“…what is divine love? How do we know what loving Allah is, and what is appropriate and inappropriate in that love? Do we love Allah like a father, a friend, or a spouse? These obiections conceive of love in human terms, as romantic attachments, and require Allah's love to conform to these molds…
Allah's love is in a league of its own. And the mention of Hell and punishment in the Qur’an only highlights how precious this love is, where some could have had it but lost it because of their disobedience. Loving Allah is not carte blanche to act as we wish or to imagine Allah as we want to. Such conceptions of the divine only feed our ego. When we conceive of Allah as approving of whoever we are and whatever we do, we change Him to fit our needs instead of changing ourselves to earn His pleasure. The love of Allah is there to elevate and edify us, not to demote the divine to the human plane. If we want to love Allah on our terms, we would be loving ourselves, creating a fantasy that does not exist. But if we are going to love Allah on His terms, we should be willing to listen to Him to understand who He is, who we are, and how to love Him.”
i think this passage perfectly summarises why this should be the book u would want to pick up if u want to know more about divine love and its attributes (instead of another very infamous book on the subject (u already know which one)). the author has beautifully laid out the concept of divine love throughout the book, backing it with authentic sources from the Qur’an, sunnah and scholars of the past.
may Allah swt reward the author abundantly, i genuinely feel like he deserve so much more recognition and love for his books, they are both so amazing <3