I read the book 3 times until now. Everytime, because I am in a different stage of mind, it speaks to me differently. Sometimes, it give me inspiration and my mind dreams about a beautiful and perfect relationship. Others, reassured me in the desitions I had me ( like page 78). It is inspiring, romantic and might guide you in taking desitions with out being to heavy reading. I very much recoming it. You must have it at your night table!