Sex and the Narcissist is a captivating examination of the narcissist's relationship with sex. This direct and unbridled journey through the narcissist's sexual arena addresses many key questions. What does the narcissist think of during sex? What is his or her sexual identity? How does the narcissist use sex in seduction and devaluation? Why is sex with a narcissist often addictive? These questions and others are posed and answered as you delve deep into the sexual attitudes and preferences of the narcissist. You will learn about the different classes of sexual narcissist and how each has differing viewpoints of sex. Consideration is given to why narcissists engage in certain sexual behaviours, what do they gain from this and what is your involvement? Why are certain victims regarded as more challenging than others and why does the narcissist prefer this? Why do some narcissists follow a path towards perversion and morally reprehensible activities? Do you realise that the sexual behaviours of your partner are those of a narcissist? The many facets of human sexuality are examined through the worldview of the narcissist and the results will enlighten and fascinate you. An absolute must-read in understanding the way the narcissist uses sex to further his or her manipulative machinations.
This is essential reading for understanding how a narcissist operates. I was surprised by how the Narcissist regards sex. It was very helpful as a victim of narcissists. I will always carry this information!
If your truly want to step out of the pain of a narcissist, read this book. HG Tudor is anyone who wants to heal’s....narcissist. You name it, I read it. It was only until I stepped into the mind and the writings/YouTube videos of HG Tudor have I come to an unnerving but nevertheless necessary place of acceptance. Reading this will shock you into recovery. I wish you kindness and strength in your journey. You WILL get there.
I wish I had read this book prior to becoming involved with a narcissist. Everybody desires to be wanted, needed and loved. Every bodies' definition of what this looks like is slightly different but to a Narcissist they aren't using the same dictionary or even talking the same language. If I knew what I know now, before getting entangled with this very deviant person i never ever would have considered doing it. Truly a devil in sheep's clothing. They are devious manipulators. Pay attention to the red flags in all relationships. Just become aware of what you are doing outside your moral oundaries and put a halt to it immediately because it will get worse if you allow the relationship to continue.
A must read for anyone who was involved with a narcissist. It is an interesting, honest and educational book. Afterwards you will have a better understanding how a narcissist views sex and why it was so addictive. HG Tudor has an excellent writing style using a lot of examples, I finished it in one setting.
The book itself is as good as all his others, but for whatever reason it disturbed me. A lot. Perhaps because I recognized much of what he talks about in this one, and that realization made me a bit ill. On to the next one...
Brilliant! Don't you go looking for a partner without first memorizing every word of this book. This book can save you a lot of pain, protect your marriage, your dignity and so much more.