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Body and Soul
Raised in a strict Catholic family, Luca seemed destined for priesthood. His safe spiritual world is shattered after just one kiss with a college roommate. Luca enters a period of self-discovery as his journey of love opens his eyes to joy he never thought possible. Along with his new-found love comes unfathomable pain and self-doubt. Years later, a newly ordained bishop is at the pinnacle of his career when a chance encounter with a lover from his youth threatens to upend his prestigious career and comfortable life. His vow of celibacy and vocation are called into question as he struggles with his faith, loneliness, and need for love. How do these seemingly disparate characters come together to make sense of the unexpected twists and turns in their lives? How do they balance their bodily desires with their soul’s search for meaning?
288 pages, Paperback
First published May 8, 2019
About the author
Mario Dell'Olio
11 books167 followersDr. Mario Dell’Olio is the author of several books. His latest novel, Tilting Toward the Sun, will be released by Black Rose Writing in December 2022. Letters from Italy: A Transatlantic Love Story was released by Black Rose Writing in February 2022. New Men: Bonds of Brotherhood, published by 5310 Publishing. He has self-published two others, both of which are finalists for the Wishing Shelf Book Awards. The first is a memoir, Coming About: Life in the Balance, about a sailing adventure going terribly wrong. The second book, Body and Soul, is LGBTQ fiction that explores the strife of coming out during the 1980s. Body and Soul is also a finalist. His doctoral project examines the woman’s voice in the music of Hildegard von Bingen. Dr. Dell’Olio has published two articles on Medium.com. He is the music director at an independent school in Sonoma, California.
Previously, he was chair of the music department and ethics teacher at a school for girls in Manhattan. Dr. Mario Dell’Olio conducted the Concert and Chamber Choirs. He has led his choirs on international and domestic concert tours and released numerous albums on iTunes and Amazon.com. Dr. Dell’Olio was director of music at Mission Dolores Basilica in San Francisco, California, from 1990 to 2000. He led the Basilica Choir's first international concert tour to Italy in June 1999. Dr. Dell’Olio holds a Doctor of Sacred Music, a Master of Music in Vocal Performance, and a Master of Religious Education. He pursued postgraduate work in Theology as a seminarian at the Pontifical Gregorian University, Rome, Italy.
With over 35,000 followers on Twitter and a solid social media presence, he actively participates in the Writing Community. Dr. Dell’Olio has scheduled numerous author events, readings, and book signings. In November 2020, The Empire City Men’s Chorus of New York City performed a concert/documentary based on Dell'Olio's book, Coming About.
Previously, he was chair of the music department and ethics teacher at a school for girls in Manhattan. Dr. Mario Dell’Olio conducted the Concert and Chamber Choirs. He has led his choirs on international and domestic concert tours and released numerous albums on iTunes and Amazon.com. Dr. Dell’Olio was director of music at Mission Dolores Basilica in San Francisco, California, from 1990 to 2000. He led the Basilica Choir's first international concert tour to Italy in June 1999. Dr. Dell’Olio holds a Doctor of Sacred Music, a Master of Music in Vocal Performance, and a Master of Religious Education. He pursued postgraduate work in Theology as a seminarian at the Pontifical Gregorian University, Rome, Italy.
With over 35,000 followers on Twitter and a solid social media presence, he actively participates in the Writing Community. Dr. Dell’Olio has scheduled numerous author events, readings, and book signings. In November 2020, The Empire City Men’s Chorus of New York City performed a concert/documentary based on Dell'Olio's book, Coming About.
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February 24, 2020
Having finished BODY & SOUL by Mario Dell’Olio last night, I had to get on Goodreads and write a review this morning. It took about a month for me to finish this title—not because it wasn’t well-written and engaging, but because I have had so little time to read over the last few weeks. Luckily, when I did have time, Mario’s book made those little escapes enjoyable.
Brad and Luca become quick friends (and more) when they first meet at university. Two popular, affable guys with a shared secret they are too terrified to share with anyone else. They are each other’s sounding post, support system, and heart. Circumstances of the time (and the characters’ lives) dictate that this type of relationship can never last, and the explosion that blows apart what they had is devastating. So, as easily as two lives converge…they also diverge.
BODY & SOUL is a tale about two lives that converge and then diverge. It’s about right and wrong, finding one’s calling, questioning that calling, finding oneself, doubting oneself, hating oneself and learning to love oneself again…but ultimately, it’s a story about how no matter what path life takes us down, it’s never too late to start on the path toward redemption. It’s never too late to right wrongs, extend forgiveness (especially to oneself), and live a life of integrity.
Told in alternating chapters of past and present, changing POV’s and even moving from first person to third person, BODY & SOUL never feels disjointed. Dell’Olio wrote in this style admirably. One thing I was struck with by the author’s writing was that he does something that many great writers do. He makes you fall in love with the hero, though they are flawed; writes a villain a reader will love to hate at times, yet makes you feel compassion for him. He gives all of his characters flaws and humanity, making the reader consider all points of view and examine how they really feel about uncomfortable situations. There is no black and white in Dell’Olio’s world, just a desire to move closer to truth.
I loved that Dell'Olio didn't shy away from uncomfortable themes but did not try to gloss them over. Like real human beings, Dell'Olio's characters often find themselves in unsavory situations (often of their own making) and take the time it takes humans to understand why these situations were bad for them, and why they shouldn't repeat their same mistakes. Life isn't simple. Neither are the situations in which these characters find themselves.
This reader would highly recommend BODY & SOUL.
Brad and Luca become quick friends (and more) when they first meet at university. Two popular, affable guys with a shared secret they are too terrified to share with anyone else. They are each other’s sounding post, support system, and heart. Circumstances of the time (and the characters’ lives) dictate that this type of relationship can never last, and the explosion that blows apart what they had is devastating. So, as easily as two lives converge…they also diverge.
BODY & SOUL is a tale about two lives that converge and then diverge. It’s about right and wrong, finding one’s calling, questioning that calling, finding oneself, doubting oneself, hating oneself and learning to love oneself again…but ultimately, it’s a story about how no matter what path life takes us down, it’s never too late to start on the path toward redemption. It’s never too late to right wrongs, extend forgiveness (especially to oneself), and live a life of integrity.
