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Divorced and Scared No More! Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced
Have you experienced Divorce? Are you questioning what your future will be after your vows of "I do" turn into "I do not" along with the loss of all the dreams that never will be fulfilled? Divorced and Scared No Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced is the first installment of the three-part trilogy written to assist readers in post-divorce related matters while providing you the motivation you need to move on.Author Tasher speaks from personal experience; having gone through the many stages of relationships. This includes denial of a failed marriage, expressiveness needed to gain healing and how to remain emotionally grounded. You'll find ways to embrace your new found freedom and turn the lemons life threw at you into a Zesty Lemon Sorbet! Therapist and clinical author Justin Nutt, LSCSW, LAC consulted as a technical advisor for the series. Insuring everything presented be accurate and quality material while still being a comforting, easy-to-read guide to surviving divorce.Co-Author Tony Haynes is a practitioner of Acrostic Poetry -poetry where the first, last or other letters in a line spell out a particular word or phrase. At the end of each chapter, you can look forward to reading a clever poem from words found within the word DIVORCE . These are poetic thoughts that ask "How did I get here?" This rite of passage has everything to do with life and our stories affects each other because we are all connected . Now it's time to peek inside and see how, where & why our lives intersect.There are so many insightful topics in the book, which will help you feel inspired to look inward and become aware of your needs to help you live again. There is still life after emotional death ... Isn't it time for you to be happily divorced and Divorced and Scared NO More?
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284 pages, Paperback
Published March 18, 2016
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May 22, 2017
A Down To Earth Guide
This book is not only helpful for those that are newly divorced but is also great for those that have low esteem after having suffered a difficult end to a relationship.
The author, Tasher, having suffered badly after her divorce, has gone on to produce three helpful and insightful guides on how to cope day to day as a single person again. This is the first in the series and is abundant with strategies to help all. In places, Tasher, throws a humorous light on what can be a difficult time. This book is a good down to earth guide and will appeal to many.
This book is not only helpful for those that are newly divorced but is also great for those that have low esteem after having suffered a difficult end to a relationship.
The author, Tasher, having suffered badly after her divorce, has gone on to produce three helpful and insightful guides on how to cope day to day as a single person again. This is the first in the series and is abundant with strategies to help all. In places, Tasher, throws a humorous light on what can be a difficult time. This book is a good down to earth guide and will appeal to many.
May 7, 2016
Tasher has blessed us again with an outstanding book full of amazing information. While all of it is common sense, it is hard to remember everything we need to do during and after divorce. We are lead along a journey to a new lifestyle that is sure to benefit us all. From parenting to finances to enjoying our selves, she has covered it all in this well written self help book. I am impressed and thankful for the resources she has provided along the way.
Life can be quiet challenging at times, especially during or after divorce. This book is a great manual to finding and thriving in a healthy life-style from top to bottom, from the inside out. This author has beautifully prepared us for most things that could or will happen.
Emotions are a huge part of our life. By learning to care for ourselves and our children emotionally, we can thrive in life. Tasher has so much important information that it would be hard to tell it all without writing a novel. Her self-help book is an easy read from front to back. It has the added benefit of small sub-chapters that allow us to pick up the book up and read at any given time and lean from it or grow from it.
Her writing style surpasses one of my favorite favorite authors Richard Carlson. She has taught us how to live in a way that will brighten our lives, and to avoid most downfalls altogether. The downfalls that we can't prevent or slip into, she has taught us how to pick right back up carry ourselves and our children right back to the top of the mountain.
I love Tasher's positive outlook on life. I love her honesty and revelation that there will always be challenges in our lives. I am so inspired by her ability to make this feel and seem okay knowing that we can adequately prepare ourselves for those challenges while currently making it through a challenge.
Life can be quiet challenging at times, especially during or after divorce. This book is a great manual to finding and thriving in a healthy life-style from top to bottom, from the inside out. This author has beautifully prepared us for most things that could or will happen.
Emotions are a huge part of our life. By learning to care for ourselves and our children emotionally, we can thrive in life. Tasher has so much important information that it would be hard to tell it all without writing a novel. Her self-help book is an easy read from front to back. It has the added benefit of small sub-chapters that allow us to pick up the book up and read at any given time and lean from it or grow from it.
Her writing style surpasses one of my favorite favorite authors Richard Carlson. She has taught us how to live in a way that will brighten our lives, and to avoid most downfalls altogether. The downfalls that we can't prevent or slip into, she has taught us how to pick right back up carry ourselves and our children right back to the top of the mountain.
