A mentor recommended this book to me two years ago and it has been sitting on my shelf untouched until now. Great timing though! I really enjoyed this and learned a lot. There are the three foundational pillars of identity that McConnell focuses on (lovable, valuable, capable.) Here is my favorite quote that sums it up:
“In relating to God the Father, your sense of belonging grows, and you understand that you are unconditionally loved by God. In relating to Jesus Christ the Son, your sense of worth grows, and you understand that you are valued by God. In relating to the Holy Spirit, your sense of competence grows, and you understand that you are useful to God.”