Told in alternating chapters of past and present, changing POV’s and even moving from first person to third person, BODY & SOUL never feels disjointed. Dell’Olio wrote in this style admirably. One thing I was struck with by the author’s writing was that he does something that many great writers do. He makes you fall in love with the hero, though they are flawed; writes a villain a reader will love to hate at times, yet makes you feel compassion for him. He gives all of his characters flaws and humanity, making the reader consider all points of view and examine how they really feel about uncomfortable situations. There is no black and white in Dell’Olio’s world, just a desire to move closer to truth.
I loved that Dell'Olio didn't shy away from uncomfortable themes but did not try to gloss them over. Like real human beings, Dell'Olio's characters often find themselves in unsavory situations (often of their own making) and take the time it takes humans to understand why these situations were bad for them, and why they shouldn't repeat their same mistakes. Life isn't simple. Neither are the situations in which these characters find themselves.
This reader would highly recommend BODY & SOUL.
May 19, 2019
THE WISHING SHELF BOOK AWARDS
14st May, 2019
TITLE: Body and Soul
AUTHOR: Mario Dell'olio
Star Rating: 4
‘A gripping story of sexual awakening and coming to terms with the need to be loved. Highly recommended!’
REVIEW
There are many aspects to Body and Soul which are excellent. Firstly, the characters. Here is the strength of this novel. The author knows his characters, very, very well; this shows in the consistent and very individual way they act. This is not a plot-driven story; it’s character-driven. In this book, the characters are the jam which holds everything together.
There is a lot of self-discovery going on in this story, particularly for Luca. I must say, it is very well-written. It can get a little drawn out here and there, slowing the pacing slightly. But, overall, it’s insightful and very much helps the reader to not only understand Luca, but also start to care about what happens to him. The author also understands how important ‘speech’ is to not only develop the characters, but also the plot.
This is a story of self-discovery; of a man who is trying to balance his work with the church with his feelings for another man. The ‘sexual’ elements of the story are well-handled and always sensitively written. And the dilemmas the characters must face are interesting and thought-provoking.
I would happily recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys a character-led story. Also, the LGBT community might very well enjoy – and relate to – many of the problems facing this young man. Finally, anybody who is interested in the topical subject of church and how it’s possible to be a member of a church and also be gay, would find this interesting.
Overall, a stimulating and well-constructed story.
A ‘Wishing Shelf’ Book Review
www.thewsa.co.uk
This book was entered in The Wishing Shelf Book Awards. This is what our readers thought:
Title: Body and Soul
Author: Mario DellOlio
Star Rating: 4 Stars
Number of Readers: 16
Stats
Editing: 8/10
Writing Style:8/10
Content: 8/10
Cover: 7/10
Of the 16 readers:
11 would read another book by this author.
12 thought the cover was good or excellent.
16 felt it was easy to follow.
12 would recommend this story to another reader to try.
Of all the readers, 4 felt the author’s strongest skill was ‘plotting a story’.
Of all the readers, 12 felt the author’s strongest skill was ‘developing the characters’.
10 felt the pacing was good or excellent.
11 thought the author understood the readership and what they wanted.
Readers’ Comments
‘Interesting story. Has a slight autobiographical feel to it. Well-written with interesting and, often, very confused characters. Pacing needs work but there’s potential here.’ Male reader, aged 45
‘Enjoyed this story. A man trying to decide between the life of the church and his love for another man. I suspect a good editor would tighten it up in parts and work on pacing. Still, it’s compelling with solid characterization.’ Female reader, aged 56
‘An interesting look at a confused boy trying to come to terms with who he is and what he wants to be. This is a story about expectations and trying to meet them. Although there is a YA immaturity to parts of the story, it’s still a fascinating read. I would recommend it to 16 and up.’ Female reader, aged 39
To Sum It Up:
‘The story of a man trying to find his way. A FINALIST and highly recommended.’ The Wishing Shelf Book Awards
14st May, 2019
TITLE: Body and Soul
AUTHOR: Mario Dell'olio
Star Rating: 4
‘A gripping story of sexual awakening and coming to terms with the need to be loved. Highly recommended!’
REVIEW
There are many aspects to Body and Soul which are excellent. Firstly, the characters. Here is the strength of this novel. The author knows his characters, very, very well; this shows in the consistent and very individual way they act. This is not a plot-driven story; it’s character-driven. In this book, the characters are the jam which holds everything together.
There is a lot of self-discovery going on in this story, particularly for Luca. I must say, it is very well-written. It can get a little drawn out here and there, slowing the pacing slightly. But, overall, it’s insightful and very much helps the reader to not only understand Luca, but also start to care about what happens to him. The author also understands how important ‘speech’ is to not only develop the characters, but also the plot.
This is a story of self-discovery; of a man who is trying to balance his work with the church with his feelings for another man. The ‘sexual’ elements of the story are well-handled and always sensitively written. And the dilemmas the characters must face are interesting and thought-provoking.
I would happily recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys a character-led story. Also, the LGBT community might very well enjoy – and relate to – many of the problems facing this young man. Finally, anybody who is interested in the topical subject of church and how it’s possible to be a member of a church and also be gay, would find this interesting.
Overall, a stimulating and well-constructed story.
A ‘Wishing Shelf’ Book Review
www.thewsa.co.uk
This book was entered in The Wishing Shelf Book Awards. This is what our readers thought:
Title: Body and Soul
Author: Mario DellOlio
Star Rating: 4 Stars
Number of Readers: 16
Stats
Editing: 8/10
Writing Style:8/10
Content: 8/10
Cover: 7/10
Of the 16 readers:
11 would read another book by this author.
12 thought the cover was good or excellent.
16 felt it was easy to follow.
12 would recommend this story to another reader to try.
Of all the readers, 4 felt the author’s strongest skill was ‘plotting a story’.
Of all the readers, 12 felt the author’s strongest skill was ‘developing the characters’.
10 felt the pacing was good or excellent.
11 thought the author understood the readership and what they wanted.
