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Do you wish that you could enjoy parenthood more?
Have you ever wondered what deeper meaning there is to being a Mom or Dad?

In Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops Jacqueline Pirtle, a mom herself, carries you through the experience of parenthood by making spiritual and energetic sense of real physical-life parenting scenarios—while, as her highest priority, keeping children’s perspectives in mind.

This book opens new doors for you to dive into parenthood with fresh zest, plenty of fun, and infinite love for yourself and for your children by teaching you these 3 important pillars to better parenting:

The Harmonious Dance It Is Never The Child The Love Cycle of Parenthood

This profound parent-life wisdom can be utilized immediately, so you too can experience a spectacular time with your children, including teenagers, ASAP.

No matter if you are a parent, grandparent, aunt and uncle, or just a lover of life, Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops will inspire you to dig deeper into the enjoyment of being alive and being a Mother or Father.

Get ready, this book will leave you with a sweet tooth that is endlessly craving well-feeling parenting and life moments every day!

223 pages, Kindle Edition

Published September 23, 2019

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Jacqueline Pirtle

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Bestselling author, podcaster, and holistic practitioner, Jacqueline Pirtle, has twenty-four years of experience helping thousands of clients discover their own happiness. Jacqueline is the owner of FreakyHealer and has shared her solid teachings through her podcast The Daily Freak, sessions, workshops, presentations, and books with clients all over the world. She holds international degrees in holistic health and natural living. Her effective healing work has been featured in print and online magazines, podcasts, radio shows, on TV, and in the documentary The Overly Emotional Child by Learning Success, available on amazon prime.

For any questions you might have, to sign up for Jacqueline’s newsletter, and for more information or whatever else she is up to, visit www.freakyhealer.com and her social media accounts @freakyhealer.

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19 reviews1 follower
March 1, 2020
This book was an interesting read. I got a lot of really great advice on how to create a loving open relationship with my children. I didn’t connect with everything Jacqueline Pirtle was teaching but there were a few things that really resonated with me and made the book worth the read overall. I really like that she focused on this concept that “no one is less and no one is more.” I think that is such an important concept for people, children, parents, humans to learn. So many of us look at others and think that they are better than us creating a feeling of inferiority, or I am better than them, creating a feeling of superiority. None of that is true and Jacqueline does a nice job of relaying this concept.

Jacqueline also is very good at teaching you to be present in the moment of your children and loving them for who they are. It’s a matter of letting them be them and then allowing yourself to show up as the kind of parent you want to be. If you have a child who is a night owl and wants to stay up and play or talk. Allow them to be who they are and spend time and enjoy that part of your child, even though you may not feel like staying up. But because you want to be a parent who is living from their heart you will do it.

Another thing that I really connected with was allowing your children to feel their emotions and teaching them that it’s good and okay to do so. Most of us want our children to stop being upset or angry or to stop crying. We teach our children to push their emotions down and not feel them because we think that is a bad thing. But in reality and what Jacqueline teaches is that feeling emotions is part of being a human and that it’s not a bad thing to feel emotions, even negative ones like anger. She walks you through the process of how to handle these emotions with your child without mirroring them and how to teach your child to express them without lashing out.

It's an interesting easy read that all parents who are open to learning new concepts about being a better parent would benefit from.
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Author 1 book8 followers
December 7, 2019
This book would make a great gift for a new, open-minded parent. I could definitely find myself giving this as a gift at a baby shower or even suggesting it to a friend who is struggling with parenting. It is playful and gives a much needed reframe on the child-parent relationship and approach to parenting.

This book does require that you to shift your focus from being the one in charge to the idea that you and your child are equal in the lessons you have for each other. It is such an easy read and light-hearted, so it is and enjoyable read, if you let it be. 

I liked the little notes that she wrote in as if the child was talking. It breaks up the flow and is really sweet to think of your child saying to you these things. 
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156 reviews32 followers
March 7, 2022
The points of parenthood is to love your children as their whole beings. The book is gives a lot advice in many different situation. The goals is to harmonize the relationship between parent and child start from the years of babyhood, toodlerhood, childhood, young adulthood until adulthood. The concept of parenting through the eyes of lollipops is to gives the fully sense through the happy experience like the pleasure of lollipop brings to us.

