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Love, Norm: Inspiration of a Jewish American Fighter Pilot
Norm Shulman’s relationship with his stepson Greg Levenson had always been stable and warm, but it altered when Greg decided to enlist in the Air Force at age 27. This unexpected decision brought them even closer together, and Norm came to realize that his whole family history had much support to offer Greg. Cognizant of past anti-Semitic stereotypes persisting about Jewish participation in the military, Norm wanted to help prepare Greg to feel comfortable in his own identity. So, Norm decided to write letters that connected Greg to the many Jewish military heroes who had preceded him. From Judah Maccabee to fighter pilots from today’s recent history, these profiles in courage and heroism brought Greg foundation and strength, and they offer readers a breadth of knowledge from every corner of Jewish history. Norm’s letters to Greg make up one core of Love, Norm ; the other is Norm’s own multigenerational story of Jewish military heroes. As the son of Jewish immigrants whose place in America was hard-won, Norm chronicles what it was like to feel his identity pulled in different directions and how to hold fast to it nonetheless. Love, Norm is a multifaceted retelling of inspirational profiles of famous Jewish fighters from across history, and it is also the singular story of how one man dug into his own past and found pieces to preserve his Jewish identity. Together, empathetically channeled through his heartfelt letters and remembrances, Love, Norm shares a collected wisdom with the next generation.
256 pages, Paperback
Published July 27, 2022
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August 31, 2023
I enjoyed this book so much. It was inspiring and also educational. I grew up in a small town in Texas and did not know one Jewish person. It was enlightening to read about their experiences in West Texas.
I loved the style of the author and found it a delight to read. One doesn’t need to have a particular interest in fighter pilot training to enjoy this book. It will probably inspire you to pick up a pen and some paper and write a note to someone you love!
I loved the style of the author and found it a delight to read. One doesn’t need to have a particular interest in fighter pilot training to enjoy this book. It will probably inspire you to pick up a pen and some paper and write a note to someone you love!
September 28, 2024
Psychologist Norm Shulman first meets Greg, the boy who is to become his stepson, when the boy is twelve. The book is many things: 1) a bit of Norm’s family history, his Polish-Jewish roots, his adolescent difficulties with math (with which I heavily identify) 2) a bit of world Jewish history, that these long-beleaguered people have always been warriors and not given proper credit for their service, and 3) letters that Norm writes to Greg while Greg is in Air Force pilot training. The latter comprises the spine of the book. Something I, as a fallen Gentile, was not aware of was the prejudice Jewish people have been subjected to concerning their military history: people claiming falsely that Jews avoid the military. Shulman does a superior job of informing readers of the many Jewish heroes (warriors) who have fought under various flags.
David Dragunsky is a Russian Jew who, as a tank driver, takes part in some of the most decisive battles on the eastern front of WWII. According to Shulman, “The vast majority of Jewish combat deaths, 212,000 out of a total of 270,000 occurred in this theater of war. Unfortunately, Cold War politics and propaganda prevented proper credit from being given to our Russian ally and its Jewish soldiers, but history can’t be changed” (25). Another hero of Shulman’s is Greg’s maternal grandmother, Opal Keith, who “was a member of the first regiment of Navy WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service) recruited at the beginning of World War II” (39). The author continues, week after week, letter after letter, to support his son with encouragement of this kind, reinforcing the importance of Jewish military personnel when others in flight school try to belittle or sneer at Greg’s own involvement (can antisemitism still exist in this century?). Greg gets the final word in the last chapter, in which he informs the reader of his appreciation and affection for his stepfather who has helped him through a year and a half of hellish pilot training. This is a fine book combining both the academics of history and the personal nature of memoir. It is a bold testament to a people who have suffered beyond endurance in world history, as well as at the local level, and still manage to rise to the level of hero.
David Dragunsky is a Russian Jew who, as a tank driver, takes part in some of the most decisive battles on the eastern front of WWII. According to Shulman, “The vast majority of Jewish combat deaths, 212,000 out of a total of 270,000 occurred in this theater of war. Unfortunately, Cold War politics and propaganda prevented proper credit from being given to our Russian ally and its Jewish soldiers, but history can’t be changed” (25). Another hero of Shulman’s is Greg’s maternal grandmother, Opal Keith, who “was a member of the first regiment of Navy WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service) recruited at the beginning of World War II” (39). The author continues, week after week, letter after letter, to support his son with encouragement of this kind, reinforcing the importance of Jewish military personnel when others in flight school try to belittle or sneer at Greg’s own involvement (can antisemitism still exist in this century?). Greg gets the final word in the last chapter, in which he informs the reader of his appreciation and affection for his stepfather who has helped him through a year and a half of hellish pilot training. This is a fine book combining both the academics of history and the personal nature of memoir. It is a bold testament to a people who have suffered beyond endurance in world history, as well as at the local level, and still manage to rise to the level of hero.
June 26, 2022
Absolutely amazing book. The book details the prevalence of anti-Semitism in modern day America and the way in which family is able to work to combat the loneliness felt by discrimination. It's important, especially due to the rise in discrimination and bigotry, to recognize the importance of unity in the armed services. Love, Norm does an excellent job to highlight the way in which fatherly love accompanied with support can completely rebuild a person faced with loneliness and adversity.