Readers’ Comments
‘Interesting story. Has a slight autobiographical feel to it. Well-written with interesting and, often, very confused characters. Pacing needs work but there’s potential here.’ Male reader, aged 45
‘Enjoyed this story. A man trying to decide between the life of the church and his love for another man. I suspect a good editor would tighten it up in parts and work on pacing. Still, it’s compelling with solid characterization.’ Female reader, aged 56
‘An interesting look at a confused boy trying to come to terms with who he is and what he wants to be. This is a story about expectations and trying to meet them. Although there is a YA immaturity to parts of the story, it’s still a fascinating read. I would recommend it to 16 and up.’ Female reader, aged 39
To Sum It Up:
‘The story of a man trying to find his way. A FINALIST and highly recommended.’ The Wishing Shelf Book Awards
April 14, 2020
What a bold, brave, genre-defining book!
I got so many feels while reading this. BODY AND SOUL by Dr. Mario Dell’Olio (@DellOlioMario) is a coming-of-age, coming out, coming home story. There is an intimacy, a vulnerability, in this book that makes the words sing with raw, visceral emotion. Luca’s journey is relatable on so many levels to anyone who doesn’t fit the “norm.” The illustrative descriptions plunge the reader straight into the timeless tale of finding and accepting where you truly belong, all whilst undulating the beautiful message that love is love, that people are people.
As a teenager, Luca strives to find where he fits in along the queer continuum. He also tries to reconcile his homosexuality with his religion in a less-accepting time, and his fear mirrors many who dread being ostracized or misunderstood. Dr. Dell’Olio expertly captures the confusion many feel before coming out — Luca connects more with girls, feels more comfortable with girls, so he assumes he must want girls romantically, yet that spark isn’t there. This is difficult to grapple with when you’re young and everyone around you is more conforming.
As an adult, Luca’s vow of celibacy for his bishop position within the Catholic church is called into question. There is a resurgence of a toxic relationship from his past where chemistry quick turned poison, and he wrangles with its repercussions. I love how Luca is queer AND spiritual — there are many instances where I’ve seen the two as exclusive, but it’s essential to provide more examples of inclusive and diverse spirituality for those who find in it a home.
I saw myself in Luca, and I don’t see myself in many characters. This is a testament to Dr. Dell’Olio’s supreme storytelling. We need more characters like Luca, more characters who are open about their fears, honest about their anxiety, truthful about their desires. I treasured him on every page of his self-discovery.
Dr. Dell’Olio is a leader and a role model for the queer writing community. His work is perennial and widely applicable, to queer and ally alike, to spiritual or atheist, to anyone struggling to fit in, to own their truth, to find their tribe. I cannot recommend this book enough. 5 marvelous stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️!
I got so many feels while reading this. BODY AND SOUL by Dr. Mario Dell’Olio (@DellOlioMario) is a coming-of-age, coming out, coming home story. There is an intimacy, a vulnerability, in this book that makes the words sing with raw, visceral emotion. Luca’s journey is relatable on so many levels to anyone who doesn’t fit the “norm.” The illustrative descriptions plunge the reader straight into the timeless tale of finding and accepting where you truly belong, all whilst undulating the beautiful message that love is love, that people are people.
As a teenager, Luca strives to find where he fits in along the queer continuum. He also tries to reconcile his homosexuality with his religion in a less-accepting time, and his fear mirrors many who dread being ostracized or misunderstood. Dr. Dell’Olio expertly captures the confusion many feel before coming out — Luca connects more with girls, feels more comfortable with girls, so he assumes he must want girls romantically, yet that spark isn’t there. This is difficult to grapple with when you’re young and everyone around you is more conforming.
As an adult, Luca’s vow of celibacy for his bishop position within the Catholic church is called into question. There is a resurgence of a toxic relationship from his past where chemistry quick turned poison, and he wrangles with its repercussions. I love how Luca is queer AND spiritual — there are many instances where I’ve seen the two as exclusive, but it’s essential to provide more examples of inclusive and diverse spirituality for those who find in it a home.
I saw myself in Luca, and I don’t see myself in many characters. This is a testament to Dr. Dell’Olio’s supreme storytelling. We need more characters like Luca, more characters who are open about their fears, honest about their anxiety, truthful about their desires. I treasured him on every page of his self-discovery.
Dr. Dell’Olio is a leader and a role model for the queer writing community. His work is perennial and widely applicable, to queer and ally alike, to spiritual or atheist, to anyone struggling to fit in, to own their truth, to find their tribe. I cannot recommend this book enough. 5 marvelous stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️!
November 1, 2019
A powerful, beautiful story of two men finding each other first as college students, and then again 35 years later. Complex and moving.
August 20, 2019
Body & Soul readds a bit like a personal memoir more than a novel and it feels very intimate. Mario Dell’Olio’s focus on his character Luca’s thoughts and reflections were what tugged at my heart strings the most and made me connect with the novel the most.
This is an interesting look at sexual identity and in particular, how it relates to religion. One critique I have is that this book jumps from the past to the present, along with switching POVs, and it felt a bit confusing at times. I think I would have rather just learned the story through Luca’s POV with some flashbacks and background information to get the necessary info.
I think Mario Dell’Olio handled this topic with care and grace, which is important if you decide to write about these two subjects. I think this book is thoughtful and reflective. I’m happy to have given it a read.
3.5☆ rounded to 4.
*I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.*
Find this review and more on my blog: https://www.jessicabelmont.wordpress.com
This is an interesting look at sexual identity and in particular, how it relates to religion. One critique I have is that this book jumps from the past to the present, along with switching POVs, and it felt a bit confusing at times. I think I would have rather just learned the story through Luca’s POV with some flashbacks and background information to get the necessary info.
I think Mario Dell’Olio handled this topic with care and grace, which is important if you decide to write about these two subjects. I think this book is thoughtful and reflective. I’m happy to have given it a read.
3.5☆ rounded to 4.
*I received a complimentary copy of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review. All opinions are my own.*
Find this review and more on my blog: https://www.jessicabelmont.wordpress.com
July 16, 2020
This is a beautiful story that pulls at the heartstrings. The book's events alternate between two timelines and focus on themes such as love, self-discovery, and healing. Luca is a young man who loves music and wants to become a priest. Brad and Luca fall in love, but Brad has a hard time accepting Luca's love for what it is. Needless to say, this love is tumultuous at times. I won't give away too many details as I don't want to spoil the ending, but I will say that Luca and Brad both find a form of inner peace by the novel's end. Very much a recommended read.
