Unorthodox meets Start with Why: how escaping a cult led Debbie Haski-Leventhal to become a ‘professor of purpose’ and master the art of finding personal meaning in life.
When she was five, Debbie’s parents found solace from a family tragedy in joining the Kabbalah Centre, an organisation founded in Jewish mysticism. They immersed themselves in the Centre unreservedly – from its peculiar rituals (rolling in the snow naked to purify their sins) to the beauty of belonging to something greater than themselves. To Debbie, though, it increasingly resembled a cult, and – after years of abuse and living in communes in three countries – at eighteen she left, devastated and isolated, searching for meaning in her life.
Debbie turned that search into her life’s work: today, she is a professor who specialises in finding meaning in our personal and professional lives. In this book, she shares her own and other people’s stories to explore ideas of purpose, impact, values, and resilience.
In the age of ‘The Great Resignation’ and ‘Quiet Quitting’, Make it Meaningful is the perfect guide to finding a more profound meaningfulness in our own lives and jobs.
Debbie grew up in a cult-like organisation but managed to escape a minute before being arranged to marry. Higher education and volunteering transformed her life, gifting her with a new purpose. Debbie has since devoted her entire career to the pro-social behaviour of individuals (volunteering) and companies (corporate social responsibility).
Today, she is an awarded and well-published professor of business management and the MBA Director at Macquarie University, Australia. With over 60 academic articles, four books, A TED talk, and public speaking, she dedicates her teaching, research, and knowledge to creating impact and enabling others to find meaningfulness and purpose.
I decided to listen to this part-memoire, part-self-help book largely because I was intrigued by the personal story of the author. And indeed, I found that to be the most interesting and touching aspect of the book. She grew up in a cult-like sect of Judaism called Kabbalah after a tragedy prompted her parents to join, and hearing the personal story about how it controlled every aspect of her family’s life, and how she eventually became disillusioned and freed herself only to find her life devoid of the structure, meaning and purpose it had provided, was very moving and informative. I was impressed by how she set out to find a new source of morals and purpose, and even ended up becoming a university professor who studies meaningfulness.
I found the more self-help-ish aspects of the book a little less engaging, but her suggested strategies for making life meaningful were still informative and useful. The parts that focus on businesses, corporations and work felt a little corporate at times, but they make sense given her areas of study, and it is of course important to encourage companies to have a purpose beyond making money.
The other thing I appreciated was that she didn’t portray herself as someone who lives a perfectly meaningful and happy life all the time and never struggles. I think the candid moments where she shares her low points and self doubts are especially helpful for anyone reading it who is struggling and not feeling great about their lives (among which I often count myself) to not feel alone or inadequate. She pointed out that finding meaning in life is not something done quickly or easily, that it may take years, which is reassuring for those of us who are slow at finding it.
I had high hopes for reading this book and was disappointed by it. While I admire Debbie’s journey through the years and applaud how far she’s come in turning hardship and challenge into meaning and purpose, I was wanting to hear more of her. I didn’t get a sense of really hearing her story or feel emotionally connected to her throughout. Despite the initial chapter giving context to her background and life, I found the book very academic and almost textbook like- it seemed far too theoretical and philosophical. If you like that kind of style, then I think you’ll enjoy the book. Whereas I am a kind of reader who loves reading autobiographies and memoirs to hear the person’s raw story, the nitty gritty, and everything in between. I did not feel that I gained a lot from reading this book, as many of these concepts are self-explanatory and not new. And maybe perhaps that is a reflection on me as the things Debbie discussed are the things I often find myself and peers reflecting on already (as we work in mental health). All in all, while it wasn’t the book for me, I still would like to congratulate Debbie for all her hard work, perseverance, resilience and grit for being a stellar role model to others. It is people like Debbie who continue to push others and the world around them to do better, and who are the much needed agents of change.
