, he returned to Chile and fought against the fascist dictatorship, running for his life with bullets and tear gas flying by. Dorfman’s involvement in the resistance movement there planted the seeds for his future life as a community-centered documentary filmmaker. His restless search for a place to call his own led to his wandering—around the United States, to Morocco and Turkey and the Path of Sufism. He finally made a home in the American South, where he became a “Latino” and found kinship with other immigrants who settled there. This compelling narrative recounts a displaced man’s life-long quest to establish family, roots and a sense of belonging by bearing witness to what he calls the “Nuevo South.”
194 pages, Paperback
First published March 31, 2023
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December 25, 2023
Dorfman's career as a documentary filmmaker shines through in the writing style and pace of his memoir. It is in the intimate closeups of the interpersonal and the distant wide angle lens on the societal. Unflinchingly, he arms the reader with information regarding the Pinochet coup in Chile and all its consequence within and outside of Chile's borders. Generation Exile manages to be at once lighthearted and reverent, candid and complex, ultimately a wholly human presentation of the self--flaws and triumphs combined.
I appreciated that, for all that Dorfman sheds light on his and his family's exiles and the turmoil they faced, he simultaneously is aware and acknowledges the relative privileges they had, from political and social connections to sheer luck. It is difficult to be the one to speak on matters that Dorfman touches on, when there have been voices forever silenced and voices that cannot bridge the gap of opportunity, and the author handles this graciously.
I had the opportunity to meet Rodrigo Dorfman at a panel where I purchased this, and the book is, truly, "a testament to no longer being on the run." I'm honored to be the first to write for you an indepth review. Isang bagsak, and happy holidays to you and your family.
I appreciated that, for all that Dorfman sheds light on his and his family's exiles and the turmoil they faced, he simultaneously is aware and acknowledges the relative privileges they had, from political and social connections to sheer luck. It is difficult to be the one to speak on matters that Dorfman touches on, when there have been voices forever silenced and voices that cannot bridge the gap of opportunity, and the author handles this graciously.
I had the opportunity to meet Rodrigo Dorfman at a panel where I purchased this, and the book is, truly, "a testament to no longer being on the run." I'm honored to be the first to write for you an indepth review. Isang bagsak, and happy holidays to you and your family.
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