Dr. Steve Greene, the author of the novel of a book called Love Leads is an
extraordinarily fantastic book that has led me to strive to lead everyone I know, not just minors but my piers and elders also. This book has taught me a lot of things but most of all, how to lead using love, not strength/grit. People love to lead now in this generation and past generations with fear, grit, strength, and hate. What you will realize is that all these tactics actually end up causing stress, anxiety, hate/backlash, and depression. Personally I have been coached by an amazing coach in my freshman year of high-school after transferring schools. There was one slight problem I had with his coaching. He would always yell into people’s ears if a person was not playing well or didn’t understand a certain play we have been running. Fortunately he hardly yelled at me but I can see others being frustrated and probably have anxiety after getting yelled at from one if not the best olympian for water polo in America. The weird thing is it was like a spiritual connection between me and God and Brett, my coach. My coach wasn’t very religious but it seemed like he yelled at everyone and then when I did something wrong, he just looked at me and told me what I did wrong and then proceeded to rip on others. Later on during the season we ended up not getting a good placement for Junior Olympics, but the year following that we did. It was because that next year he became super positive and uplifting to the team. He still yelled but it was for a better purpose, a purpose for people to listen and to show that this is important for you to understand. I think this shows how leadership is important to learn from experience. Over time my coach understood who we are as not players but people in his life. He began to be nicer cause of that and that was because of his experience of coaching our team.
Leadership is one of the hardest things to do right as a human. Why? Because God states that no human is whole/perfect alone but with The Holy Spirit we can become renewed and purified. What makes it hard is if we aren’t perfect, how can we lead other humans that aren’t perfect if we aren’t perfect? Well when we are lead by God to lead others, we use love and this world needs to see love. It’s God within you leading these humans. He is using you to be a messenger of His great Word.
Overall to lead under a loving heart is hard to do, but trust me, from experience love is the best way to communicate to people. I have saved people from suicide from helping others in their life by communicating towards them with love. If you try to talk to people with a motivational side but using hate/anger, that will only give off more stress to the person. For people around the world reading this book, look at the world differently, people should not be seen as a distraction or hated, every single person should be treated with love whether they are angry towards you or not. We cannot feed off of each other’s anger otherwise the world would be chaos and it slowly is becoming more and more chaotic. Use Love to lead, not hate.
To evaluate this book throughly, I thought it was one of my top 5 books to be completely honest. I found this book to be right down my alley since I’m playing one more year of club water polo as the old guy for all of del mar water polo club. I didn’t realize how many people look up to me as a star water polo player but so many people in the younger age groups know of me and I have all that pressure to lead these kids to be a positive player. Simply all you need to know is... Love Leads.