From Before you read any further... You see, I was allowed to read this book ahead of time. I know what it says, and I know the man who wrote it. In fact, he is the one who asked me to write this preface. (After all these years, and so many books, I thought he'd never ask.) Actually, I chuckled as I read the manuscript - thinking back on our famous debates downstairs in the hobby shop, the three and a half mile walks down the Illinois Prairie Path.... and back again; our in=the-fishing-boat discussions; and the countless road trips he took me on when I was a kid. Sometimes we connected. Other times we fought. People often ask me, "What was it like to be Jay Kesler's son?" Frankly, I don't know, Jay Kesler is the only father I've ever had. Was he a good father? The Best! Was he a perfect father? Not by a long shot, But dad seemed to understand the meaning of words like "process" and "consistency." And, in spite of his hectic life, my father and I developed hobbies to
This book was written in 1989…as long as you take that into account you can still glean plenty of encouragement from these pages. Not a single mention of cell phones obviously, but turns out nothing is new under the sun when it comes to parenting.
An interesting book and certainly has helpful advice. Teenagers are not the easiest people to help sometimes, especially when things can seem quite overwhelming for them.