I love Tasher's positive outlook on life. I love her honesty and revelation that there will always be challenges in our lives. I am so inspired by her ability to make this feel and seem okay knowing that we can adequately prepare ourselves for those challenges while currently making it through a challenge.
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June 8, 2016
Divorce is not pretty and Tasher brings that to the forefront. Understanding the emotional roller coaster you are on before, during, and after a divorce is key to making it through to a happier and healthier life. When moving through the process of divorce, one does not think of all of the emotional bombs that explode when dealing with even the most amicable of divorces. Understanding that divorce is an end but also a new beginning is not something easily grasped. I would have done much better beginning my new single life had I had many of the insights in this book.
This book provides good solid advice on how to work through many of the emotions that jump up and smack you in the face. When I was moving through divorce many years ago, I felt some feelings that I did not understand. Later on in my life, I realized they were grief. Tasher discusses this in depth and provides good advice on how to deal with those emotions.
Of note, Tasher has a Christian viewpoint on life and it is evident in this book. She uses scripture to help us understand why there is such a stigma with divorce and how many of those old beliefs formed most of the ideals of what marriage is and should be.
There is practical advice in this book that will help keep one moving forward and beyond. The words give permission to feel help on how to deal with feelings one never knew they could have. Many years later, the concepts in this book will help me to make this marriage better and stronger as I understand how then has affected now.
I encourage anyone who is contemplating a divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or divorced to read this book.
This book provides good solid advice on how to work through many of the emotions that jump up and smack you in the face. When I was moving through divorce many years ago, I felt some feelings that I did not understand. Later on in my life, I realized they were grief. Tasher discusses this in depth and provides good advice on how to deal with those emotions.
Of note, Tasher has a Christian viewpoint on life and it is evident in this book. She uses scripture to help us understand why there is such a stigma with divorce and how many of those old beliefs formed most of the ideals of what marriage is and should be.
There is practical advice in this book that will help keep one moving forward and beyond. The words give permission to feel help on how to deal with feelings one never knew they could have. Many years later, the concepts in this book will help me to make this marriage better and stronger as I understand how then has affected now.
I encourage anyone who is contemplating a divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or divorced to read this book.
May 9, 2016
“My wings were clipped
And still I flew
Directly on to something new.”
-Excerpt from And Still I Flew
By Tony Haynes
Tasher is the epitome of making her mess her message. Recovering from a devastating divorce, Tasher delves into the steps of surviving the aftermath of sometimes heart wrenching experiences in her book series, Divorced & Scared No More! In this three-part series Tasher provides valuable advice in enduring the effects of a divorce. Tasher doesn’t use this platform to bash her ex-husband, but rather utilizes it as an avenue to help change the perspective of the newly divorced.
In the first book subtitled, Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced, Tasher provides hope for those affected by divorce. She addresses topics like abuse, adultery, and forgiveness, while directly speaking to the adulterer, not in an admonishing fashion, but rather in a “what do you do now?” method. Armed with the knowledge from her own involvement with divorce, Tasher effectively offers comfort and beneficial advice, and is therefore proof that there is life after divorce.
**** 4 Stars
Divorced & Scared No More!: Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced
by Tasher & Tony Haynes
283 Pages
Published by Xulon Press in 2016
Genre: Non-fiction, Self-help, Series
ISBN-13: 9781498465854
*Disclaimer: This paperback copy was received in exchange for a paid and honest review.
And still I flew
Directly on to something new.”
-Excerpt from And Still I Flew
By Tony Haynes
Tasher is the epitome of making her mess her message. Recovering from a devastating divorce, Tasher delves into the steps of surviving the aftermath of sometimes heart wrenching experiences in her book series, Divorced & Scared No More! In this three-part series Tasher provides valuable advice in enduring the effects of a divorce. Tasher doesn’t use this platform to bash her ex-husband, but rather utilizes it as an avenue to help change the perspective of the newly divorced.
In the first book subtitled, Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced, Tasher provides hope for those affected by divorce. She addresses topics like abuse, adultery, and forgiveness, while directly speaking to the adulterer, not in an admonishing fashion, but rather in a “what do you do now?” method. Armed with the knowledge from her own involvement with divorce, Tasher effectively offers comfort and beneficial advice, and is therefore proof that there is life after divorce.