July 18, 2019
An amazing story of self-discovery and struggle. Dr. Dell'Olio leads his readers through the heart and mind of his characters as they struggle with love, loneliness, and faith. He captures the depth of struggles of identity and fidelity. There is an honesty in his writing as his characters grapple with integrity and morality. Beautifully written. Highly recommended!
July 10, 2019
This book is an interesting look at sexual identity and how it relates to a religious belief system. From a very young age, Luca had great spiritual beliefs. Very quickly, his life became centered around music. When he began his education he met and fell in love with Brad. What Luca experiences as love seems very different for Brad… and thus begins their tumultuous relationship.
The book cycles back and forth between the past and the present to tell the story of these two men. I found the time jumps a little confusing because they were sometimes combined with POV switches. This story reads more like a personal memoir than a novel… there’s something very intimate about the way Dell’Olio writes the thoughts and reflections of Luca in particular.
Luca grew up during a time when many gay men struggled with the definition of gay. Did being gay mean being effeminate? Did being gay mean being flamboyant? Was a gay lifestyle mutually exclusive with a spiritual one?
Once the men are in their 50s and are reunited, Luca begins to unpack his journey with Brad. With the wisdom of age, he is able to look back over his youth and recognize the more destructive aspects of their relationship.
I can’t speak to how accurate this novel is in terms of the Catholic Church and its stance on homosexuality. But I certainly hope that there is a future of inclusion for queer folks in religious institutions if that’s what they desire in their life. It certainly gave me a sense of hope to read about a Bishop who would be supportive of queer individuals.
The book cycles back and forth between the past and the present to tell the story of these two men. I found the time jumps a little confusing because they were sometimes combined with POV switches. This story reads more like a personal memoir than a novel… there’s something very intimate about the way Dell’Olio writes the thoughts and reflections of Luca in particular.
Luca grew up during a time when many gay men struggled with the definition of gay. Did being gay mean being effeminate? Did being gay mean being flamboyant? Was a gay lifestyle mutually exclusive with a spiritual one?
Once the men are in their 50s and are reunited, Luca begins to unpack his journey with Brad. With the wisdom of age, he is able to look back over his youth and recognize the more destructive aspects of their relationship.
I can’t speak to how accurate this novel is in terms of the Catholic Church and its stance on homosexuality. But I certainly hope that there is a future of inclusion for queer folks in religious institutions if that’s what they desire in their life. It certainly gave me a sense of hope to read about a Bishop who would be supportive of queer individuals.
August 23, 2020
Engrossing, Relatable, Powerful
I devoured this book by Dr. Mario Dell'Olio. He has brilliantly articulated a character-driven story about self-realization, healing journeys, and unconditional love. The author vividly showcases the struggles of his beautiful characters as they weave through the tapestry of life capturing their vulnerability while dealing with loneliness, secrecy, fear, faith, self-identity, morality, integrity, and fidelity.
The writing is honest and relatable as the author eloquently captures the complexity of the social and religious landscape over the past few decades. I appreciate how the author shines the light on toxic relationships and domestic violence, eradicating the darkness from the character’s core wounds of the past. Bravo Dr. Mario Dell’Olio, thank you for raising awareness on some sensitive subject matter, while entertaining us through this beautifully written novel. I can’t wait to read your first book! A highly recommended read!
I devoured this book by Dr. Mario Dell'Olio. He has brilliantly articulated a character-driven story about self-realization, healing journeys, and unconditional love. The author vividly showcases the struggles of his beautiful characters as they weave through the tapestry of life capturing their vulnerability while dealing with loneliness, secrecy, fear, faith, self-identity, morality, integrity, and fidelity.
The writing is honest and relatable as the author eloquently captures the complexity of the social and religious landscape over the past few decades. I appreciate how the author shines the light on toxic relationships and domestic violence, eradicating the darkness from the character’s core wounds of the past. Bravo Dr. Mario Dell’Olio, thank you for raising awareness on some sensitive subject matter, while entertaining us through this beautifully written novel. I can’t wait to read your first book! A highly recommended read!
August 30, 2019
An incredibly honest look at faith and sexuality. Partially written as a memoir, the main character, Luca, struggles with sexual identity during the 1980s. His first foray into a romantic relations ship is fraught with all of the highs and lows of first love. What makes it more complex is the need to lead a double life in a time when gay relationships were even more difficult. Secrecy, prejudice, and fear conspire to weigh down his first experience of love. His very identity is in conflict with his deep Catholic faith and desire to become a priest. The honest struggle with the Church is beautifully told and sensitively exposed. His struggle with faith and sexuality is still relatable in the present day.
I whole-heartedly agree with the editorial review from the Wishing Shelf Awards:
"There are so many aspects to Body and Soul which are excellent. Firstly, the characters. Here is the strength of this novel. The author knows his characters, very, very well; this shows in the consistent and very individual way they act. This is not a plot-driven story; it's character-driven. In this book, the characters are the jam which holds everything together.
There is a lot of self-discovery going on in this story, particularly for Luca. I must say, it is very well-written. It can get a little drawn out here and there, slowing the pacing slightly. But, overall, it's insightful and very much helps the reader to not only understand Luca, but also start to care about what happens to him. The author also understands how important 'speech' is to not only develop the characters, but also the plot.
This is a story of self-discovery; of a man who is trying to balance his work with the church with his feelings for another man. The 'sexual' elements of the story are well-handled and always sensitively written. And the dilemmas the characters must face are interesting and thought-provoking.
I would happily recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys a character-led story. Also, the LGBT community might very well enjoy - and relate to - many of the problems facing this young man. Finally, anybody who is interested in the topical subject of church and how it's possible to be a member of a church and also be gay, would find this interesting.
Overall, a stimulating and well-constructed story."
The character development is the strongest aspect of this book. One is drawn into each emotion and feels every struggle and fear. One can easily relate to the uncertainty of self-discovery and self-doubt. In many ways, this is a historical perspective of gay life during the 80s. The picture it paints is an accurate portrayal of the political and social attitudes of society and church towards the LGBTQ community. It also describes the effects those attitudes had on the coming out process. It sensitively shows the interal struggle of one needing to find love while wanting acceptance from the world around them.