December 1, 2022
Thoroughly enjoyed this book. Some parts made me cry, some made me laugh, but every part brought me joy in learning more about history while also having a greater understanding of my own history, and my family's. Dr. Norm Shulman is obviously a very talented writer with a deep connection with his family, culture, and sense of self. I would recommend Love, Norm to anyone who has a niche for books/memoirs related to family, struggle, history, and identity.
July 22, 2023
Amazing memoir. Takes a deep dive into Judaism and its teachings - as a Christian, I loved learning more about Dr. Shulman's family and the religion as a whole. I recommend this book to anyone looking to broaden their own perspectives and bookshelves.
January 1, 2025
Love, Norm: A Jewish Fighter Pilot Memoir by Norman Shulman is a heartfelt tribute to the resilience of the Jewish people, who have faced prejudice throughout history. Sadly, anti-Semitism remains present today, even in academic and broader communities.
Shulman embarked on this deeply personal project to inspire and support his stepson, Greg Levenson, who joined the Air Force at 27 and struggled with loneliness during the demanding Undergraduate Pilot Training program. To strengthen Greg’s connection to his Jewish identity and a legacy of perseverance, Shulman researched Jewish military history, recognizing how important it was to provide Greg with a sense of belonging and pride in a challenging environment.
For over a year, Shulman wrote 52 weekly letters to Greg, filled with stories of courage, offers of guidance, and accounts of bravery from Jewish servicemen throughout history.
These letters uplifted and inspired Greg, reminding him that he was part of a lineage of heroes who had overcome great adversity. Through these letters, Shulman became more than a supportive parent—he was Greg’s confidant, cheerleader, guide, educator, and steadfast source of strength.
The book is divided into fifteen chapters, each with a distinct theme, all designed to give Greg the encouragement and perspective he needed to endure the grueling journey of becoming a pilot.
Training took a toll on Greg both physically and mentally, often leaving him wondering if he could persevere. Shulman didn’t just offer words of comfort—he went further, pouring time and effort into creating letters that were both well-researched and profoundly meaningful.
Norm’s letters told the stories of Jewish military heroes, many of whom were overlooked or uncelebrated because of their faith. Some were recognized for their bravery only years later.
From the valor of the Maccabees to the unsung heroes of the American Revolution, World War I, and even modern conflicts in Iraq, the letters showcased victories over adversity and a legacy of courage.
For Greg, these letters were more than just inspiration—they were a lifeline. They helped him answer questions from others, and sometimes from himself, like, “Why would a nice Jewish boy join the military?” or, “I didn’t know Jews served in the military.”
Each story reinforced Greg’s sense of purpose and identity, connecting him to a larger history of strength and sacrifice. Week by week, the letters gave him the courage to face the next challenge, knowing he belonged to a tradition of bravery and resilience.
As Greg reflects in the book’s final pages, he is deeply grateful for Norm’s support. “I wouldn’t have had the courage to pursue my dreams without Norm’s encouragement,” he says. “I wouldn’t have discovered the grit and determination I have today if not for his ability to reach me when I needed it most.”
Norm’s letters reveal the profound influence he had on Greg’s life. While the stories Norm shared might not resonate with everyone, his unique ability to understand what would inspire Greg made that year of letters unforgettable. Norm had a rare talent for finding stories that spoke directly to Greg’s heart, giving him the strength and perspective he needed at just the right moments. Through these letters, Norm’s care and insight not only shaped Greg’s journey but also left a lasting impact that Greg will carry with him forever.
In a world overflowing with information, the book reminds us that the most powerful writing is personal. Through stories of courage and resilience, Shulman not only inspired his stepson but also preserved the legacy of unsung heroes whose bravery still resonates today. This book encourages readers to reflect on their own histories, draw strength from their roots, and pass on valuable lessons to future generations.
At a time when anti-Semitism, prejudice, and division remain a challenge, Love, Norm delivers a meaningful message about the importance of empathy, compassion, and inner strength. While rooted in a Jewish experience, its themes of perseverance, family bonds, and the transformative power of love are universal.
Ultimately, Love, Norm: A Jewish Fighter Pilot Memoir is more than a reflection on history—it’s a guide for facing today’s challenges with courage, hope, and a deep belief in the power of identity and love.
Follow Here https://tinyurl.com/2atj3mcd To Read Norm Shulman's Interview with Bookpleasures.com
Shulman embarked on this deeply personal project to inspire and support his stepson, Greg Levenson, who joined the Air Force at 27 and struggled with loneliness during the demanding Undergraduate Pilot Training program. To strengthen Greg’s connection to his Jewish identity and a legacy of perseverance, Shulman researched Jewish military history, recognizing how important it was to provide Greg with a sense of belonging and pride in a challenging environment.
For over a year, Shulman wrote 52 weekly letters to Greg, filled with stories of courage, offers of guidance, and accounts of bravery from Jewish servicemen throughout history.