**** 4 Stars
Divorced & Scared No More!: Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced
by Tasher & Tony Haynes
283 Pages
Published by Xulon Press in 2016
Genre: Non-fiction, Self-help, Series
ISBN-13: 9781498465854
*Disclaimer: This paperback copy was received in exchange for a paid and honest review.
May 8, 2016
Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced is an essential book in an excellent series that offers practical advice for individuals who find themselves newly divorced. The author writes in a comforting tone that helps to empower and inspire you. Don’t get the blues and don’t be hard on yourself. The author suggests that you surround yourself with a positive group of people and lean on them for support. She stressed the importance of positive people who will not judge or rush you through the divorce process. It takes time and it is important to allow yourself an unrestricted amount of it to heal. This book worked for me like a personal life coach. Coaching me to make the better decision when a choice was given to me. She helped me shape the way I was feeling about myself. At first, I felt like a huge failure but after reflection and through reading this book I realized I needed to give myself some slack. After I stopped being my own biggest critic, I was able to properly move forward. This is an exceptional book and has had such a profoundly positive influence on me. I highly recommend this life-changing book for anyone who has recently been divorced. Or, if you have a friend or family member going through a divorce, this would also be a great book to read to gain some perspective. Great work!
May 8, 2016
This book is really awesome. It contains with the wonderful and helpful tips for those who has got divorced or for those who want to start their life again. This book will really work as a helpful guidebook. This book is also based on facts and science. The book is written in an easy to read and comforting manner. Author Tasher and Tony Haynes have written this book by aiming to provide emotional support to the newly divorced or the ones going through a divorce in their life. The book is developed considering the emotional turmoil a person goes through when and after getting a divorce and helps the person in starting afresh with the help of his book.The book will assist the reader in post-divorce related issues and offer the motivation they need to move on in their life. The books inspired by author Tasher’s own life experiences, who has gone through many stages of a relationship including denial of a failed marriage.This book is really highly recommended.
May 7, 2016
I got this book for my best friend who's just ended her relationship and currently in the process of having a divorce.
What I like about this book is that the author herself knows first hand what divorce can do to a person, both physically and mentally.
Unlike some books that sounds too technical, "Divorced and Scared No More" is a relatable and easy to understand guide that is accurately presented through the authors personal experience along with the help of a therapist and clinical author. It was like talking to someone who knows how you feel and who's ready to help you in overcoming the emotional pain from your failed relationship.
If you know someone struggling emotionally because of an impending divorce or a broken relationship, then this is the best gift you can give. Highly recommended!
What I like about this book is that the author herself knows first hand what divorce can do to a person, both physically and mentally.
Unlike some books that sounds too technical, "Divorced and Scared No More" is a relatable and easy to understand guide that is accurately presented through the authors personal experience along with the help of a therapist and clinical author. It was like talking to someone who knows how you feel and who's ready to help you in overcoming the emotional pain from your failed relationship.
If you know someone struggling emotionally because of an impending divorce or a broken relationship, then this is the best gift you can give. Highly recommended!
May 26, 2016
If you have ever wanted to understand what takes place after a divorce, and some healthy methods on how to process the feelings brought on by one, this is a helpful read with a cleverly crafted, thought provoking exploration of ideas surrounding the end of a relationship and the beginning of a new one - with yourself! I found invaluable gems and numerous innovative ways to approach the loss of what once was. All throughout, Tasher keeps her sense of humour which injects hope into the book. What shone through was this silver lining: Divorce should not only be associated with the bad, as there are many good things you can gain from the experience. A wonderful addition to the book are the acrostic poems which accompany the chapters, bringing a cohesion to the various stages of emotional support that are explored.
May 10, 2016
Well written and easy to read, "Divorced and Scared No More", is essentially "a separation and survival guide", and the first in a series of three. Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced is an essential book in an excellent series that offers practical advice for individuals who find themselves newly divorced. The authors, Tasher and Tony Haynes, provide many great strategies to help a person heal and get back on track. It's inspiring, encouraging, and motivating. Take a look.Divorce is one of the prime emotionally and mentally challenging experiences, and without the right tools to deal with it, the experience will take much longer to overcome than it should. Years of happiness can be stolen. I highly recommend this life-changing book for anyone who has recently been divorced.