I just finished reading “Make it Meaningful" by Debbie Haski-Leventhal and WOW what a gem of a book! A truly inspirational read that I cannot recommend highly enough. This book beautifully weaves together the author's personal story with practical advice and insights for anyone seeking to make their life more meaningful.
What sets this book apart is the way that Debbie’s personal journey is intertwined with her teachings. Through her own experiences, both triumphs and setbacks, she illustrates the power of the 7 enablers to lead a meaningful life (you will have to read it to find out what they are:)Her writing is both relatable and profound, offering real-world examples that make her teachings all the more impactful.
In addition to her personal story, Debbie also provides actionable steps for readers to apply the lessons to their own lives. Her insights are thoughtful and well-researched, making this book both inspiring and practical.
Overall, "Make it Meaningful" is a must-read for anyone seeking to live a more fulfilling life. Debbie’s writing is engaging, and her personal story intertwined with the teachings is brilliantly done. I came away from this book feeling inspired, uplifted, and with a newfound sense of purpose. This book is an absolute gem and belongs on every bookshelf.
4.5 ⭐️ I have to say I was so drawn to this memoir. It gripped abd grabbed me in the most magnetic way. However, the very final chapters were a bit repetitive and it felt like the editor was tired. Of the book, or of their own personal life - I couldn’t tell. Excellent writing, otherwise. And I love this author - she is inspiring, talented and smart.
We live in a fast paced and demanding world where purpose and meaning are easily lost.
Make it Meaningful aims to cut through this. Professor Debbie Haski-Leventhal synthesizes a thoughtful and inspiring memoir with a relatable and practical approach to finding your own purpose and meaning. What makes this wonderful book unique is the focus on both a personal and professional level. A must read for anyone searching for their own purpose and meaning and an even bigger must read for any business leader who wants to see how purpose and profit can come together in harmony.
5 stars for the first 3 chapters of the book - I loved it as much as reading Tara's (Educated), Ahn Do's (The Happiest Refugee) and Trevor Noah's (Born in Crime) stories. The rest is very different IMO - it was like written by completely different person. Debbie - you're a great person, and this book could be your personal story or the academic piece of work. It's somewhat in the middle and I struggle to recommend the book aside the first 3 chapters on your upbringing. There's too many references to other books, too many "meaningfulness" words in the book, and I didn't get the structure - after reading the whole book I'm not sure I've got the message.
I was really looking forward to reading this but feel the title isn't reflective of the content. The beginning was so engaging and I wanted to know more of the author's story but it morphed into a more academic work referencing other people's studies and the author's career path. It felt like the work of two different authors and I lost connection and engagement with what I believe to be the author's intention for the book. I finished without any real takeaways but would be interested in reading more of the author's biography.
I completed reading this book within three days. The story of Prof Debbie, who was successful and courageous, was unexpected and captivating, leaving a lasting impression on me. In today's world, we are often presented with a meticulously curated life of privilege, accomplishments, and success, leading us to believe that such individuals do not question themselves or face any challenges in their journey of life. However, this book shattered those misconceptions and shed light on the reality of life's ups and downs.
What I particularly loved about this book was the concept of Post Trauma Growth, which deeply resonated with me and gave me a sense of inner peace regarding my own traumatic experiences. It reminded me that our traumas make us who we are, and they happen for a reason. I express my gratitude to Debbie for sharing her inspiring journey with us, providing a ray of hope in our lives. In conclusion, this book is a beacon of hope for all those who are struggling to find their way amidst life's uncertainties.
Debbie's book is profoundly inspiring because she "walks the talk", incarnating the journey towards a meaningful life and work. Her personal story shows us how emotional pain and adversity can make human beings flourish, be more authentic and serve the world for good. Her insights, which I find enlightening, especially given my career transition, serve as a torch in navigating personal and professional search for meaning. Through her book, Debbie offers a guiding map, rooted in profound concepts and her own experiences, creating a holistic model that bridges the personal search for meaning with the realm of work and social engagement. She encourages us to connect the dots and cultivate a virtuous cycle through the pursuit of meaningfulness. Her commitment to purpose and impact injects hope in the future of business as a means for human well-being. As a professor of business management and the MBA Director at Macquarie University (Australia), she embodies the values of empathy and purpose, shaping the minds of future changemakers during these transformative times. A game changer!
