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Ajuta-ti copiii sa navigheze intr-o lume plina de provocari
Ce poti face ca tata pentru a influenta pozitiv viata copiilor tai
Cresterea copiilor n-a fost niciodata o misiune usoara, dar parca in lumea de astazi s-a transformat intr-o misiune aproape imposibila. Astfel ca un sfat bun este intotdeauna oportun, cu atat mai mult atunci cand vine de la un tata cu experienta in cresterea celor patru copii ai sai si a implicarii sale timp de peste 50 de ani in lucrarea cu tinerii.
Cu sensibilitatea unui prieten apropiat si devotamentul unui mentor, autorul te ajuta sa faci fata celor mai importante 10 asteptari pe care familia le are de la tine, in calitate de tata, si sa dezvolti increderea in copiii tai de a face fata provocarilor acestei lumi uneori de-a dreptul ostile.
Astfel, copiii tai vor sti cum
•Sa-L iubeasca pe Dumnezeu, sa se iubeasca pe ei insisi si pe aproapele lor;
•Sa-si solutioneze conflictele si sa se raporteze corect fata de autoritate;
•Sa inteleaga planul lui Dumnezeu cu privire la relatiile interumane si intime;
•Sa gestioneze succesul cu modestie si infrangerile cu condescendenta.
Cuprins
Multumiri
Cuvant-inainte, de Sean McDowell
Capitolul 1
Ce ar trebui sa faca un tata?
Capitolul 2
ASTEPTAREA # 1: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa spuna intotdeauna adevarul in dragoste
Capitolul 3
ASTEPTAREA # 2: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-si asume responsabilitatea fata de copii, nu pentru ei (Partea intai)
Capitolul 4
ASTEPTAREA # 2: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-si asume responsabilitatea fata de copii, nu pentru ei (Partea a doua)
Capitolul 5
ASTEPTAREA # 3: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa fie un model autentic
Capitolul 6
ASTEPTAREA # 4: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le explice copiilor cine este Dumnezeu si cum este El
Capitolul 7
ASTEPTAREA # 5: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le insufle copiilor o dragoste de sine altruista
Capitolul 8
ASTEPTAREA # 6: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-i invete pe copii sa construiasca relatii de dragoste dupa modelul lui Dumnezeu
Capitolul 9
ASTEPTAREA # 7: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-i invete pe copii sa deosebeasca binele de rau
Capitolul 10
ASTEPTAREA # 8: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-i invete pe copii sa onoreze planul lui Dumnezeu cu privire la relatiile sexuale
Capitolul 11
ASTEPTAREA # 9: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le desluseasca copiilor credinta crestina si ratiunea ei
Capitolul 12
ASTEPTAREA # 10: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le cultive copiilor o inima multumitoare
Postfata
„Sa faca tot ce ii sta in putinta“
Chestionar de evaluare a nevoilor relationale
Despre autor
Josh McDowell este un apologet crestin, evanghelist si scriitor. El sustine in intreaga lume conferinte pentru tineri si familie, intarindu-le credinta si relatiile. Este autorul sau coautorul a peste 140 de carti, parte din ele traduse si in limba romana, printre care: Sunt un tata bun, Generatia instrainata, Martorul, Dovezi in favoarea invierii si Mai mult decat un simplu tamplar. El si Dotie, sotia lui, sunt casatoriti de peste 40 de ani, au patru copii si opt nepoti.
Ce poti face ca tata pentru a influenta pozitiv viata copiilor tai
Cresterea copiilor n-a fost niciodata o misiune usoara, dar parca in lumea de astazi s-a transformat intr-o misiune aproape imposibila. Astfel ca un sfat bun este intotdeauna oportun, cu atat mai mult atunci cand vine de la un tata cu experienta in cresterea celor patru copii ai sai si a implicarii sale timp de peste 50 de ani in lucrarea cu tinerii.
Cu sensibilitatea unui prieten apropiat si devotamentul unui mentor, autorul te ajuta sa faci fata celor mai importante 10 asteptari pe care familia le are de la tine, in calitate de tata, si sa dezvolti increderea in copiii tai de a face fata provocarilor acestei lumi uneori de-a dreptul ostile.
Astfel, copiii tai vor sti cum
•Sa-L iubeasca pe Dumnezeu, sa se iubeasca pe ei insisi si pe aproapele lor;
•Sa-si solutioneze conflictele si sa se raporteze corect fata de autoritate;
•Sa inteleaga planul lui Dumnezeu cu privire la relatiile interumane si intime;
•Sa gestioneze succesul cu modestie si infrangerile cu condescendenta.
