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野兽绅士
本书从男性视角出发，意在帮助男性有效脱离单身，通过理论和实例教导单身男性如何建立交友圈，打造自身魅力工程以及如何追求优质女性，并以“专属约会教练”的身份由浅入深，一步步引导读者建立交友自信，教导男性学会分析女性心理，最终成为恋爱达人。本书会分析两性关系现状并用国内外经典恋爱达人理论和“坏男孩”独创恋爱理论共同解析恋爱困境；另一方面，作者深度分析女性心理、优质男性特点以及两性沟通方式并举大量实操案例，剖析其中细节。。总之，作者摸索并整理出了一套非常适合中国男性追爱的应用法则，打造了一门实践性超强的吸引艺术。
325 pages, Kindle Edition
Published February 1, 2017
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November 20, 2022
- Simple men think women only wants money: that's blatantly false. Women want men who have high quality of life, things like: ambition, genuinity, humor, kindness, sympathy, politeness etc. Those form better impression than money alone
- The author believes a man needs at least 5 potential mates in order not to be "thirsty" all the time
- Don't set expectation of romance when meeting someone: always just be friendly first
- The 3 seconds rule: when seeing someone interesting, one must decide within 3 seconds and proceed to take action (otherwise intellectual side will kick in making things complicated)
- "You're really pretty" is a bad compliment - chances are, she has already heard that. Your compliment ought to be about something she has worked on. In addition, it needs to be something uniquely her otherwise the compliment wouldn't seem truthful
- Conversation starter: it could be asking opinion of something from her (a good way to learn more about her) or even just a random observation of the place (it's always good to be observant to start a good conversation). Or simply asking a direct question such as "are you waiting for friends?"
- Always put a time constraint beforehand, this way she feels less pressured (since she knows you'd be leaving soon). However, when such time constraint occurs, do leave
- Don't be too available: it bores others and devalues you
- Unless you know something concretely, do not place judgement (such as women who go to bars are all bad women or, women who attend singles event are all ugly)
- A good way to identify if she is just being nice or if she actually is interest is to ask her to do a favor. If she isn't interested, she wouldn't be very keen on helping you
- Have a frame of yourself. Women shit test not for fun, but it's a quick way to filter out men who are not high in their caliber. Thus, when shit test occur, be nonreactive and never cater to other people's demand. Be high value person, because if you're high value, you have multiple replacement and you don't need to play the shit test (the way to pass shit test is actually not to do the test at all)
- Social proof can be seen on if the people working in the venue or introduce themselves to you, or your own social circle is surrounded by successful/attractive people. People take shortcuts to come to a conclusion about people (that's why schools like Wharton or companies like Godman carries prestidge even though people who are in those institution knows better)
- Ask women to pay for you - why not?
- The author believes a man needs at least 5 potential mates in order not to be "thirsty" all the time
- Don't set expectation of romance when meeting someone: always just be friendly first
- The 3 seconds rule: when seeing someone interesting, one must decide within 3 seconds and proceed to take action (otherwise intellectual side will kick in making things complicated)
- "You're really pretty" is a bad compliment - chances are, she has already heard that. Your compliment ought to be about something she has worked on. In addition, it needs to be something uniquely her otherwise the compliment wouldn't seem truthful
- Conversation starter: it could be asking opinion of something from her (a good way to learn more about her) or even just a random observation of the place (it's always good to be observant to start a good conversation). Or simply asking a direct question such as "are you waiting for friends?"
- Always put a time constraint beforehand, this way she feels less pressured (since she knows you'd be leaving soon). However, when such time constraint occurs, do leave
- Don't be too available: it bores others and devalues you
- Unless you know something concretely, do not place judgement (such as women who go to bars are all bad women or, women who attend singles event are all ugly)
- A good way to identify if she is just being nice or if she actually is interest is to ask her to do a favor. If she isn't interested, she wouldn't be very keen on helping you
- Have a frame of yourself. Women shit test not for fun, but it's a quick way to filter out men who are not high in their caliber. Thus, when shit test occur, be nonreactive and never cater to other people's demand. Be high value person, because if you're high value, you have multiple replacement and you don't need to play the shit test (the way to pass shit test is actually not to do the test at all)
- Social proof can be seen on if the people working in the venue or introduce themselves to you, or your own social circle is surrounded by successful/attractive people. People take shortcuts to come to a conclusion about people (that's why schools like Wharton or companies like Godman carries prestidge even though people who are in those institution knows better)
- Ask women to pay for you - why not?
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