What makes for a meaningful life, and why is it that some humans rise to events and challenges where they’d be be expected to fall? These are questions I’ve asked as both a little girl, and now as a psychologist, researching and sharing the power of purpose. In all my readings driven by a slight obsession around the questions of what it takes to live a good life, I can honestly say I haven’t quite found a book as captivating as this. Professor Debbie generously shares the depth of her courageous and compassionate heart, weaving her unique personal story of trauma and triumph amongst insights from her internationally acclaimed research on what it means and what it takes to create impact. If you read one book to explore the question of why living a life that matters, matters, make it this one.
I purchased the book with great curiosity. I have heard of Debbie’s work and have followed her on LinkedIn so when I saw that she published a book I was quick to purchase it. As a coach and facilitator in the Social Purpose sector I have a deep interest in the topics of social impact, purpose and meaning. The book tells the personal story of the author and also delves into how we can find our own true purpose, meaningfulness and impactability. I love the way the author distinguishes between the terms. I often coach individuals who are going through some kind of transition be it career, personal or both. We often cover these topics. This book will be my recommendation for them to read from here on! A must read!
We live in a fast paced and demanding world where purpose and meaning are easily lost.
Make it Meaningful aims to cut through this. Professor Debbie Haski-Leventhal synthesizes a thoughtful and inspiring memoir with a relatable and practical approach to finding your own purpose and meaning. What makes this wonderful book unique is the focus on both a personal and professional level. A must read for anyone searching for their own purpose and meaning and an even bigger must read for any business leader who wants to see how purpose and profit can come together in harmony.
I loved reading this book. Debbie not only shared her own life story with great openness and vulnerability but also explored the nuances of purpose, meaning and having an impact in the world. I liked how she looked at personal meaning, career meaning and corporate social responsibility. A lot of work has clearly gone into this book and I appreciated being able to delve deeper into such an important topic.
A very personal, deep and inspiring book. Debbie's personal and professional journey is an example of strength, resilience, effort, hard work, persistence and perseverance. It is truly admirable how she has overcome all the obstacles and challenges that life has placed before her. A moving testimony, accompanied by insights that invite to generate change and a positive impact in all areas of life.
I absolutely loved Make It Meaningful. I haven’t stopped talking about it, buying it as gifts for friends and recommending it to strangers! It’s changed the way I think about work and the way I do business. Debbie, thank you for sharing your personal story and weaving in all the purpose and impact knowledge you have. Keep writing and I’ll keep buying!
What a wonderful and meaningful book. I was fascinated by the writer’s life story, courage, kindness and determination. I will carry this book in my heart, and hope that it will help to to live a meaningful life.
An inspirational book. Thought provoking and insightful, bringing together individual life and professional progress, and calls for an assessment of how we make the most of our working life not only for ourselves but for our entire species. Great read for your own personal growth.
I love the way Debbie has set this book out. It starts with her amazing story but then goes into the theory and practical tools to find or build more meaningfulness in your life. Can highly recommend.
This is very entertaining and, obviously a very popular book. Many are searching for meaning and purpose today. Truth appears to delude many. Yet it is only a breath away.
The beginning chapters about her childhood were a great read and captivating but it fizzled once it turned into a resume of jobs and quoting a lot of other authors. It was like two books in one.
This is a wonderful book. I listened to it as an audio book. I love the author reading it and telling her story with such a positive attitude to life. It’s really inspiring to see and learn how to look at the half full glass. I’m surly going to use the tips (TIP) in the book.
What a fantastic and meaningful book. A heart warming and fascinating story, and many thought provoking ideas about making our lives more meaningful. Highly recommend.