The character of the bishop in the present-day is accurately portrayed as well. With all the controversy within the Catholic church and hypocrisy regarding gay priests, abuse, and hierarchical cover-ups, the bishop's struggle with his own demons is strikingly real. One would have to have blinders on, or be incredibly naive to think that leaders such as bishops and cardinals are beyond such human temptations regarding their own sexuality. The author humanizes Bishop De Santo and draws the reader into his internal conflict with faith, vocation, and sexuality. Basic human needs arise within the character and compete for attention as the Bishop confronts his own frailty.
Another unique aspect of this novel is the POV. Switching from the 1980s and present-day, the POV changes as well. I found the first-person perspective of the young Luca to be refreshingly intimate. It felt as if he were telling his own story to me. It reminded me of the ego-centric phase of adolescence when the whole world seems to revolve around our own needs and concerns. There is an intimacy the is communicated in his first-person POV. In contrast, the stories of the older characters of present-day are told in narrative third-person POV. I liked the change in voice.
Dell'Olio is an adept writer. His prose is clear and descriptive. I am often disappointed by grammatical errors and poor syntax, but not here. His style flows easily and leads the reader to love his characters and their internal struggles. Dell'Olio helps the reader understand the ubiquitous nature of human frailty through his clear writing. To some, this topic may be controversial, but it is very real. The author is sensitive to the unique experience of coming out and struggling with sexual identity while being respectful of the church and those with a deep faith. He strikes this balance with adroitly.
I was impressed with Dr. Dell'Olio's breadth of knowledge with regard to psychology and the Catholic church. It is said that authors should write what they know, given his education and background, he has certainly done that. I found myself learning more about the Catholic church than I ever learned from the nuns in elementary school.
I applaud the author for Body and Soul and I look forward to more from him. I highly recommend this book to anyone who enjoys character development and stories of interpersonal relationships. It is a wonderful work of fiction.
I whole-heartedly agree with the editorial review from the Wishing Shelf Awards:
"There are so many aspects to Body and Soul which are excellent. Firstly, the characters. Here is the strength of this novel. The author knows his characters, very, very well; this shows in the consistent and very individual way they act. This is not a plot-driven story; it's character-driven. In this book, the characters are the jam which holds everything together.
There is a lot of self-discovery going on in this story, particularly for Luca. I must say, it is very well-written. It can get a little drawn out here and there, slowing the pacing slightly. But, overall, it's insightful and very much helps the reader to not only understand Luca, but also start to care about what happens to him. The author also understands how important 'speech' is to not only develop the characters, but also the plot.
This is a story of self-discovery; of a man who is trying to balance his work with the church with his feelings for another man. The 'sexual' elements of the story are well-handled and always sensitively written. And the dilemmas the characters must face are interesting and thought-provoking.
I would happily recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys a character-led story. Also, the LGBT community might very well enjoy - and relate to - many of the problems facing this young man. Finally, anybody who is interested in the topical subject of church and how it's possible to be a member of a church and also be gay, would find this interesting.
Overall, a stimulating and well-constructed story."
The character development is the strongest aspect of this book. One is drawn into each emotion and feels every struggle and fear. One can easily relate to the uncertainty of self-discovery and self-doubt. In many ways, this is a historical perspective of gay life during the 80s. The picture it paints is an accurate portrayal of the political and social attitudes of society and church towards the LGBTQ community. It also describes the effects those attitudes had on the coming out process. It sensitively shows the interal struggle of one needing to find love while wanting acceptance from the world around them.
The character of the bishop in the present-day is accurately portrayed as well. With all the controversy within the Catholic church and hypocrisy regarding gay priests, abuse, and hierarchical cover-ups, the bishop's struggle with his own demons is strikingly real. One would have to have blinders on, or be incredibly naive to think that leaders such as bishops and cardinals are beyond such human temptations regarding their own sexuality. The author humanizes Bishop De Santo and draws the reader into his internal conflict with faith, vocation, and sexuality. Basic human needs arise within the character and compete for attention as the Bishop confronts his own frailty.
Another unique aspect of this novel is the POV. Switching from the 1980s and present-day, the POV changes as well. I found the first-person perspective of the young Luca to be refreshingly intimate. It felt as if he were telling his own story to me. It reminded me of the ego-centric phase of adolescence when the whole world seems to revolve around our own needs and concerns. There is an intimacy the is communicated in his first-person POV. In contrast, the stories of the older characters of present-day are told in narrative third-person POV. I liked the change in voice.
Dell'Olio is an adept writer. His prose is clear and descriptive. I am often disappointed by grammatical errors and poor syntax, but not here. His style flows easily and leads the reader to love his characters and their internal struggles. Dell'Olio helps the reader understand the ubiquitous nature of human frailty through his clear writing. To some, this topic may be controversial, but it is very real. The author is sensitive to the unique experience of coming out and struggling with sexual identity while being respectful of the church and those with a deep faith. He strikes this balance with adroitly.
I was impressed with Dr. Dell'Olio's breadth of knowledge with regard to psychology and the Catholic church. It is said that authors should write what they know, given his education and background, he has certainly done that. I found myself learning more about the Catholic church than I ever learned from the nuns in elementary school.
I applaud the author for Body and Soul and I look forward to more from him. I highly recommend this book to anyone who enjoys character development and stories of interpersonal relationships. It is a wonderful work of fiction.
April 24, 2020
A deep thoughtful tale of love, religion, and Queer identity. Engrossing and thoughtful and clearly, deeply personal. Mr. Dell'Olio’s story is moving and engrossing. I found myself thinking about it long afterward. I read every night at bedtime and found it hard to put down. It is so intimate it feels like a memoir, all in all, a great read.
January 4, 2020
A complex story about a man tortured between his love of the church and his love for another man. His journey is gut wrenching but joyful at times. Well written and engrossing. Looking forward to future books from this author.
November 15, 2019
The author conveys convincingly the struggles of a man coming to grips with his true identity and the complications that result from his relationships with those who choose to live behind a mask, unable to live honestly with themselves and the world. His personal awakening creates conflict as he challenges the dogma of the church he has devoted his life’s work to.
Emotion floods every page. The characters are dramatic and the narrative flows. Easy and enjoyable reading.
Emotion floods every page. The characters are dramatic and the narrative flows. Easy and enjoyable reading.
January 4, 2020
What makes a good book? I would say one that transports you to a completely different world, that makes you think new thoughts and I personally like a book that makes me feel happy in myself: at one with the world that I have created around me.
