A useful book in simple language outlining the meaning, process & value of the Continuing Indaba concept. It was first introduced & utilized among the Anglican/Episcopal bishops of the world gathered in 2008 at the Lambeth Conference. At the suggestion of Archbishop Thabo Makgoba, Anglican Archbishop of Cape Town, South Africa, Indaba was embraced as an alternative to the usual, and during this time polemical, parliamentary style of debating issues. Makgoba described it as "a gathering for purposeful discussion."
The pain & violence in all our societies globally has pressed a good number of people into the realization that none of us can regard others' situations as "not my problem". The authors note: "The truth is that the world is changed by ordinary people living in a new way." Living Reconciliation is a process, a journey really, sometimes quite extended, risky, and painful; definitely not easy, on which people can come together face to face as diverse, different, varied human beings, and learn to communicate civilly & appropriately in telling the truth. Honest sharing, where all sides, all constituencies, have an equal opportunity leads to understanding, building relationships, friendship, community, but, at the same time, not necessarily a change of personally held convictions.
The Indaba journey is always uncertain, uncomfortable, because no one knows ahead of time what changes might be effected, both in lives & in structures of power. The process doesn't necessarily end conflict, but enables people to confront conflict face-to-face in healthy ways. But it makes possible for people a new way of being, one that holds out hope.