I definitetly recommend it for all of the parent out there particularly the one that struggling in parenthood.
2 reviews1 follower
November 19, 2019
I am about to read it for the second time. I am a super busy mom with a full-time job, blogger, and running my Irish twin boys to sports, daycare, and more. Her book is the perfect read when I am stuck waiting around.

It provides me a different angle to look at! In the end our children and next generations are mirror images of there surroundings.

Jacqueline reminds us that parenting can be fun and colorful, like lollipops

It empowers me to better myself and my family. It is very energetic and addicting to read!
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Author 2 books4 followers
November 1, 2019
Parenthood can be challenging! In her book — Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops, Jacqueline Pirtle explains the importance of maintaining good physical, mental, and spiritual health to equip a person for parenthood.

I am a parent and relate to the messages found in this book. The collaboration of parents and children toward a harmonious family is well articulated. Self-care is an essential component of mental health, advocated in this inspiring book, which also highlights conflict resolution skills that are necessary for peaceful coexistence.

Readers are shown that parenthood can be filled with sweetness, and cherished experiences.

Doubtless, Jacqueline Pirtle is an Ambassador for Mindful Happiness. She exudes positive energy, which I am privileged to enjoy.

I commend the insightful, remarkable Jacqueline Pirtle, and recommend Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops to parents, parents-to-be, carers, and everyone.

Ukpeme Akpan Okon
Ambassador for Peace, award-winning author, Barrister, Speaker, and Mediator.
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18 reviews1 follower
January 2, 2020
Life has been challenging lately with the different personalities that my kids have shown. I have a new teenager (who is starting to show the attitude), a 10 year old ADHD very emotional child, and a defiant, stubborn 7 year old who is causing me to have LOTS of grey hairs. LOL I completely understand that all 3 have different needs depending on who they are and therefore no one size fits all attitude toward parenting works for them. Because of this I have been looking and getting advice from lots of different sources to see what might work in my home. I was excited to receive Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops by Jacqueline Pirtle to read and review.

It took me a while to actually have time to sit and read this book. I will admit that I was kind of skeptical going in as it seemed like the more I read, the more her ideology was in contrast to how I was raised and what I feel is the right way of parenting- that I am the parent and my kids are kids and must listen and follow my lead. Pirtle argues that children and their parents are equals in this life of parenting and there are times that one is the student and one is the teacher and vice-versa. It is a harmonious dance in which the child and parent are equal participants.

Yes parenting is part of a dance--- one that can be fun, harmonious and joyful. One that allows our children to become who THEY are and that reminds us as parents that our children are their own beings. Pirtle offers 3 pillars of beliefs that summarize her parenting advice--The Harmonious Dance, It is Never the Child, and The Love Cycle of Parenthood. The pillars offer joyful, energized ways to be a better parent and a better participant in whatever level of parenthood you are in (including before you conceive, when your child is a baby, young child, teenager and adult). They remind you to enjoy the role of being a parent to your greatest blessings.

I personally needed that particular reminder and I picked up several tidbits that I believe will help me in my parenting journey with the kiddos. Ideologies that will hopefully help bring back my joy as a mom and allow me to have a better relationship with my children.

Overall, I would recommend this book for ANY parent!


DISCLAIMER:: I was sent a copy of this book to read from the author and Book Publicity Services in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.
1 review3 followers
February 20, 2020
Parenting through The eyes of lollipops takes a unique point of view on how to parent your children by focusing on the aspect of everything is energy.

Although I do not personally agree with all the parenting advice in the book, Pirtle does make some good points such as trying to grasp the concept that your child is an individual person just like you with their own opinions and feelings so don't force them to be someone they're not. Basically you play the role of the teacher OR the student at different points in time, both learning and growing together as one.

The book gave me a very calm and zen vibe. I really enjoyed the chapter, Who is what Energy, as I can place different family members in the categories.

I did not like how the book repeats the main phrases about playing your role as teacher/student in every chapter but I guess repetition is Pirtle's way of getting the point across. I also felt like I was reading a bunch of short snippets from a blog thrown together to make a book.