In at least two of these areas “Body and Soul" hits the mark.
The world of Roman Catholic American Italians for me is a completely new world. Made even more delightful that I have recently watched the Two Popes on Netflix so although it is all alien, I feel have a handle on it.
I was confused at the beginning because we seemed to be introduced to three characters before what I thought was the real story had started (having been promised a bishop in the blurb). It took a second reading and getting to the end before I realised that some of these characters were the same person. Also, my weird mind was calling out ‘what happened to John?’ It's alright, he appeared much later and seemed to be doing alright although not pertinent to the main story. (I was relieved.)
The story tells us about Luca. I feel sure that if I met him I would like Luca but at the same time his infatuation for Brad makes me judge him as being a bit stupid. This is where the book failed to please me because it made me question whether I was a nice person and whether I really understood love. It also made me question whether the experience of being gay in the 80s was interesting and as that is what my third book is about I’m worried whether the historical interest is enough to bridge the generational gap. But I'm getting into Book Club territory.
It was interesting (and because I don't believe in God I didn't notice until the end) that in all his ethical dilemmas God didn't seem to be considered. It was as if the church was a purely people pleasing entity and everyone involved knew that God didn't exist really. It made sense to me.
In terms of a read this was gripping: getting more gripping towards the end when I became obsessed to find out if the character’s dubious decisions were going to end in disaster or not. All in all this was an enjoyable read with just enough description to make you feel the characters passions but without being too graphic.
I enjoyed this book. 4 out of 5 stars (because I hated Brad. Sorry author!)
In at least two of these areas “Body and Soul" hits the mark.
The world of Roman Catholic American Italians for me is a completely new world. Made even more delightful that I have recently watched the Two Popes on Netflix so although it is all alien, I feel have a handle on it.
I was confused at the beginning because we seemed to be introduced to three characters before what I thought was the real story had started (having been promised a bishop in the blurb). It took a second reading and getting to the end before I realised that some of these characters were the same person. Also, my weird mind was calling out ‘what happened to John?’ It's alright, he appeared much later and seemed to be doing alright although not pertinent to the main story. (I was relieved.)
The story tells us about Luca. I feel sure that if I met him I would like Luca but at the same time his infatuation for Brad makes me judge him as being a bit stupid. This is where the book failed to please me because it made me question whether I was a nice person and whether I really understood love. It also made me question whether the experience of being gay in the 80s was interesting and as that is what my third book is about I’m worried whether the historical interest is enough to bridge the generational gap. But I'm getting into Book Club territory.
It was interesting (and because I don't believe in God I didn't notice until the end) that in all his ethical dilemmas God didn't seem to be considered. It was as if the church was a purely people pleasing entity and everyone involved knew that God didn't exist really. It made sense to me.
In terms of a read this was gripping: getting more gripping towards the end when I became obsessed to find out if the character’s dubious decisions were going to end in disaster or not. All in all this was an enjoyable read with just enough description to make you feel the characters passions but without being too graphic.
I enjoyed this book. 4 out of 5 stars (because I hated Brad. Sorry author!)
August 2, 2019
The journey that gay men take in a world that, even today, doesn't fully accept them, is a journey only he can choose to make. Accept and resign yourself to living a certain way, or take charge and make the situation work for you. (I know that's a simplistic statement but the essence of my thought is there.)
Body and Soul follows such a journey of two men, though undoubtedly- more from Luca's perspective than from Brad's. Though it is not told in a 'dark, depressing manner', it is the sad tale of closeted men trying to inch their way out of the dark (on their own) while hiding the passion of their lives in secrecy.
It's hard to review this as merely fiction, because whether or not this story is based on actual events; this scenario has been lived by many throughout time. The battle of BODY vs. SOUL, or better yet- Body, Mind and Soul is timeless.
Religion has both saved and destroyed many men. Readers can either choose to be judgemental of the characters' choices or try to understand their efforts to reconcile things, that by their very nature, are at odds with one another. (Body and Soul.)
It is with all this in mind that author Mario Dell'Olio tells this story. He does so, carefully relying on the feelings and experiences of his characters, in a moving account of their journey to navigate a challenging and difficult road.
I received a copy from the publisher through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
Body and Soul follows such a journey of two men, though undoubtedly- more from Luca's perspective than from Brad's. Though it is not told in a 'dark, depressing manner', it is the sad tale of closeted men trying to inch their way out of the dark (on their own) while hiding the passion of their lives in secrecy.
It's hard to review this as merely fiction, because whether or not this story is based on actual events; this scenario has been lived by many throughout time. The battle of BODY vs. SOUL, or better yet- Body, Mind and Soul is timeless.
Religion has both saved and destroyed many men. Readers can either choose to be judgemental of the characters' choices or try to understand their efforts to reconcile things, that by their very nature, are at odds with one another. (Body and Soul.)
It is with all this in mind that author Mario Dell'Olio tells this story. He does so, carefully relying on the feelings and experiences of his characters, in a moving account of their journey to navigate a challenging and difficult road.
I received a copy from the publisher through NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
April 11, 2020
Good authors write the truth they know, and Dell'Olio does that beautifully. This latest novel does an innovative job of painting the complex social and spiritual landscape of gay Catholics in the 80s, and then deftly contrasts it with life for them in the present day. Some things have changed for the better, but clearly, we have a long way to go. At the same time, he takes a candid look at domestic violence and toxic relationships, and you realize how little has changed over the years. It's not a religious book by any means. Instead, characters struggle with honesty, commitment, faith, and consequences. It's a very human, relatable narrative.
His last work, Coming About, was an autobiographical adventure yarn. Body & Soul is much more a character-driven piece. He flexes his literary muscles here, layering contrast after complication to weave a veritable hairball of dramatic tension. The characters are deliciously flawed, and the protagonist is often his own worst enemy. The last few chapters bring 30 years of tension and conflict into someone's living room, and they erupt in a conflagration of pain, awkwardness, honesty, and healing.
His narrative style is easy to read. It's easy like his characters - even the ones that make you angry. A terrific book and I highly recommend!
