Dr. Robert J. Ackerman is Professor Emeritus from Indiana University of Pennsylvania and the previous Director of the Mid-Atlantic Addiction Research and Training Institute. He is co-founder of the National Association for Children of Alcoholics. He is the previous Editor of Counselor: The Magazine for Addiction and Behavioral Health Professionals and currently is the Chair of the Advisory Board.
The book, "Children of Alcoholics by Robert J. Ackerman" shows what life is like for kids who grew up with parents that drink too much. It explains how children can feel stuck between their parents, lose trust in people, or even act older than their age because of the problems at home. The author also points out that many kids end up blaming themselves for their parent’s drinking, which makes them feel guilty and lowers their self-worth. He also included some poems of the childrens from the alcoholic families, like kevin, a third grader. Overall, the book gives a clear picture of how alcoholism affects not only the parent but the whole family.
For me, this book was meaningful because it made me realize how much these kids go through everything in silence. It shows that they need more love, patience, and understanding from the people around them. I think this book is important because it reminds us not to judge children too quickly, since we never know what they are going through at home. Reading it also made me appreciate the role of teachers and adults in helping children feel supported.