Although this book wasn't the perfect fit for me in my current motherhood journey, I did not come away empty-handed and I will keep in mind what I learned as I continued my journey with my children. I would totally recommend giving the book a read, especially if your parenting style is open-minded and free-spirited.

***I received this book free from the author/publishing service in return for my honest opinion.***
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1,138 reviews29 followers
August 13, 2022
I wasn't ready for this book when I first started reading it last year. I had a lot of growing to do to be able to take in what Jacqueline Pirtle has to say about parenting.

This book advocates for bringing fun back into parenting, and embracing what Pirtle calls "the harmonious dance" of parent and child, because it isn't at all about us teaching "a blank slate". We learn as much from our children as they learn from us, but there can be less pain, less shouting and way more fun if we adults embrace that aspect and allow ourselves to grow.

A very powerful and thought-provoking book that encourages parents to shift into a more wholesome mindset about parenting and what it entails. There is lot of good advice and very helpful and important repetition to encourage us to take the leap and make the shift.

As a transformational life coach I highly recommend this book to anyone who would like to include personal growth in their parenting journey and experience, and who would like to encourage the highest potential in their children, supporting them in overcoming socially imposed paradigms from a bygone time rather than forcing children to internalize these outdated ways of understanding the world we live in.
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3 reviews
January 24, 2020
“Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops” walks the reader through the parent/child journey from pre-conception to transition back into non-physical. It’s fitting for any reader - from the future parent (no matter how near or far you may be from conception) to the parent of grown adults or children who have transitioned before them.
Jacqueline Pirtle shares a perspective on this unique and significant relationship unlike any that I’ve heard before. She has the incredible gift of being able to maintain a steady viewpoint through the lens of love. She helps the reader to feel at peace no matter what their current relationship status with their children or parents by emphasizing that everything is unfolding perfectly, nothing is going wrong, and that we’re all here as equals (parent and children alike) - we’re simply souls fulfilling our destinies.
The teachings in this book will help the parent to ‘dance harmoniously’ with the child and the adult child gain a different and deeper understanding of their parents.
A high-vibe, good-feeling, thoughtful and transformative book. I highly recommend it for all humans who have ever been or will ever be a child or a parent.
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627 reviews
August 17, 2020
From the author that brought you “365 Days of Happiness” a wonderful book about finding happiness in your life all year long comes, “Parenting through the Eyes of Lollipops”. This wonderful book is packed full of ideas to help you parent from a new perspective. It will help you just “BE” with your child and see the value each of you bring to the child-parent relationship.

I really enjoyed this book. It gives you a fresh perspective on parenting and guides you to see everything through the eyes of lollipops (sweet, fun, and bright). There are three pillars that help you be a better parent. They guide you to be better for yourself and your child. We are shown how “it’s never the child” they are here to teach us to live authentically. We are not here just to teach them they have a lot to teach us as well. I think every parent would agree with that. This book brings a spiritual aspect to parenting that I really enjoyed. This was a beautiful book and I can’t wait to read the author’s next book.


I would like to thank the author for providing me a copy free of charge. This is my honest and unbiased review of it
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1 review
December 16, 2019
This book came at a perfect time in my motherhood journey. I have a 10 and 13 year old. These tween years have been difficult but after reading this book, i'm reminded that parenting can be a harmonious dance. Jaqueline Pirtle talks gives physical and spiritual examples that helped remind me we are more than just a mother or father. We are teachers and students, as she puts it. Our children are here to live their own purpose, to BE who they are meant to be and this book helps me see things from their point of view.

Jaqueline writes in a way that includes a child's perspective, something we easily forget. She offers a unique point of view on the different stages we go through with our children. This is not just for little ones, but also addresses how to deal with our teenagers and adult kids. What a refreshing read. I don't want to give away what the title means completely but lollipop's remind us playfulness, fun, joy, sweetness. Once you read it, all will make sense :)

I'm so happy I received a complimentary copy for review, it was much needed in my life, perfect timing!
1 review
December 26, 2019
Jaqueline Pirtle's Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops offers a fresh perspective on the parenting book genre. As an often stressed and worn out parent of three kids, I learned a lot from this book. Jaqueline's book is full of encouragement for parents in all stages of parenthood. One of my biggest takeaways from this book is the reciprocal relationship between parent and child. Jaqueline explains how at different times you and your child will fill different roles: sometimes the parent is the spiritual or physical teacher, and at other times the child is the spiritual or physical teacher. By tuning in to you and your child's soul essence, Jaqueline's book explains how the ultimate goal of "dancing a harmonious dance with your child" is achieved.

