Winter Love A Guide to Senior Dating is a handbook toward a better life as a senior citizen. Everyone needs companionship and this book tells you how to get it. The author walks you through the steps of meeting new people, making that first connection, going on dates, and keeping the relationship strong. She even coaches you on how to breakups with partners that have turned out to be wrong for you.
Filled with practical advice and funny stories the book is hard to put down. Ms. Hayes warns of the pitfalls one can come across if you get in too big a rush to find the perfect mate. She also lists many things you can do that will keep your partner contented. She explains the problems with dating sites but also spend a couple of chapters explaining what clothes are best for social media photos and how to promote yourself with better pictures and cameos.
After spending 20 years interviewing single seniors, she has put together numerous anecdotes both funny and poignant. Once you read the book you will find yourself making wiser decisions that leave you happier for it.
As a serious cook myself, I regard Linda's excellent and informative book, ("Winter Love - a Guide to Senior Dating") as functioning something like a cookbook, especially for those of us who are no longer even summer chickens. Putting aside the fact most of us seniors began dating when holding a Model T's door open for a young beauty or sliding out a chair for her in a restaurant were expected and felt normal, today's changing mores allow us to turn away from things like clunky nose rings and full-body tats. Linda's book is especially helpful in alerting us to the issues of online dating and the scams that could involve (one seemingly attractive youngster wanted to come and meet me immediately if I would wire her airfare from Venezuela (ah, no)). She also covers issues we may never have encountered earlier or may have changed over time. Or things which require more careful treatment such as the difference in our bodies since our first marriage 30 or more years ago. And Linda encourages us to communicate with those of the opposite sex about important issues which are important to both; when we were younger, those issues, sex for instance, may not have been thoughtfully addressed. But, best of all, Linda Hayes points us in the direction of having fun getting to know the next love of our lives.