His last work, Coming About, was an autobiographical adventure yarn. Body & Soul is much more a character-driven piece. He flexes his literary muscles here, layering contrast after complication to weave a veritable hairball of dramatic tension. The characters are deliciously flawed, and the protagonist is often his own worst enemy. The last few chapters bring 30 years of tension and conflict into someone's living room, and they erupt in a conflagration of pain, awkwardness, honesty, and healing.
His narrative style is easy to read. It's easy like his characters - even the ones that make you angry. A terrific book and I highly recommend!
September 9, 2019
Body and Soul is another book that just knocked me off my feet. I was completely riveted by this Mario Dell'Olio book and couldn't put it down.
This story takes place over two time periods. Brad and Luca dated back in the 1970s. The author alternates between the past and the present.
For Brad and Luca, college was a coming of age time and a time for self- discovery and self-reflection. These two roommates dated, but Brad was never perfect and Luca wanted to be a priest. They were closeted and ended on bad terms, with a whole lot of heartache and pain.
Fast forward thirty years to 2015 and they have a second chance, if they can work things out.
Luca and Brad's relationship is beyond complex. The lengths one will go to in order to cover up their pain is insane. They are lying to themselves and to others. Both live a life of lies, pain, and hurt.
Their story illustrates the fear of ones' own sexuality and sexual desires. It captures the power of money and being obsessed with the almighty dollar. It demonstrates the power of one's fears to cause pain for oneself and for others.
The writing is good, but the author head hops at times, which is frustrating to the reader. He also tells the story in 3rd person, with multiple points of view. It's a little strange when we get the pov of a 3rd character, so just be prepared.
Overall, I found the book riveting, yet also confusing. Some of it just doesn't make sense. There's nothing for the reader to like about Brad which confused me. If you're looking for some redeeming character trait, you'll be left waiting. I was also confused by Luca dating Brad while wanting to be a clergyman. If he knew he wanted to be a priest, why bother setting himself for such pain.
In the end, Body and Soul is a complex and emotional story. It wonderfully illustrates that abuse is not always physical, while also exploring the internal struggle with being gay. I absolutely enjoyed it, despite not loving it.
This story takes place over two time periods. Brad and Luca dated back in the 1970s. The author alternates between the past and the present.
For Brad and Luca, college was a coming of age time and a time for self- discovery and self-reflection. These two roommates dated, but Brad was never perfect and Luca wanted to be a priest. They were closeted and ended on bad terms, with a whole lot of heartache and pain.
Fast forward thirty years to 2015 and they have a second chance, if they can work things out.
Luca and Brad's relationship is beyond complex. The lengths one will go to in order to cover up their pain is insane. They are lying to themselves and to others. Both live a life of lies, pain, and hurt.
Their story illustrates the fear of ones' own sexuality and sexual desires. It captures the power of money and being obsessed with the almighty dollar. It demonstrates the power of one's fears to cause pain for oneself and for others.
The writing is good, but the author head hops at times, which is frustrating to the reader. He also tells the story in 3rd person, with multiple points of view. It's a little strange when we get the pov of a 3rd character, so just be prepared.
Overall, I found the book riveting, yet also confusing. Some of it just doesn't make sense. There's nothing for the reader to like about Brad which confused me. If you're looking for some redeeming character trait, you'll be left waiting. I was also confused by Luca dating Brad while wanting to be a clergyman. If he knew he wanted to be a priest, why bother setting himself for such pain.
In the end, Body and Soul is a complex and emotional story. It wonderfully illustrates that abuse is not always physical, while also exploring the internal struggle with being gay. I absolutely enjoyed it, despite not loving it.
August 12, 2019
You know those trainwrecks that you can't look away from no matter how much you want to? That's this book. 😬 It was terrible and I won't be adding it to my reading challenge even though I read the complete and toxic trashcan. 🚮 I didn't even get a satisfying conclusion. It also read more like a memoir than fiction. Latter Days, the movie, has probably ruined all other religious stories for me. *sigh* 😩😔
***Review copy provided by Netgalley.***
***Review copy provided by Netgalley.***
August 30, 2019
An incredibly honest look at faith and sexuality. Partially written as a memoir, the main character, Luca, struggles with sexual identity during the 1980s. His first foray into a romantic relations ship is fraught with all of the highs and lows of first love. What makes it more complex is the need to lead a double life in a time when gay relationships were even more difficult. Secrecy, prejudice, and fear conspire to weigh down his first experience of love. His very identity is in conflict with his deep Catholic faith and desire to become a priest. The honest struggle with the Church is beautifully told and sensitively exposed. His struggle with faith and sexuality is still relatable in the present day.
I whole-heartedly agree with the editorial review from the Wishing Shelf Awards:
"There are so many aspects to Body and Soul which are excellent. Firstly, the characters. Here is the strength of this novel. The author knows his characters, very, very well; this shows in the consistent and very individual way they act. This is not a plot-driven story; it's character-driven. In this book, the characters are the jam which holds everything together.
There is a lot of self-discovery going on in this story, particularly for Luca. I must say, it is very well-written. It can get a little drawn out here and there, slowing the pacing slightly. But, overall, it's insightful and very much helps the reader to not only understand Luca, but also start to care about what happens to him. The author also understands how important 'speech' is to not only develop the characters, but also the plot.
This is a story of self-discovery; of a man who is trying to balance his work with the church with his feelings for another man. The 'sexual' elements of the story are well-handled and always sensitively written. And the dilemmas the characters must face are interesting and thought-provoking.
I would happily recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys a character-led story. Also, the LGBT community might very well enjoy - and relate to - many of the problems facing this young man. Finally, anybody who is interested in the topical subject of church and how it's possible to be a member of a church and also be gay, would find this interesting.
Overall, a stimulating and well-constructed story."
The character development is the strongest aspect of this book. One is drawn into each emotion and feels every struggle and fear. One can easily relate to the uncertainty of self-discovery and self-doubt. In many ways, this is a historical perspective of gay life during the 80s. The picture it paints is an accurate portrayal of the political and social attitudes of society and church towards the LGBTQ community. It also describes the effects those attitudes had on the coming out process. It sensitively shows the interal struggle of one needing to find love while wanting acceptance from the world around them.
