How to Succeed with Women, Revised and Updated

by Ron Louis, David Copeland

The bestselling guide to being a ladies? man?revised and updated.

Providing clear, no-nonsense solutions for many difficult dating/relationship problems, this is an invaluable guide for any man who?s been stymied by the ?rules? of the dating game.

Intended for single or divorced men, it delivers specific, detailed advice on how and where to meet women, how to talk to them, how to ask a woman out, how to prepare for a date and keep the conversation flowing. It explains how to be a success romantically, revealing the five keys and five blocks to intimacy that can keep a relationship going or derail it completely. Readers will also learn how to know if she?s the one?and know when it?s over.

Genres: Relationships

416 pages, Paperback

First published September 1, 1998

About the author

Ron Louis is a dating coach, author of Sexpectations: Women Talk Candidly About Sex and Dating, and coauthor of How to Succeed with Women, How to Succeed with Men, The Sex Lover’s Book of Lists, and the Mastery Program tape series. Louis has appeared on numerous television shows, including the NBC game show To Tell the Truth and The Roseanne Show.

Reviews

[Henry]

- Be YOU: do not bend over just because you have a date: if you meet someone new but can't hang out because of an important business meeting the next day, tell her so, reschedule time - make your life work for you

- In regards to flirting: be direct, show your admiration. If the response is a no - take it like a man and respect her boundary

- Filrtation is truly about getting to know each other with the context of romance. Realize the deal breakers and act so if you find one (I.e, avoid crazy women regardless of how attractive she is)

- Women are attractive to passion in something, not necessarily "money": although when a man is passionate about his work, his passion translate to financial success. So from the outside it seems like women are attractive to wealthy men

- Know when to stop: stop flirting while it is still fun do to the law of diminishing returns

- On gift giving: the wrapping is extremely important. In addition, it has to be a surprise - something she didn't expect to happen

- On seduction: physical touch is important. Try slowly and see her reaction: if she shows discomfort, back away like a man: respect her boundary as always

- On seduction: she needs to feel special, prized. It must be genuine coming from you (you wouldn't be with her on the first place if you don't find her special)

[Val Nwosu]

Personally, I loved this book! It was informative and told me a LOT of things I never knew about women. I use to be a chump and had problems talking to women but now it is a lot easier than it once was. I use to let them walk all over me and even had a few female friends that were ruining my love life. Now, I don't take their crap or even TRY to fix their problems since I know exactly what that means for me. Thank you gentlemen for a damn fine book.

[Misty]

This book basically just talks about how not to be a jerk to women and being a woman myself I thought it was pretty good.

[atsuki]

実際にどれだけ使えるかは不明だが、心構えだけでも参考になった。