The Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Bible: Spiritual Recovery from Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse

by Shannon L. Alder

You have been praying for an answer for a very long time. I know because I have been where you are now. I had so many questions after I was emotionally abused. Overcoming narcissistic abuse is ranked up there with one of the greatest challenges a person might have to overcome in their lifetime. Malignant Narcissism is a confusing mental disorder that leaves a victim with so many unanswered Did he or she ever lover me? Was everything they ever said to me a lie or game? Why wasn't God protecting me during all this or warning me?

Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder engage in chronic devaluation and manipulation of their partners, a psychological and emotional phenomenon known as "narcissistic abuse." Unfortunately, the many books written on the topic go very little into how to overcome it spiritually. Sure, they might offer counseling as an option, but how do you get over the dream you had about your narcissist? Didn't God intervene with you meeting him or her? Weren't marriages supposed to be ordained by God? Why didn't God change this person if he thinks families should stay together? .....and how do I reclaim all that I lost and feel back in control of my life? How do I go beyond being a victim or survivor?

There are many books that will tell you to leave your narcissist. My book gives you the answers for either leaving or staying. Regardless, of your choice I will guide you through what it takes to achieve either decision. 


In this book, you will


 
o The Silent Treatment
o Gaslighting
o The Blame Game
o Projection
o TableTennis
o Just Kidding
o Pop the Balloon
o Sweet 16
o King or Queen of the Mountain
o Poker Face
o Duck Duck Goose
o Turning the Tables
o Dodge Ball
o Passive-Aggressive Bullying
o Hidden Agenda
o Religious Guilt Trip
o Pity Party
o Triangulation
o Drama Queen or King
o Double Standards
o Minimizer
o Disappearing Act
o Sabotage
 

Using the latest scientific research as well as thousands of survivor accounts, this book will explore how to overcome the psychological effects that exposure to narcissism can cause. Even if your loved one doesn't have narcissism your journey won't be in vain. The manipulative games in this book are the same ones that all emotional abusers use. I am going to help you outwit them and I promise you will walk away the winner. It is time you took back your power and stepped into the person that God wants you to. This book is the answer to your pain and your path to better future.

240 pages, Paperback

Published December 11, 2018

About the author

Shannon L. Alder is an inspirational author. Her tidbits of wisdom have been published in over 300 different books, by various relationship authors and in several online magazines and news agencies.

Shannon was awarded for the most used quotes and most written quotes by one single author on Goodreads--- 1, 200 quotes to be exact. They can be found spread throughout the internet by her followers and various news agencies.

Her quotes have been published in many of her books and in the books of other relationship authors.

If you wish to use her quotes please visit Shannon's Facebook page (Shannon L. Alder). She gives specific instructions on how to do that legally for anything you publish. All quotes are copyrighted.

Her book on Narcissism debuted on the hit Reality TV show, Real Housewives of Beverly Hills- 2021 season.

To learn about upcoming book signings, new books or read her blog visit: Shannonalder.com
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Reviews

[Nicole Welch · Rating 2 out of 5]

There’s a lot of helpful insights, info, & tips in this book for managing the weeds of being in a relationship with a narcissist. But holy cow it is terribly organized. This book is a memoire from a victim of narcissistic abuse sharing insights she’s gained through her particular horrific story, which is not how it’s marketed. There are some helpful gems to be found that can apply to all types of narcissistic relationships, but you’ve got to weed through her personal story pretty heavily. There are much better books out there written by professional psychologists that would apply to victims of various kinds of narcissistic abuse much more effectively. As such a person, I found her story to be incredibly heavy and difficult to hold while also trying to apply to my personal situation.

[Gigi Hellmer · Rating 1 out of 5]

Terribly inaccurate Biblical statements in this book. Such a sad representation of Christianity. For example, page 209 “What good are you if your thoughts are resentful? God can’t use you. God can’t bless you.” UNTRUE. I also find it really odd (and it doesn’t sit well with me) that her entire experience with her narcissist was when she cheated on her husband with him? Does not align well with Biblical principles… don’t really feel like taking relationship advice from a cheater!

So disorganized. The entire book is word vomit with no rhyme or reason. Ever heard of… chapters??

She writes with such an angry tone. Does not make the reader feel validated, just guilty!

[Amber Dawn · Rating 1 out of 5]

All I'm going to say is that God doesn't have favorites that's complete nonsense! The Bible doesn't say that at all.

Because I read something in one of the quotes among the lines saying "God gives to his favorite children"

Romans 2:11 God shows no partially.

[Tawnia R Gates Cotton · Rating 5 out of 5]

Great book. It's opened my eyes to the lies I truly believed.

Wow, real eye opener. A must read to break you of the viscous cycle of the narcissist in your life....

[Sharon · Rating 5 out of 5]

Healing From Narcissistic Abuse

I’ve read many books on healing from narcissistic abuse and I believe that this is the the only book that will has help you heal from narcissistic abuse. Because narc abuse is psychological abuse and trauma and to hole trauma to need God