June 7, 2016
Divorced & Scared No More: Emotional Support for the Newly Divorced is the first book in its series. As the title suggests, this novel focuses more on the emotional aspect divorce. Tasher and Tony Hayes put an emphasis on self-care and self-love and I think that is great. Understanding that you as an individual are loved and worthy is an important factor in moving on after divorce. This book covers an array of different topics and uses the author’s own personal experiences to help guide you. From grieving and acceptance to abuse and unhealthy behaviors, there are many useful tips to heal your mind, body and soul.This is a phenomenal series for anyone that is recently divorced and needs help or guidance. I highly recommend it!
June 7, 2016
Naturally every person is not deserved a successful wedded life. This book is just like a heavy rain after a tough drought because this book contains plenty of valuable advises. Tasher always encourages her fans through her positive, emotional and strong words. These days one of my close friends is suffering a lot because of the collapse of her marriage life. But after going through this book I feel that this is the best solution for her pain. I’m pretty sure definitely she will be able to make her mind and end her sorrows after reading “Divorced and Scared No More!” Hopefully I’m counting fingers to read the next installment. I heartily recommend this book for everyone those who are willing to erase bad memories from their marriage lives. This book is highly recommended.
May 9, 2016
This book will truly work as a supportive guidebook. It is written in an easy way. Author Tasher and Tony Haynes have written this book to provide emotional support to the newly divorced or the ones going through a divorce in their life. The book is settled considering the emotional turmoil a person goes through when and after getting a divorce and helps the person in starting afresh with the help of his book. The book will assist the reader in post-divorce related issues and offer the motivation they need to move on in their life. Really helpful book. I would like to thank to my father for this wonderful gift
May 10, 2016
If you are newly divorced and seeking guidance, "Divorced and Scared No More!" is recommended reading. Very wonderful read contains full of emotional support.Book 1 assists in emotional support; the ins and outs of the "how" and "why" of divorce, that life is too short to worry about the things you have no control over. Forgiveness, boundaries, infidelity - every aspect of emotional divorce distress is covered. The authors, though not professional divorce therapists, speak from their own personal experience and history. Easy to read, with engaging scenarios throughout and helpful questions and answers, "Divorced and Scared No More!" is the ultimate divorcee reference manual.
May 23, 2016
A divorce is one of the hardest things a person can go through in their life. The author of Divorced and Scared No More wrote the book based on her own life experience, and the reader can feel how passionate she is on the topic of healing from divorce and genuinely wants to help others get through this difficult time as well. The positive tone throughout the entire book makes the reader stop blaming themselves for their failed relationship and realize that better things lie ahead. I found this book tremendously helpful after going through my own heartbreak. A great read!
May 9, 2016
I just loved this book. Really helpful. Got it from my best friend. Wonderful book. This book is full of wonderful tips for the people who have got divorced. The Author has given a magnificent emotional support by writing this book. This book will remove the frustration who is in great depressing for their bad relationship. I'm sure your emotion will turn into power, if read this brilliant guidebook. I will recommend this book highly for everyone.
May 10, 2016
I just loved to read this book. I really enjoyed this book so much. Got it from my mom. Very amazing gift from my mom. I just like this kind of book. What a great emotional support for those who got divorced recently. It’s a wonderful guidebook which contains helpful emotional support. This book will remove the frustration who is in great depressing for their bad relationship. I will must recommend this book.
May 11, 2016
Going through divorce is hard enough and having to deal with life amidst all the turmoil can be a nightmare. All of a sudden you have all the people in the world telling you how to live your life though they have no idea of what you are going through. The author clearly understands the insecurities that arise from a broken marriage and beautifully addresses them. All you really need is a warm embrace from an empathetic soul and this book does just that.
June 7, 2016
I should have read it sooner.Words cannot express how helpful this book is. The list of Things People Say to Divorced People is so good, I'd like to see it as an excerpt published on a variety of websites, and could go viral. I highly recommend this book to anyone going through a divorce. Even though I gained immensely from this book, I will probably read the next ones in the series because I love the authors' advice and writing so much. Highly recommended
June 18, 2016
As soon as you and/or your spouse have made the decision to split, you need this book. Or even if it's been a little while, you need this book. It's an extremely thorough and well-written book that is sure to help you process your feelings surrounding your divorce. I personally gained a lot from it; even though I thought I'd already heard it all, I still learned some useful things to help me process my divorce.
May 9, 2016
This book is really a wonderful guide book. I got this book from my friend. He gifted this book to me. I have found a great emotional support by reading this book. It will work as a helpful tip for those who got divorced. It’s an easy and great book. This book is really very necessary for those who has just got divorced. Strongly recommended.
November 30, 2021
Good guide for emotional support
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