How do you say “Telling a depressed person to cheer up is like telling a quadriplegic to stand” and still give hope for depression?
As a poet, the author captures what is so hard to communicate: the harsh breadth and depth of how depression feels, so that the unafflicted can offer useful assistance. And the verses tell a story of recovery that sings hope and promise.
Wendy S. Delmater is the author of Confessions of a Female Safety Engineer, Better Dating Through Engineering, Writing the Entertaining Story, and has been Editor at Abyss & Apex Magazine since 2006. She also edited The Best of Abyss & Apex, Volumes 1 through 3.
"Paranoid defences were a necessity then / But they get in your way now" ; a line that speaks to the emergence from depression and how some old habits will have a tendency to linger. Or: "Children / Even adult children / Without parents who care / Are like the walking wounded". Yes, we are. And as such, some of us will seek love in the most maladaptive places.
For anyone who has struggled with depression - and felt misunderstood, or even persecuted as a result - these poems will resonate with you, and you'll see yourself in the poignance of the lines.