The character of the bishop in the present-day is accurately portrayed as well. With all the controversy within the Catholic church and hypocrisy regarding gay priests, abuse, and hierarchical cover-ups, the bishop's struggle with his own demons is strikingly real. One would have to have blinders on, or be incredibly naive to think that leaders such as bishops and cardinals are beyond such human temptations regarding their own sexuality. The author humanizes Bishop De Santo and draws the reader into his internal conflict with faith, vocation, and sexuality. Basic human needs arise within the character and compete for attention as the Bishop confronts his own frailty.
Another unique aspect of this novel is the POV. Switching from the 1980s and present-day, the POV changes as well. I found the first-person perspective of the young Luca to be refreshingly intimate. It felt as if he were telling his own story to me. It reminded me of the ego-centric phase of adolescence when the whole world seems to revolve around our own needs and concerns. There is an intimacy the is communicated in his first-person POV. In contrast, the stories of the older characters of present-day are told in narrative third-person POV. I liked the change in voice.
Dell'Olio is an adept writer. His prose is clear and descriptive. I am often disappointed by grammatical errors and poor syntax, but not here. His style flows easily and leads the reader to love his characters and their internal struggles. Dell'Olio helps the reader understand the ubiquitous nature of human frailty through his clear writing. To some, this topic may be controversial, but it is very real. The author is sensitive to the unique experience of coming out and struggling with sexual identity while being respectful of the church and those with a deep faith. He strikes this balance with adroitly.
I was impressed with Dr. Dell'Olio's breadth of knowledge with regard to psychology and the Catholic church. It is said that authors should write what they know, given his education and background, he has certainly done that. I found myself learning more about the Catholic church than I ever learned from the nuns in elementary school.
I applaud the author for Body and Soul and I look forward to more from him. I highly recommend this book to anyone who enjoys character development and stories of interpersonal relationships. It is a wonderful work of fiction.
I whole-heartedly agree with the editorial review from the Wishing Shelf Awards:
"There are so many aspects to Body and Soul which are excellent. Firstly, the characters. Here is the strength of this novel. The author knows his characters, very, very well; this shows in the consistent and very individual way they act. This is not a plot-driven story; it's character-driven. In this book, the characters are the jam which holds everything together.
There is a lot of self-discovery going on in this story, particularly for Luca. I must say, it is very well-written. It can get a little drawn out here and there, slowing the pacing slightly. But, overall, it's insightful and very much helps the reader to not only understand Luca, but also start to care about what happens to him. The author also understands how important 'speech' is to not only develop the characters, but also the plot.
This is a story of self-discovery; of a man who is trying to balance his work with the church with his feelings for another man. The 'sexual' elements of the story are well-handled and always sensitively written. And the dilemmas the characters must face are interesting and thought-provoking.
I would happily recommend this novel to anybody who enjoys a character-led story. Also, the LGBT community might very well enjoy - and relate to - many of the problems facing this young man. Finally, anybody who is interested in the topical subject of church and how it's possible to be a member of a church and also be gay, would find this interesting.
Overall, a stimulating and well-constructed story."
The character development is the strongest aspect of this book. One is drawn into each emotion and feels every struggle and fear. One can easily relate to the uncertainty of self-discovery and self-doubt. In many ways, this is a historical perspective of gay life during the 80s. The picture it paints is an accurate portrayal of the political and social attitudes of society and church towards the LGBTQ community. It also describes the effects those attitudes had on the coming out process. It sensitively shows the interal struggle of one needing to find love while wanting acceptance from the world around them.
The character of the bishop in the present-day is accurately portrayed as well. With all the controversy within the Catholic church and hypocrisy regarding gay priests, abuse, and hierarchical cover-ups, the bishop's struggle with his own demons is strikingly real. One would have to have blinders on, or be incredibly naive to think that leaders such as bishops and cardinals are beyond such human temptations regarding their own sexuality. The author humanizes Bishop De Santo and draws the reader into his internal conflict with faith, vocation, and sexuality. Basic human needs arise within the character and compete for attention as the Bishop confronts his own frailty.
Another unique aspect of this novel is the POV. Switching from the 1980s and present-day, the POV changes as well. I found the first-person perspective of the young Luca to be refreshingly intimate. It felt as if he were telling his own story to me. It reminded me of the ego-centric phase of adolescence when the whole world seems to revolve around our own needs and concerns. There is an intimacy the is communicated in his first-person POV. In contrast, the stories of the older characters of present-day are told in narrative third-person POV. I liked the change in voice.
Dell'Olio is an adept writer. His prose is clear and descriptive. I am often disappointed by grammatical errors and poor syntax, but not here. His style flows easily and leads the reader to love his characters and their internal struggles. Dell'Olio helps the reader understand the ubiquitous nature of human frailty through his clear writing. To some, this topic may be controversial, but it is very real. The author is sensitive to the unique experience of coming out and struggling with sexual identity while being respectful of the church and those with a deep faith. He strikes this balance with adroitly.
I was impressed with Dr. Dell'Olio's breadth of knowledge with regard to psychology and the Catholic church. It is said that authors should write what they know, given his education and background, he has certainly done that. I found myself learning more about the Catholic church than I ever learned from the nuns in elementary school.
I applaud the author for Body and Soul and I look forward to more from him. I highly recommend this book to anyone who enjoys character development and stories of interpersonal relationships. It is a wonderful work of fiction.
December 15, 2020
Thought provoking story!
What an honest story about a man's experiences and struggle to come to terms with himself, his faith, and those around him. Real and raw. Not your typical love story but so much more believable. Thank you author for this very real look at humanity to remind us we are all humans with struggles.
What an honest story about a man's experiences and struggle to come to terms with himself, his faith, and those around him. Real and raw. Not your typical love story but so much more believable. Thank you author for this very real look at humanity to remind us we are all humans with struggles.
March 19, 2020
Love comes in many forms
Both a joyful and heartbreaking tale, written in an almost memoir style. The characters are compelling, and the hopping between time periods enhances rather than detracts.
Both a joyful and heartbreaking tale, written in an almost memoir style. The characters are compelling, and the hopping between time periods enhances rather than detracts.
August 29, 2020
This was an interesting story if NOT Coming Out. Some parts were a bit predictable, but it had the feel of a memoir despite being fiction. The conclusion was satisfying though more realistic than a traditional “happy ending.”
December 24, 2019
A complex story about a man tortured between his love of the church and his love for another man. His journey is gut wrenching but joyful at times. Well written and engrossing. Looking forward to future books from this author.
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