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Cheating Is Not Cheating: A Guide To Understanding A Man's Nature
Cheating is not cheating is a guide to helping women understand the nature of a man as well as helping men understand the nature of themselves. With this book, it is in my intention to provide a solution to common relationship problems through teaching healing, and providing readers with an understanding of themself and their spouse.
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201 pages, Paperback
Published April 8, 2020
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December 30, 2024
Look out Goodreads, most of the reviews on this account are made from fake accounts. Most likely the author themselves trying to make their book look good. You want to know what this boom is discussing? That men need to sleep with multiple women because it is their nature.
If you want to be poly, do it. You can still cheat in a poly relationship because cheating isnt just fking another woman, its lying. Its going behind your partners back. Its gaslighting them into believing cheating is ok. Any man that truly believes in this, is just trying to excuse their cheating habits. Its not contriversial. Men and women both have the same sex drives. Science has proven this. In fact, women have more of a sex drive than men. We are just shamed more about it. We are taught self control, while for men, its taught as a trophy to have an STD infested dick.
A man who lacks self control, is a weak man.
If you want to be poly, do it. You can still cheat in a poly relationship because cheating isnt just fking another woman, its lying. Its going behind your partners back. Its gaslighting them into believing cheating is ok. Any man that truly believes in this, is just trying to excuse their cheating habits. Its not contriversial. Men and women both have the same sex drives. Science has proven this. In fact, women have more of a sex drive than men. We are just shamed more about it. We are taught self control, while for men, its taught as a trophy to have an STD infested dick.
A man who lacks self control, is a weak man.
July 4, 2025
I didn’t even read this but after looking at the comments i can tell i don’t want too. (Whatever “to” is used here)
I am so mad that this book is about a man telling women that a man cheating is just his nature, NO IT IS NOT, IF HE CHEATS ON YOU THEN L-E-A-V-E HIM!! sure you can give a second chance (which you PROBABLY shouldn’t) but if he does it again then leave.
It actually disgusts me that men can blame the fact they cheated on their “nature”. I’m sorry buddy but that is not a valid excuse or excuse at all, it is just trying to gaslight people to take your side.
Now, I don’t care who you are, but if you blame cheating on your “nature” just know, that is not A EXCUSE.
I’m actually fuming after reading the synopsis and comments. Anyways bye, i know that i probably shouldn’t write this, but tbh I don’t care, if you’re offended by this review, then good.
Oh yeah i can only imagine the double standards about this book. Iykyk.
I am so mad that this book is about a man telling women that a man cheating is just his nature, NO IT IS NOT, IF HE CHEATS ON YOU THEN L-E-A-V-E HIM!! sure you can give a second chance (which you PROBABLY shouldn’t) but if he does it again then leave.
It actually disgusts me that men can blame the fact they cheated on their “nature”. I’m sorry buddy but that is not a valid excuse or excuse at all, it is just trying to gaslight people to take your side.
Now, I don’t care who you are, but if you blame cheating on your “nature” just know, that is not A EXCUSE.
I’m actually fuming after reading the synopsis and comments. Anyways bye, i know that i probably shouldn’t write this, but tbh I don’t care, if you’re offended by this review, then good.
Oh yeah i can only imagine the double standards about this book. Iykyk.
December 31, 2024
I had to look at an ad for this book, and for that, I deserve recompense.
February 16, 2025
0 stars.
Make no mistake. I went into this with an open mind because I genuinely believe that cheating is defined by the person/persons in the relationship. I was curious to see what this person had to say in regards to that.
This was not a book on that. It could have been that. It wasn't.
Instead, we received a poorly written book about how it's a man's nature to cheat.
It isn't? Not to mention that nature is not gender based. A person's nature is their own.
The hypocrisy and narcissism was LOUD. Not to mention the fact that it was indeed sexist even while claiming not to be such.
Even taking into account that he only focused on straight couples, it was bad.
He didn't account for couples on the LGBQT+ side of things or non-monogamous relationships.
This was 200 pages telling women to forgive their men for cheating cause men love the experience of pu**y. But if you can't, move on. Some other girl will let him cheat 50 times and still forgive him.
That was literally the book.
Make no mistake. I went into this with an open mind because I genuinely believe that cheating is defined by the person/persons in the relationship. I was curious to see what this person had to say in regards to that.
This was not a book on that. It could have been that. It wasn't.
Instead, we received a poorly written book about how it's a man's nature to cheat.
It isn't? Not to mention that nature is not gender based. A person's nature is their own.
The hypocrisy and narcissism was LOUD. Not to mention the fact that it was indeed sexist even while claiming not to be such.
Even taking into account that he only focused on straight couples, it was bad.
He didn't account for couples on the LGBQT+ side of things or non-monogamous relationships.
This was 200 pages telling women to forgive their men for cheating cause men love the experience of pu**y. But if you can't, move on. Some other girl will let him cheat 50 times and still forgive him.
That was literally the book.
August 31, 2020
Read it in one day!
Very decent book, couldn’t put it down all day, really recommend it for anyone going through a break up or just to gained new knowledge, even though the book is written from his point of view, lots of things make sense but you have to approach this book with an open mind to try to understand his point of view. Overall love it!
Very decent book, couldn’t put it down all day, really recommend it for anyone going through a break up or just to gained new knowledge, even though the book is written from his point of view, lots of things make sense but you have to approach this book with an open mind to try to understand his point of view. Overall love it!
November 7, 2021
MUST READ THIS BOOK
It helps the reader understand what goes on a women’s mindset when she makes wrong choices that hurt the relationship, as well that goes for men too. It’s a great book and very catchy title.. Don’t judge a book by it’s cover, pick it up and read it.. It’s only 13 chapters, you could do it
It helps the reader understand what goes on a women’s mindset when she makes wrong choices that hurt the relationship, as well that goes for men too. It’s a great book and very catchy title.. Don’t judge a book by it’s cover, pick it up and read it.. It’s only 13 chapters, you could do it
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December 29, 2024Yessssss! Sensational. I am so excited for this book! I am such an avid reader and it's a perfect fit for my collection of titles like: Speaking is NOT speaking, Walking is NOT walking ... Cooking is NOT cooking ... and yeah Cheating it's definitely not cheating by Mr. Dingle
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