This book is highly recommended for parents seeking a fresh perspective and encouragement on their parenting journey.
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2 reviews
April 27, 2020
This book came to me at just the right time in my life! I have two little ones (2 and 4 years old) Parenting is really hard at the best of times, but when you feel like its all getting on top of you, then it really is a struggle day to day! I was in this stage recently. I found i was spending more time shouting and feeling low and negative than enjoying my time with my kids! Enter this book... It changed the way I was feeling and helped me find better coping strategies! I have become a lot more chilled and learning to just let the kids be kids and not put so much pressure on myself. Jacqueline's writing is far becoming my favourite. She can explain things in such a particular way that it really changes my outlook on life! If you feel you are struggling, make steps to help yourself. This book will definitely guide you in the right direction.
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Author 2 books6 followers
April 30, 2020
Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops was very light-hearted in its tone but provided a holistic and insightful look into parenting that I believe we all can benefit from. Whether you're single or a first-time parent, a grandparent, or an auntie, this book reminds us of the innocence and wonderment of childhood. We all go through seasons of life and Jaqueline does a wonderful job of highlighting the different roles we play through those chapters and how it is easier to flow with the rapid changes than it is to put up stringent walls. While at the moment parenting may feel challenging, in retrospect it flies by. Jacqueline's approach to writing is merely suggestive and based on your subjective style of parenting, realizing there is no one-size-fits-all approach. BUT everything can be managed better with a lollipop ;-)
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February 13, 2020
Parenting through the eyes of Lollipops has opened my eyes to a whole new perspective of parenting. It has encouraged me to truly understand what my child is expressing and needing from me so that we can have the best relationship. I love how it takes you through the stages of childhood and helps you understand obstacles you may face. I am a first time mom and this book has encouraged me to take a step back when I feel overwhelmed or unsure of what my child needs and really appreciate every aspect of this parenting thing.
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January 12, 2020
Parenting through the Eyes of Lollipops has been an amazing. I saw and read through it today with tears in my eyes. I love how she wrote nearly a whole chapter from a child's perspective. I love how she encourages us to just be mama's who don't mind the messes and just lives through the eyes of lollipops!

