Disappointed Ninja: a Social, Emotional Children’s Book about Good Sportsmanship and Dealing with Disappointment
Is your child a sore loser? Does he or she scream or get angry when losing?
Disappointment is a natural emotion we all experience. While it never feels good, it's not an emotion to avoid. Children with no experience solving life’s smaller setbacks have a much harder time when they’re faced with larger ones. When we teach our children to see stumbling blocks as opportunities to improve and grow, we increase their mental toughness. Handling disappointment includes being a good sport.
Good sportsmanship is one of the life lessons that children can learn while young.
In this story, Disappointed Ninja becomes disappointed and learns how to display good sportsmanship skills: If you lose, don't quit or make up excuses. Learn from mistakes and try again. Always give your best. If someone else makes a mistake, remain encouraging and avoid criticizing. Show respect for yourself, your team, and the opponent.
No, I don't want to play any more. Have you heard this from your child when they are losing a game? Here is an exciting book that will help your young one cope with this feeling. Ms. Nhin shows, in the best of ways, how your child can get themselves out of being disappointed. I highly recommend this book and all the books in this series for helping your youngster, 4-11 years old, cope with different emotions. The Ninja's are also cool.
Part of the Ninja Life Hacks series. Disappointed Ninja shows good sportsmanship even when losing. He shares that he didn't always respond that way and offers examples of times when he was not kind when he lost. His friend Growth Mindset Ninja taught him six different ways he could respond when he was disappointed. This helped Ninja grow. Love the way this series offers help for readers. There are resources beyond the book as well.
The book was well written on being a good sport, but I think Disappointed Ninja could have a different name like Good Sport ninja instead. You can be disappointed in many ways that don’t include sports. If you are disappointed because you didn’t get something you wanted not all the strategies would work.
It's so hard for kids when they lose or don't get what they want. This book shows how to channel their disappointment into positive feelings. It was particularly helpful for my son who would always quit playing in the middle of a game when he realizes he wasn't winning. This book is another helpful addition to the series!
My 5 year old and 7 year old are working on good sportsmanship and this book could not be more helpful for them to UNDERSTAND this abstract concept. Bringing sanity back to our family game night. Highly recommend!!