These letters uplifted and inspired Greg, reminding him that he was part of a lineage of heroes who had overcome great adversity. Through these letters, Shulman became more than a supportive parent—he was Greg’s confidant, cheerleader, guide, educator, and steadfast source of strength.
The book is divided into fifteen chapters, each with a distinct theme, all designed to give Greg the encouragement and perspective he needed to endure the grueling journey of becoming a pilot.
Training took a toll on Greg both physically and mentally, often leaving him wondering if he could persevere. Shulman didn’t just offer words of comfort—he went further, pouring time and effort into creating letters that were both well-researched and profoundly meaningful.
Norm’s letters told the stories of Jewish military heroes, many of whom were overlooked or uncelebrated because of their faith. Some were recognized for their bravery only years later.
From the valor of the Maccabees to the unsung heroes of the American Revolution, World War I, and even modern conflicts in Iraq, the letters showcased victories over adversity and a legacy of courage.
For Greg, these letters were more than just inspiration—they were a lifeline. They helped him answer questions from others, and sometimes from himself, like, “Why would a nice Jewish boy join the military?” or, “I didn’t know Jews served in the military.”
Each story reinforced Greg’s sense of purpose and identity, connecting him to a larger history of strength and sacrifice. Week by week, the letters gave him the courage to face the next challenge, knowing he belonged to a tradition of bravery and resilience.
As Greg reflects in the book’s final pages, he is deeply grateful for Norm’s support. “I wouldn’t have had the courage to pursue my dreams without Norm’s encouragement,” he says. “I wouldn’t have discovered the grit and determination I have today if not for his ability to reach me when I needed it most.”
Norm’s letters reveal the profound influence he had on Greg’s life. While the stories Norm shared might not resonate with everyone, his unique ability to understand what would inspire Greg made that year of letters unforgettable. Norm had a rare talent for finding stories that spoke directly to Greg’s heart, giving him the strength and perspective he needed at just the right moments. Through these letters, Norm’s care and insight not only shaped Greg’s journey but also left a lasting impact that Greg will carry with him forever.
In a world overflowing with information, the book reminds us that the most powerful writing is personal. Through stories of courage and resilience, Shulman not only inspired his stepson but also preserved the legacy of unsung heroes whose bravery still resonates today. This book encourages readers to reflect on their own histories, draw strength from their roots, and pass on valuable lessons to future generations.
At a time when anti-Semitism, prejudice, and division remain a challenge, Love, Norm delivers a meaningful message about the importance of empathy, compassion, and inner strength. While rooted in a Jewish experience, its themes of perseverance, family bonds, and the transformative power of love are universal.
Ultimately, Love, Norm: A Jewish Fighter Pilot Memoir is more than a reflection on history—it’s a guide for facing today’s challenges with courage, hope, and a deep belief in the power of identity and love.
Follow Here https://tinyurl.com/2atj3mcd To Read Norm Shulman's Interview with Bookpleasures.com
January 26, 2026
A friend let me borrow this book (I've since bought my own copy) because there are great quotes throughout the pages and I need to go back through it.
Overall, very good book. I've read many books that were letters between people. This is the first with an intended purpose from start to finish. While I'm not Jewish, I think the motive of the author is extremely important for his family, for Jews in general, and for people such as myself who love history and these important tenets that are easily overlooked or completely missed.
Book had a good rhythm. Easy to stay connected and written in such a way that it can be put down and picked back up without the need to ask, "where was I and what was going on?"
The historical figures are fascinating. I grew up with a dad who always took us to air shows so that part is good. I'm also a USAF vet, but not a pilot. So that connection is good. I'm from Lubbock so there is a connection. And the strangest one, I've yet to confirm but hopefully will be able to, I was taking a Biblical Hebrew class at a local private university, Wayland Baptist, and went to several Bar Mitzvah's around the time Norman's son had his. There is a small chance I was there as an observer!
None of that matters to anyone other than myself.
The book is worth the time to read. Each Jewish veteran he mentions has some inspiring aspect that we can hold on to, even if you are not a Jew.
Grab a copy.
Overall, very good book. I've read many books that were letters between people. This is the first with an intended purpose from start to finish. While I'm not Jewish, I think the motive of the author is extremely important for his family, for Jews in general, and for people such as myself who love history and these important tenets that are easily overlooked or completely missed.
Book had a good rhythm. Easy to stay connected and written in such a way that it can be put down and picked back up without the need to ask, "where was I and what was going on?"
The historical figures are fascinating. I grew up with a dad who always took us to air shows so that part is good. I'm also a USAF vet, but not a pilot. So that connection is good. I'm from Lubbock so there is a connection. And the strangest one, I've yet to confirm but hopefully will be able to, I was taking a Biblical Hebrew class at a local private university, Wayland Baptist, and went to several Bar Mitzvah's around the time Norman's son had his. There is a small chance I was there as an observer!
None of that matters to anyone other than myself.
The book is worth the time to read. Each Jewish veteran he mentions has some inspiring aspect that we can hold on to, even if you are not a Jew.
Grab a copy.
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