I will definitely be suggesting this book to my friends and family and will buy a few as gifts This book is a gift to all parents; Moms and Dads. So go get yourself a copy!
1 review
January 22, 2020
This book has changed the way I parent. As a part time working / part time stay at home mother of two young boys, my life tends to be chaos. Wonderful chaos, but chaos. I have been working on being a more present and patient mother (and wife) and have gained such wonderful tools to implement from this book. I will be forever grateful that I read this book — it is helping me on my road to being the best mother I can be.
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3 reviews
June 13, 2020
I bought this book when I was going through a very difficult time, and it brought me so much comfort.
Jacqueline, as a writer, is phenomenal. Jacqueline, as a human being is phenomenal.
She puts so much passion into her writing and it shines through in this book.
It's beautifully written, easy to understand and would be super easy to implement into your life.
Thank you, Jacqueline for another beautiful piece of art!
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January 2, 2020
This book is great for first time parents. Entering the world of parenting there is an overload of information and it's easy to get overwhelmed. This book helped to block out the extra noise and focus on what I need as a mother and what my child needs to grow not just physically but also mentally and spiritually. Highly recommend. This would be a perfect baby shower gift.
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June 20, 2020
Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops was such a refreshing perspective on parenting. It’s nice to be reminded that our children have gifts for us to learn too. And I love the idea that when we allow them to be their own little souls and see them for who they truly are, we begin a harmonious dance. I see this dance in my girls and feel affirmed by Jaqueline’s words. @1010zen
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452 reviews24 followers
August 5, 2020
Really enjoyed this joyful parenting book. It has a lot of great nuggets of advice of getting out of the old ways and taking your child's direction on what brings them joy and happiness. I truly think it was a different kind of parenting book which had different ideas than other traditional parenting books I have read in the past. Well done.
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5 reviews1 follower
December 15, 2019
This is a lighthearted read that helps you find joy in parenting. Author Jacqueline Pirtle makes the point that our children are not extensions of ourselves. They are their own individuals, and they are here to follow their own soul calling. Our job is to support them in being themselves, not in being who we think they ought to be. If you find yourself taking things your child does personally — tantrums, hurtful words, etc. — this book can take that pressure off.
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158 reviews19 followers
April 13, 2020
A highly recommended read especially for new parents! I will definitely purchase this book to give away as gifts. Thanks so much Netgalley for allowing me to read this book in exchange for my ho eat opinion!
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23 reviews
May 19, 2020
This book is not sugar coating what it means to be a woman (on the title or anywhere else). It's not all easy or glamorous and in this book, you will feel seen and heard because of the real and authentic voice of the author.
10 reviews
December 13, 2019
This book is amazing. It takes you through every stage of parenting from infancy to adulthood. As parents at time we wonder if we're giving are children enough love and/or time. Jacqueline reassures us that we have everything thing we need to be great parent by being present and here.
3 reviews
October 15, 2019
Jacqueline's second book founded on the premise that everything is energy, and the way to live peacefully and happily in the world is to recognize that premise is as chock full of good reminders and nuggets of wisdom as her first, this time around, not just for being in the world, but for being a parent. Parents will find it so useful and relieving to learn, or remember, that the parent/child relationship is an ever changing student/teacher relationship, with each partner taking turns in the two roles. Letting go of resistance to moving back and forth from teacher to student through each and every stage of parenting, from conception to passing, is the key to a fulfilling and meaningful relationship between parent and child. Another incredibly powerful tool Jacqueline provides her readers is to recognize that at the same time our children are mirrors for us, they are also individual soul-beings who demand, rightfully, to be who they are meant to be, and that our job is to let them! She invites parents to stop holding on to anything that doesn't serve us or our relationships with our children. Jacqueline reminds us that yes, parenting can be joyful, fun, sweet and colorful, just like lollipops!
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Author 2 books4 followers
October 14, 2019
Jacqueline Pirtle never ceases to amaze me with her imagery of life. Things I've never thought about such as smelling the air or even licking a lollipop would be senseless to me. That's what I love about Jacqueline's books she has a way of getting the reader to actually "sense and feel" not only what they're reading but life in general. As she states, EVERYTHING has energy attached to it, we just have to settle down long enough to listen to it. This book was a joy to read and I know every parent would love to hear her wisdom and guidance on bringing lollipops to the table of disagreement and let's just take a lick and talk. Whether you're thinking about having kids, already have them or if your children are grown. Jacqueline has a chapter for each stage of life - never before was there a book that was given to parents before and after having a child. Well, here it is - all you have to do is order it!
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180 reviews
October 24, 2019
Jacqueline Pirtle is my hero! Parenting Through the Eyes of Lollipops helped me recognize all the parenting phases that I went through and that continue still. I loved the descriptions and explanations of the early, tween and adult years. At every age, Jacqueline Pirtle reminds us that your child’s needs change, but they never stop needing to be themselves. This book flows logically from pre-pregnancy to adulthood. Mindfulness, happiness and well-being of both parent and child are central to the discussions here. Jacqueline discusses so many important aspects of parenting—appreciation, trust and patience, to name a few. A terrific follow-up to 365 Days of Happiness, this book continues to exude Jacqueline’s positivity and happiness.
I will be giving this book with every baby shower gift I give, I think it is that important and relevant!
3 reviews1 follower
November 1, 2019
The title is eye-catching and I couldn't wait to read what was inside. I love the way Jacqueline speaks about her experience as a parent. While reading the book, I found myself agreeing with and taking notes on how I can improve the way I interact with my children. I also found there to be eye-opening moments sprinkled throughout. I would highly recommend this book to parents who are looking for a way to reconnect with their child(dren).
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