Focus on what helps you connect with people more deeply. Focus on what helps illuminate things for you. If your personal experience is different than discussed here, that’s totally okay, too. Everyone’s experience is unique to them. Some of our experiences match the stories of others. Some of them don’t. It’s as simple as that. No one’s secrets are being revealed here. At the same time, everyone’s secrets are being revealed. There are a lot of things most people don’t understand, and some of those things are being explained. A lot of things going on in a lot of hearts is being revealed. Use this book to help your own understanding, and use it only to help others. Remember that particular line: Use it only to help. Despite the redundancy, I’m going to say it one more time: Use. It. ONLY. To. Help.If you’re reading this book and think that some particular other person would benefit, feel free to share. Share. Do not force it on them. Make it available. Let them decide. Talk about what you learn, but only share your own insight. Do not tell them they have to read it. Do not tell them they have to use a particular technique in here. Do not tell them they should go buy this particular program or see that particular personal coach. Grown-ups get to make their own decisions. Pique their curiosity. That’s okay. But keep the pressure low. Remember, we’re talking about deeply emotional issues in here. Let others come to it when they are ready.