你只是看起來很努力

by 李尚龍

302 pages, Paperback

Published December 1, 2016

Reviews

[Roy · Rating 4 out of 5]

This book, written by a young, up-and-coming Chinese film director, takes readers on a nostalgic trip down memory lane, highlighting candid thoughts, deep reflections, and insightful advice on some of our lives' biggest issues, including fostering genuine friendship, maintaining family bonds, handling peer pressure, getting over a separation, overcoming loneliness, coping with self doubt and internal struggles, pursuing personal goals, getting ahead at work, choosing the right person for long-term relationship, searching for one's true calling, etc. A couple of the chapters here paralleled my own past events and struck a deep chord with me, reminding me of the costly mistakes I need to learn from. Although some may dismiss this book as yet another chicken soup for the soul, it's written with utmost honesty and sincerity that you would expect from a true friend that has your best interests at heart.

[Kao · Rating 3 out of 5]

書能讓我們內心充滿著安靜

[Hauisan · Rating 3 out of 5]

2021
適合給大學生或剛出社會的新鮮人看。
有些章節寫得不錯，但有些觀念不是很能理解。

2018
人生必須往前看，除了自己，沒有人能決定你的命運。
如果有辦法追夢，就認真去追，不抱怨地前進，因為在實現夢想之前，一定會需要做許多自己不喜歡的事。
但每次打不倒你的，都會變成你的養分，使自己更強，只要記住，要讓行動大到支持你的野心。
在人際方面，婉轉含蓄的表達建議，勿太過直白傷人，也需要遠離經常搬弄是非的人，並期許自己也成為一個不搬弄是非的人。