Love & Obey: The World's Best Female Led Relationship Guide

by Marisa Rudder

At the Love & Obey movement, we believe that relationships and the world will be a far superior place once it is run by women. That's why I wrote this book for women. It is the rule book that shows you how to take charge and manage a happy and successful "LOVING FEMALE LED RELATIONSHIP." This is the woman's definitive rule book! I believe in LOVING FEMALE AUTHORITY and treating men with kindness - while demanding OBEDIENCE. Let's face it, women create better homes. Women are better at juggling work and family. Women are better decision makers. Women are more emotionally intelligent, and we're even better at sex, once we're set free. Our demands for superiority over men are now being recognized by more and more men and that's why I wrote Love & Obey to teach women how to take control. It is what men really want, and it is your ultimate guide on how to be the Mistress of the house and live and thrive in a female led world. This book was written by me for WOMEN. Learn my best kept secrets on how to: Find and attract the attractive gentlemen eager to serve you and fulfill your dreams - Seduce and transform any man - even an alpha male and make him your obedient gentleman - Make your wildest sexual fantasies come true - Maximize your Loving Female Led Relationship - Become his dream Queen. You probably heard of me as a leading social media influencer on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, YouTube and Pinterest. Hundreds of Thousands of followers are being updated daily on how to run the Best Loving Female Led Relationship. This Love & Obey book was specifically written to be a fast, simple and easy to understand LOVING FLR RULE BOOK. This is your Ultimate Female Leadership Rule Book and you will learn how to establish your Loving Female Authority and live in a happy Female Led Relationship. You'll learn my best kept secrets on how to find, attract and maintain a happy relationship with the obedient gentleman of your dreams. If you already have a man, who resists the idea of a Female Led Relationship, I will show you how to seduce him in no time at all into becoming your obedient gentleman. In this book, you will learn how to make your wildest sexual fantasies come true - including cuckolding, male orgasm denial, cunnilingus, chastity, threesomes and group sex. But I also wants you to remember that a Female Led Relationship is more than just amazing, passionate sex. It's also a way of life, a lifestyle controlled and run by you - the loving female authority. As the woman, you will be in charge and be free to do everything you want it. So you'll learn how to take control and transform your man into a loving, trained and obedient gentleman who is eager to love, obey and serve you as his Loving Female Authority.

138 pages, Paperback

Published March 22, 2018

Reviews

[Reanna Stevenson · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is great for us “Beginners”!

This book has really helped me with understanding a new world of a Female Led Life. It brings home the necessary thought processes behind a healthy none demeaning relationship. My husband and I are new to this and I am not one to take pleasure from hurting people or making them feel weak. He is supposed be a partner and provider not a plaything and this book proves it’s possible to have a Female led relationship that doesn’t have to be BDSM. I am now looking more closely at how I present myself and what he responds better with. I definitely need more work but this goes a long way with how to start. Thank you!

[Robert Connor · Rating 5 out of 5]

Lots of great ideas in here, but some seem to contradict what comes in later books of the series: in this book, the author refers to female-led BDSM as a "perversion", stating more than once that BDSM and femdom have "nothing to do with" a Female-Led Relationship, but in subsequent books topics like cuckolding, enforced male chastity, tease and denial, spanking, and (yes) femdom and BDSM are the title subjects. I look forward to exploring this apparent contradiction in Ms. Rudder's later books, which I also hope will contain fewer unnecessarily distracting commas and conflation of "reigns" and "reins" ;-)

On a personal note, my second novel has been accepted by my publisher and should be published later this month. It incorporates many of the principles presented by this book even though I hadn't read this book when I wrote mine, looking at FLRs as a spectrum that couples adapt according to their mutual needs and desires, everything from loving everyday female leadership to domestic discipline in training a misbehaving male for their mutual betterment, and beyond. I expect to incorporate ideas from this book and its sequels into my future works. Thank you, Ms. Rudder!

[Marisa Rudder · Rating 5 out of 5]

I just finished your Love & Obey book and it was a huge hit in our home. My wife has taken up the role and she is becoming very sexually demanding. We make everyday about her and it really is becoming a cosmic experience for both of us.

We just started our FLR relationship and she is taking the lead on many decisions and I can see her becoming more confident in asking for what she want. Also doing my best to take the house hold chores off her plate and serving her better.

Thanks for all u do look forward to reading your next book.

Dan and Stacy

[Chris Smart · Rating 5 out of 5]

I only know that I know nothing! (Socrates)

This was/is a mind blower for me……submission is the way! Give all the power to her and then no worries!

[Helen · Rating 4 out of 5]

Interesting Read

Beginners book for starting a FLR. Everyone can learn something about relationships. Makes for interesting reading and worth giving it a go.

[Passolan · Rating 4 out of 5]

This rating is likely high for my actual opinion of the book, but I would not want to discourage any woman from finding and reading it. For me as a submissive man in a burgeoning FLR who has already done a lot of research, it didn't add much to my knowledge or perspective. It is fairly FLR light in most respects, and the next book "Real Men" really ramps this up (and is mainly for the man). "Love & Obey" mainly focuses on spurious reasons why men may be wired to want an FLR and other explorations as to why women may be superior and what has conspired against this natural order (due to religion etc). It has some good sections where it looks at "the Five Natural Laws of a Man's Psychology" (chapter 3) as well as the "Love and Obey Rules" (chapter 4) which give some tangible tips.

Most of the issues with the book are to do with her belief that the man wants a mother figure, which fuels the FLR. I don't have too deep an issue with this, as I can see why wanting a strong woman in their life could hark back to those early needs as a child (even if there would have been no sexual link with the parent).

In these early works she is thorough anti "dark" BDSM / Femdom and refutes the link to FLR. She must change her mind on this as she has books later in the series on Femdom, so it will be fascinating to see her development to incorporate these elements. She prefers to reward and encourage with love rather than to punish, which has actually resonating with me and assisted with my path (rather than risking alienating myself from my partner going down the rabbit hole of more extreme kink).

[Bikramjeet Sinha · Rating 2 out of 5]

I kind of disagree that a man is submissive because he treats his mother as the queen. I think some men are submissive to women because they want to defy the particular role that has been forcefully imposed on them. They tend to see it as some form of sinful act of pleasure. I don't think embracing it entirely will have a healthy impact on anybody's psyche, whether they be men or women. There must be some sort of balance.

I too have some submissive tendencies but for a women to fulfill that she must possess a particular foundation that majority of the women-kind can't achieve...

[Michael Graves · Rating 5 out of 5]

interesting approach

I had never heard of this approach to marriage and relationships. It seems to be a little extreme at first. Thinking about it more I think that many people are subconsciously following the principles without explicitly acknowledging it. Worth reading