Cuprins
Multumiri
Cuvant-inainte, de Sean McDowell
Capitolul 1
Ce ar trebui sa faca un tata?
Capitolul 2
ASTEPTAREA # 1: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa spuna intotdeauna adevarul in dragoste
Capitolul 3
ASTEPTAREA # 2: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-si asume responsabilitatea fata de copii, nu pentru ei (Partea intai)
Capitolul 4
ASTEPTAREA # 2: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-si asume responsabilitatea fata de copii, nu pentru ei (Partea a doua)
Capitolul 5
ASTEPTAREA # 3: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa fie un model autentic
Capitolul 6
ASTEPTAREA # 4: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le explice copiilor cine este Dumnezeu si cum este El
Capitolul 7
ASTEPTAREA # 5: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le insufle copiilor o dragoste de sine altruista
Capitolul 8
ASTEPTAREA # 6: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-i invete pe copii sa construiasca relatii de dragoste dupa modelul lui Dumnezeu
Capitolul 9
ASTEPTAREA # 7: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-i invete pe copii sa deosebeasca binele de rau
Capitolul 10
ASTEPTAREA # 8: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa-i invete pe copii sa onoreze planul lui Dumnezeu cu privire la relatiile sexuale
Capitolul 11
ASTEPTAREA # 9: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le desluseasca copiilor credinta crestina si ratiunea ei
Capitolul 12
ASTEPTAREA # 10: Sa faca tot ce-i sta in putinta sa le cultive copiilor o inima multumitoare
Postfata
„Sa faca tot ce ii sta in putinta“
Chestionar de evaluare a nevoilor relationale
Despre autor
Josh McDowell este un apologet crestin, evanghelist si scriitor. El sustine in intreaga lume conferinte pentru tineri si familie, intarindu-le credinta si relatiile. Este autorul sau coautorul a peste 140 de carti, parte din ele traduse si in limba romana, printre care: Sunt un tata bun, Generatia instrainata, Martorul, Dovezi in favoarea invierii si Mai mult decat un simplu tamplar. El si Dotie, sotia lui, sunt casatoriti de peste 40 de ani, au patru copii si opt nepoti.
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208 pages, Paperback
First published September 1, 2014
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About the author
Josh McDowell
518 books649 followersJosh McDowell is a bestselling Christian apologist, evangelist, and author of over 150 books, including Evidence That Demands a Verdict and More Than a Carpenter. Once an agnostic, he converted to Christianity while investigating its historical claims. He went on to earn degrees from Wheaton College and Talbot Theological Seminary. For decades, McDowell has been a prominent speaker with Campus Crusade for Christ, addressing issues of faith, character, and youth culture worldwide. His work emphasizes historical and legal evidence for Christianity and tackles challenges posed by skepticism and non-Christian beliefs. He lives in California with his wife, Dottie, and is the father of four children, including fellow apologist Sean McDowell.
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November 14, 2023
Creo que es una guía bastante completa de cómo los padres pueden transmitir las verdades del evangelio a sus hijos de manera clara y práctica.
October 1, 2018
Insightful but somewhat repetitive. Not a book I would rave about but nothing much to complain about or disagree with. He keeps the focus on raising a godly posterity and provides practical applications points to help you think how to implement them in your family.
April 2, 2021
A trash
I am very disappointed by this book. I read How to Be A Hero To Your Kids and then I read this book. Both books are written by Josh McDowell. When I read through the first chapter, I find I am cheated! The author duplicates the content in the two books! Isn't it self-plagiarism? I then quitted reading the book and decided to give some evidence that Ten Commitments for Dads(abbreviated as Ten) is copied from How to be A Hero To your kids (Hero).
First, the writer's ideas are very close in the two books. In Ten, Chapter 2 mentions the four types of parents. The author introduces that the first type is the control freak, the second type is the loose type, the third type is the cool father, and the last type is the loving father. This is anything but new, because in Hero, Chapter 14 talks about the same thing, albeit using different terms: the first type is the authoritarian, the second is the spoiling, and the third is the relational type. If I have read the different types of parents in Hero, why do I need to spend time to read it again in Ten?
