The ideal of being a rational person is to, at some point, critically examine one's own inherited beliefs. Yet, few who do take up this challenge are equipped to withstand the self-doubt and unsettling disorientation which may follow. The narrative of this book is that rare instance where two brothers of deep moral conviction and intelligence summon the energy and conviction to see this ordeal through to its conclusion. The end result unmasks insights of enduring power. This book has the appeal of a good mystery, and I had the same sense of satisfaction of a mystery being solved. -Heather Ashton-Summers Portland, Oregon
A touching and openhanded book about the gradual loss of a deeply held, lifelong faith. The authors are balanced and fair in tracing their experiences as Mormons and what led them to leave. They are generous in their treatment of family and friends still in the faith, which is not always common or easy. There is nothing new or particularly insightful in the discussion of the issues that led the two brothers to leave the LDS Church; anyone with a more than superficial knowledge of Mormon history will recognize all the usual concerns. The real strength of the book is the authors' thoughtful recounting of their own individual spiritual odysseys. Their equilibrium is rare in an age in which dogmatism and a take-no-prisoners approach on both sides of the issue of faith seem often to be the norm.
I really enjoyed this book. I liked the way the authors shared their journeys out of Mormonism in parallel. It was interesting to see the different perspectives from the two brothers on what each was discovering and what they each found disturbing to their faith. The style was entertaining and easy to read, while packed with enough eye-opening problems that I had not considered before to keep me intrigued.
I think it was very brave to have taken the path these brothers took. I appreciate their honestly enjoyed this intellectual approach to learning more about the LDS religion.