Kinksters often have to depend on erotica and porn to learn what kink looks and feels like, but unfortunately that can create a lot of myths, misunderstandings, and accidental mistakes. BDSM is focused on activities, but just going through the motions won't guarantee you'll have a happy, healthy experience.
It can take years (and plenty of bad scenes) to help you learn exactly what you enjoy and why. But it doesn't have to if you spend time reflecting on your needs and limits ahead of time. In this workbook, Princess Kali will teach you how to have the most authentic and fulfilling kink experience possible.
Over the last two decades in the kink scene, Kali has developed a straightforward method for discovering your most authentic kinky self. Journaling can be a great way to understand yourself. By putting your thoughts down on paper, it can be easier to self-reflect and examine insights more clearly.
Exploring kink is a deeply personal experience; this interactive workbook will help you have sexier, safer, more informed adventures.
Inside you'll
+ Personal evaluation + Space to write out fantasies and plans for future scenes + Over 100 thought-provoking questions + Extensive activity and interest list + Aftercare plan and trigger plan + Safewords and other verbal shortcuts + Creating rituals and protocols + Negotiation form + Verbal vocabulary list + Kinky wish list + And so much more!
What a fabulous book! Filled with tips and tricks for beginners to experiences players, it's got a great lay out with lots of space to explore. Highly recommended!
I was thrilled to see The Princess Kali was coming out with a book based on her classes. I have taken several of her classes and love the way she thinks about kink.
This workbook is a great intro for folks exploring their kinky side. She gently guides people through exercises to help them get an idea about what drives their kink and what they want from it. I appreciate the way this guide works to help orient people toward their authentic selves.
The layout and graphics are fun and make it feel like an old school workbook.
I highly recommend this guide for the new kinkster!
This is a great book to discover (or rediscover) exactly what kind of kinky experiences YOU will feel satisfied with. It's great for those that are new to kink or those that have been playing a long time and it covers a lot of interests within the kinky umbrella.
There were some helpful lists but the whole workbook has layout/fonts that make it feel like a grade-school crafting workbook. I was hoping for more of an understanding of theoretical frameworks of different kinks explained.