A lot of books cross my desk, and among those books which are both Catholic and for women, there are quite a few that focus on prayer.
We Catholic women are a prayerful lot, aren’t we?
Or, at least, that’s what the publishers must think.
I don’t think they’re wrong.
But I do think it takes a special sort of book to actually, you know, work.
For one thing, how hard can prayer be? Sit in your seat and DO IT.
Easy for me to say, right? I’m a type A person and nearly perfect. Just ask my kids.
According to a survey quoted in the introduction, Michele Faehnle — co-founder of the wonderful Columbus Catholic Women’s Conference so many of us attend and love — reports that “only 51 percent of Catholic women surveyed pray daily.” She continues, “Yes, it can be difficult to carve out time with God, and to learn to pray. On the other hand, prayer cannot be something we leave on the back burner and only pull out in times of need. Prayer is the lifeblood of our faith, a two-way conversation with God that alternately comforts, strengthens, and inspires.”
What follows is seven chapters that have some of the best done journaling prompts and discussion ideas I’ve ever seen in a book of this sort. I’m not a journaler, to be honest, and I usually roll my eyes when there are discussion questions. What Faehnle and Jamimet have done here, though, is amazingly approachable and provoking.
The book alternates between the two voices of Faehnle and Jamimet, and each chapter includes an introduction that will probably make you nod along, tips and practical advice for applying prayer to the situation, an introduction to a type of prayer, a short introduction to a saint, quotes and insight from the saint, and a prayer prompt.
Sprinkled throughout, in ways that are natural and feel almost like a friend interrupting to say, “Hey. Let’s talk RIGHT NOW THIS VERY MINUTE!” are discussion paragraphs. Unlike the three-to-five questions you find at the end of every. single. book. for. women. these days, these feel like they’re actually discussions. Like people are listening. Like someone cares about the answers.
Mind you, I was reading ALONE. BY MYSELF.
I picked this book up with no small amount of skepticism and walked away completely enchanted. At last, a book that will not just tell me the what and how, but whose authors walk with me and serve as companions on the journey to heaven. I not only highly recommend it, I invite you to pray along.