I am not yet finished with this book but know enough to get started on a review. I haven't yet figured out how to write a rough draft review on Goodreads without posting yet (I'm old) so I'll just write a little now and update and add more once I've finished reading. First of all, When I see a self published book with almost all 5 star reviews, I know that in most cases, those reviews come from friends and family. It doesn't mean that the book isn't good, but in most cases that's what's happening when you see all 5 stars on a self published book. Not so in this case! I don't know the author at all and I picked the book up on a whim and .... this book is SO GOOD!! I'm not sure but I believe this is the author's first book and it's just great. What's great about it is how sincere and candid the author is. Without being "overly writerly" he really does take you on the journey of his life with Prince as a major backdrop. Prince was the backdrop to my life as well and I completely understand how he feels as life happens and he has Prince there through it all. Another thing, I don't have to like the author to like the book -- there are plenty of good books I've read where I didn't necessarily like the author but with this book, I just honestly love the author! He seems to be a good guy and so genuine and it comes across throughout the book. When I read a book where someone tries to come across as likeable and adorable and it comes off as insincere -- I am immediately turned off -- but this guy is just so likeable and it really comes through and makes this such a good read. I LOVE that he put a picture on the back of the book as himself dressed up as Prince on a Scooter. And that he went to see Purple Rain in the theatre after Prince died, dressed this way! Because it just shows the absolute love and adoration he genuinely had for Prince. That he ends the prologue with, "Shall we begin, Lisa?" is just genius and gave me such a chuckle! It's so much fun to read about his 80s excitement - his Walkman, going to Sam Goody's - going to the mall on the lookout for new Prince stuff -- I feel you -- I did the same! And he really sets the scene to that wonderful time in life when life was fun. Those were great days.
And, Oh, my Gawd! The fact that he lost his virginity wearing a Prince condom, a "purple raincoat" -- WTF -- I never knew such a thing existed! I love it!
But the book is not just silly fun -- it's also very poignant. His parents, who spanked him with a belt until the age of 16, I absolutely hated! But then, Jason turns it around by describing his parents, who absolutely hated Prince, going to a Prince concert with him and bobbing their heads along with the music and I actually teared up and about halfway through the book, changed my mind about them. No one is ever just one thing. It's beautiful, the way he writes about them and you see how they are flawed but not bad people.
Also, I'm a Prince fan but I never heard, "Right the Wrong" which Jason says is a country song. I will have to look that up - I never knew that Prince sang a country song! I got most everything but somehow, I never had any interest in Chaos & Disorder.
The part where he goes to Detroit to meet up with the girl he met on the the internet who is also a rabid Prince fan, Selena, is funny but also so sad. That she had nothing in her life BUT Prince. :(
Well, I'll update when I finish reading but these are my thoughts for now and I know enough to give it 5 Stars -- This is a fun read and I've thoroughly enjoyed going back to the days when there was such excitement over what Prince was doing, what he was coming out with, when a concert was coming up, those were such great days.
Also, let me add -- The Insane Clown Posse who Jason worked for, I had always thought was silly (sorry for that to any Juggalos) but, the fact that they did a promo video for this book shows what absolute cool guys they must be! There aren't many groups or famous people that would do that and I just think that is the coolest and the nicest thing. So, much respect to them for that.
Okay... back to reading...
Alright -- I'm done. Wow. I did not see that coming. I cried at the end! When I ordered this book, I expected a nice little story by a Prince fan. Maybe even something silly and fun and this book was fun but it was also deep. At the end when Jason posts his poem about Prince called, "U Never Knew Me but U Were My Best Friend," I'll admit -- at first I kinda rolled my eyes, "Oh Lord, a fan poem" but... No! That was beautiful! And I couldn't believe it, but I cried.
This book was just great. My daughter, who never takes my suggestions when I suggest books to her (and I have told her of some great ones) is going to order this one. Mainly because she's a Prince fan but also because, as I've been reading, I've been texting her some of the funny stuff (like him farting when he lost his virginity) and also texting her the sad and the sweet things too. I even sent her the link to the video of the ICP promoting his book -- I told her I would send her my copy but she said, "Nope! I'm supporting J- Webb, he sounds Awesome!" so --
The only thing about the book that gave me pause was when he said that "Sister" was written about.... er... Tyka! (?) Lord No, I don't think so! But I guess Prince fans have their own interpretations of the lyrics. But I certainly never thought Tyka! Sharon maybe... but not Tyka.
Another thing -- He talks of his PTSD from working for Mayor Carty Finkbeiner and when I went on Youtube and put in the name Carty Finkbeiner, one of the first things that popped up was a video from the local news showing the mayor at the park, being caught on camera calling a kid Fatso. Sounds like a delight to work for. No wonder the poor guy has PTSD.
Well, just now as I was writing this review, My daughter called and I read Jason's poem to her from the book and we both cried!
Jason, you did something amazing with this book -- you took us on a journey through your life with Prince and it was beautiful. The last thing I want to say is that I wish Prince could read this - he would be so proud.