結婚帝国 (河出文庫)

by Chizuko Ueno

著名女性主义学者上野干鹤子新作，写给所有女性的清醒之书！中文简体版首次引进！“上野女士在这本书里讲到的东西，足以匹敌好几本专业书籍。”

围绕亲密关系、独立、家暴、男性观察等女性关注的议题，社会学家上野千鹤子与心理学家信田小夜子，开始了一场女性主义的极限课堂。展开一场关于婚姻制度与当代女性面临的社会现实的深刻对话，畅谈爱与性、婚烟、独立、男人、母女关系等女性日常生活中不可避免的话题。

两位“女性的盟友”，分别从社会学统计数据与一线女性的心境出发，以各自的观察和研究经验，敞开心扉，展开尖锐问答。两位学者凭借独到的观点和犀利的语言，鼓舞女性找到自己，自由选择自己的人生！

Genres: Feminism

206 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 6, 2011

About the author

Chizuko Ueno is a Japanese sociologist and Japan's "best-known feminist".

Her research field includes feminist theory, family sociology, and women's history. She is best known for her contribution to gender studies in Japan. As a public intellectual, she played a central role in creating the field of gender studies in Japanese academia. At the same time, her radical tendency and strong character has invited criticism (she described herself as "critical, assertive, and disobedient").

Ueno is a trenchant critic of postwar revisionism and criticizes the whitewashing of Japanese history, which she claims attempts to justify its colonialism, wartime atrocities, and racism both before and after World War II. In particular, she has defended the compensation of Korean comfort women who were forced into prostitution by the Empire of Japan.

Reviews

[lukoto · Rating 5 out of 5]

如对谈者信田所说 上野女士的确是个神奇重要的存在。如此直白的自我剖析加上锐利洞察日本社会两性权利问题的眼光实在是珍贵。同样的问题在其他东亚社会和东南亚社会平行存在。对于女性的家庭和社会角色的质问不得不让我反省是不是自己也是在男权社会成为了一个“带着女儿脸的儿子”，而这个前提还是极具讽刺意味地成为家族心中或者社会标准下注重事业/事业攀升型女性。 上野和信田对于亲密关系中女性如何与男性建立关系、互动/filirt下体现的性别预期洞察也是同样犀利。上野呛不相信信田居然没反向利用性别弱势让男人落网真实太可爱辽。（但同样地让人反思在长期性别预期下，女性是否就会不自觉地用男性构建的性别特征来博得男性喜爱）

[Emily · Rating 4 out of 5]

The book took the form of a long conversation between two women, a feminist scholar and a therapist. They both made incisive observations about parenthood, marriage and relationships.
While the first 1/3 felt more Japan-specific and took me months to get through, the rest of the book was quite applicable across different societies. Especially about how romantic and carer relationships evolve under economic depression.

[Jo · Rating 3 out of 5]

“结婚并不能让人生重启，不结婚也不代表前途一片黑暗。家人固然可以提供一定的安全保障，但有时也会化作最大的风险。对男性来说，婚姻不过是人生的一部分。”女性也在向这个目标靠近

[Jue JJ · Rating 5 out of 5]

Some terms are hard to understand so it’s really good to read their conversation which makes it much easier to understand.

[Tina · Rating 3 out of 5]

上野的所有对谈书，除了「始于极限」都略失望。不喜欢这种口语对话式的碎片化的对谈，段落或者信件格式的应该会更深刻，更多的了解到对话双方的观点异同。

而且又被上野对婚姻的敌意吓到了，把婚姻制度 reduce 成就是把自己身体的支配权永久的交给一个人，还质问作为临床心理学家的信田为什么大家都想结婚，信田说这是浪漫价值观，上野竟然回答说“骇人听闻”和“我不明白”。真是很奇怪。

[Miyabi · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.5