Second, the writer describes the same anecdotes, even though they serve to illustrate seemingly different points. In Hero, the writer makes the point that time is important. He wrote that he was busy writing a book, and the son asked him to play with him. He responded that he had no time, and his wife reprimanded him. In Ten, the writer cites the example again! Without shame! Interestingly, the example is used to illustrate that spending time with children is important because it makes them feel their self-worth. This is only one example, and it won't surprise me if the author repeats other anecdotes.
Third, in order to pretend that Ten is a new book, not only does the author use a different title and adopt a different outline, the author inserts some content which is not mentioned in Hero. However, the new content is off topic. As a reader I expect the book to be about parenting, but the newly inserted chapter is not. In Ten Chapter 11, the author strangely explains why he thinks the Bible is reliable. Yes, teaching the kids to believe in the Bible is of the utmost importance, but isn't it farfetched to include it in a book about parenting? I suspect the author also copies the content from another book, as the author has written books about the authority of the Bible. It further dampens my motivation to read this book.
All in all, this book is an example of self-plagiarism, which is a disgrace to readers who have read his previous book. On earth there is nothing sadder than wasting the reader's time.
I am very disappointed by this book. I read How to Be A Hero To Your Kids and then I read this book. Both books are written by Josh McDowell. When I read through the first chapter, I find I am cheated! The author duplicates the content in the two books! Isn't it self-plagiarism? I then quitted reading the book and decided to give some evidence that Ten Commitments for Dads(abbreviated as Ten) is copied from How to be A Hero To your kids (Hero).
First, the writer's ideas are very close in the two books. In Ten, Chapter 2 mentions the four types of parents. The author introduces that the first type is the control freak, the second type is the loose type, the third type is the cool father, and the last type is the loving father. This is anything but new, because in Hero, Chapter 14 talks about the same thing, albeit using different terms: the first type is the authoritarian, the second is the spoiling, and the third is the relational type. If I have read the different types of parents in Hero, why do I need to spend time to read it again in Ten?
Second, the writer describes the same anecdotes, even though they serve to illustrate seemingly different points. In Hero, the writer makes the point that time is important. He wrote that he was busy writing a book, and the son asked him to play with him. He responded that he had no time, and his wife reprimanded him. In Ten, the writer cites the example again! Without shame! Interestingly, the example is used to illustrate that spending time with children is important because it makes them feel their self-worth. This is only one example, and it won't surprise me if the author repeats other anecdotes.
Third, in order to pretend that Ten is a new book, not only does the author use a different title and adopt a different outline, the author inserts some content which is not mentioned in Hero. However, the new content is off topic. As a reader I expect the book to be about parenting, but the newly inserted chapter is not. In Ten Chapter 11, the author strangely explains why he thinks the Bible is reliable. Yes, teaching the kids to believe in the Bible is of the utmost importance, but isn't it farfetched to include it in a book about parenting? I suspect the author also copies the content from another book, as the author has written books about the authority of the Bible. It further dampens my motivation to read this book.
All in all, this book is an example of self-plagiarism, which is a disgrace to readers who have read his previous book. On earth there is nothing sadder than wasting the reader's time.
August 27, 2020
Una de mis grandes preocupaciones con el nacimiento de Isaac era la falta de experiencia y mi temor de no hacer un buen trabajo, este libro es un manual detallado de cómo educar y más aún, quien debo ser yo como padre para darle una enseñanza consistente a mi hijo
October 27, 2015
I got this book for review from the publisher through netgalley.
This book seems to be for new dads what Swimming Upstream is for new moms. There's a lot of worry out there in the world, but even if you have a great support system and a little money, raising a kid can seem as overwhelming as bringing a new life into the world of The Walking Dead. (Thank you, dear husband, for making me watch that and get THOSE nightmares.) All kidding aside, the author definitely lends a friendly voice and affirmations telling fellow dads "hey, you got this. Here's a couple pointers, but do you bro." This is a Christian based book, so maybe don't go buying it as a wedding gift for every single man you know. But definitely buy it for someone, even if just yourself.
This book seems to be for new dads what Swimming Upstream is for new moms. There's a lot of worry out there in the world, but even if you have a great support system and a little money, raising a kid can seem as overwhelming as bringing a new life into the world of The Walking Dead. (Thank you, dear husband, for making me watch that and get THOSE nightmares.) All kidding aside, the author definitely lends a friendly voice and affirmations telling fellow dads "hey, you got this. Here's a couple pointers, but do you bro." This is a Christian based book, so maybe don't go buying it as a wedding gift for every single man you know. But definitely buy it for someone, even if just yourself.
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