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An American Family in World War II

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On the morning of December 7, 1941, life for families across America was forever changed by events over which they had no control, but were to witness and play a part. An American Family in World War II is the moving story of one of those families — told largely in their own words. When Ralph “Lee” Minker Jr. entered U.S. Army Air Cadet training in 1943, he began a correspondence with his parents and two teenage sisters; letters that describe the rigors of pilot training and ultimately his life at “this air base I call home,” as he flew 37 combat missions over Nazi Germany. The letters from the family members to Lee bring a vibrant reality to the home front — rationing, bond drives, and the daily tension of war — through the people who lived it. Woven together with commentary by the editors, this is an intensely personal and richly detailed account of life in America during the harrowing days of WWII.

456 pages, Paperback

First published September 15, 2005

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March 17, 2020
A Eulogy Of Affirmation

For all the books that have been written about the military, political, and domestic history of WW II, this book, "An American Family in World War II" (2005) is special in its personal character and in its immediacy. The book is a collection of some 200 letters written between February, 1943 and September, 1945, between a young man, Ralph L Minker, who left Dickinson University at the end of his sophomore year to enlist in the war effort, and his family in Wilmington, Delaware. Minker's correspondents include his father, Ralph Minker Sr., a minister and at the time of the letters the Superintendent of the Ferris Industrial School for Boys, his mother Edna, and his younger sisters Shirley and Bernice. At the time of the letters, Shirley was a student in a junior college while Bernice was in high school. This collection of letters was selected and edited by Captain Minker himself together with his wife, Sandra O'Connell and historian Harry Butowsky. In addition to the letters, the book includes useful background interludes on the progress of the War on the foreign and domestic fronts to set the story in perspective.

Following the attack on Pearl Harbor, Minker left college to enlist in the Air Force. He completed a rigorous and selective course of training to become an Air Force pilot and ultimately flew 37 combat missions over Nazi Germany between October, 1944 and April, 1945. At the time he became captain of a B-17 in the 447th Bomb Group of the 8th Army Air Force, Minker was all of twenty years old, a tender age to assume the responsibility of an office and bomber pilot with a crew of ten. Most of Minker's combat flights were in a plane he named the "Blue Hen Chick" after a Delaware unit during the Revolutionary War.

In reading this book, I was moved by the picture of a close-knit, cohesive middle-class American family consisting of parents and children that obviously care deeply for each other and that remain happy and in good spirits throughout the vicissitudes of the War. A comment at the conclusion of the book (p.419) aptly describes the letters as showing "an ordinary and an extraordinary story of an American family." The letters are replete with family news, descriptions of the domestic war effort, and family love and unity. In some respects, the letters describe an America that today seems remarkably innocent. We see Minker's two sisters as they graduate from Junior College and high schools, with their ambitions, efforts at singing, and boyfriends, his father, an active member of the community who spearheads several drives for war bonds, and his mother, who takes a job outside the home to assist in the war effort and writes many loving letters to her son. In addition to the scenes of warfare and of family life in an America geared for war, there are many small instances related, such as the birth of puppies to the family dog.

The letters also present a detailed picture of the training and travels a young pilot had to undergo. The reader follows Ralph Minker through his early training in Florida through the time he earns his wings and commission in advanced flight school in Texas in 1944. There are realistic portrayals of the life of a bomber pilot, as many of Minker's missions are described in detail. It surely was a difficult awakening to life for Minker, and many young Americans like him, who, as his father observed, would otherwise have spent late adolescence and early adulthood in pursuits other than warfare.

This book was moving to read, and I found myself getting to know and care increasingly about young Ralph Minker and his family as the story progressed. When Minker left the service at the conclusion of the War, he returned to college and ultimately became a minister. The book could have used additional information on Minker's life, especially for the period immediately after the war. The adjustment must have been difficult, and the letters leave some loose ends. For instance, Minker maintained a correspondence with his high-school sweetheart throughout the period of his service, and we never learn what happened to this relationship when Minker returned.

The title of this review, "Eulogy of Affirmation" is taken from the title of a speech Ralph Minker gave in 1991 at the 46th anniversary reunion of the 447th bomb group. The speech is included in the book (p. 420). The phrase captures well the story of the selfless service that Minker and many Americans like him gave during the days of World War II. It is a story that may continue to inspire Americans during our own difficult times.

Robin Friedman
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March 31, 2016
This book is one of my Top Picks for 2015. I bought it from Sandra O'Connell at the Smithsonian Museum in Washington, D.C. She is not only one of the editors, but also the wife of the main character and fellow editor, Captain Ralph L. Minker. This book is non-fiction and is a carefully-edited collection of the letters that Captain Minker and his family in Wilmington, Delaware, sent to each other during World War II. Fortunately, the writers of these letters expressed themselves so clearly and so well that we gain a very full picture of what it was like to be a very young Army Air Corps pilot flying over the European theater and what it was like to be his family, anxiously waiting for him to return safely.

I loved this book! It makes a wonderful gift for men and women.
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July 3, 2023
Insightful work on family life at home and military life abroad during WWII, given from the perspective of Capt. Rinker, a B-17 bomber pilot. It's hard to imagine the responsibility shouldered by young people 20 years old and younger during that conflict. Capt. Rinker is a true patriot, in my view, and his family and country was truly supportive every step of the way. Very inspirational read.

Read 2nd time. As we are near the 4th of July, it inspires one to reflect on the sacrifices that our young men and women pay for our independence. It seems to me that there are Americans out there that don't seem to get that.
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