Tell Me about When Moms and Dads Come Home from Jail

by Judi Goozh, Sue Jeweler

"Is it easy to come home after being in jail?" Ideal for use with children aged 6-11, this is a vital resource for supporting the wellbeing of children whose parent is coming home after spending time in prison. Using plain language and photographs, it reassures children and guides them through adjusting to their parent's homecoming. It explains which feelings the child and both parents might experience and the different challenges that everyone in the family might face, while suggesting ways to build new bonds with the parent. Included are activities to help children manage their feelings, tips for parents and professionals on how best to support them, and a list of resources for additional help and information.

40 pages, Paperback

Published May 21, 2018

Reviews

[Brichimt · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is definitely for the upper elementary grade student who is experiencing have parents who are being arrested or who are already arrested. The language is simple enough for a 10-year-old to read independently yet detailed enough for a 7th grader. Because this is such a sensitive subject, the authors were careful to keep that in mind when they listed the questions they felt needed to be answered.

[kerrycat · Rating 4 out of 5]

Very straightforward, honest, and clear answers to questions children (grades 3-6ish - and even teens) may have when a parent returns from prison. There is information and support for parents and other adults (teachers, counselors, social workers) as well, but I think the key to this slim and accessible volume is the visual appeal and welcoming text for those children who need answers. Instead of treating children as if they won't understand what is happening when their entire lives are going to be upended - hopefully for the better - give them the opportunity to ask what they need to know to make it a more successful transition for everyone involved - if the adults in their lives aren't sure how to handle that, this book is perfect for them. Children understand a lot more than some adults credit them, and age-appropriate honesty is always best when it comes to helping them learn about themselves and the world they are growing into.

[Robin · Rating 2 out of 5]

Better than nothing? Doesn't question the justice system or if the parent deserved to go to jail. The text is kinda one kid's story, but then the photos show different families, which could be confusing for young readers. A possible starting point, but I wouldn't choose to use it directly with kids. Better than "Tell Me About When Moms and Dads Go To Jail", though...

[Emily · Rating 3 out of 5]

It’s unfortunately that kids need to know these things, but I’m glad that this resource exists for them and will help both parents and children adjust.

[RedRobinXXX · Rating 3 out of 5]

I am reviewing this book for Judi Goozh & Sue Jeweler, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, and NetGalley who gave me a copy of their book for an honest review.
Not enough is out there to support children and parents during this difficult time in their lives. Both have to adjust to family life. It highlights what both parties might be feeling and shows this is a normal way of coping. Lots of advice at the back to how to help settle back into family life.