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Instant Parenting - How to Be a Good Parent and Raise a Child with Fewer Conflicts Instantly!
The Instant-Series Presents "Instant Parenting"
How to Be a Good Parent and Raise a Child with Fewer Conflicts Instantly!
Ah kids...what parents wouldn't do for their child? From the very first moment they are born into your arms, they instantly become the cherished apple of your eyes, and you would do anything for them.
As much as you love them and would give the world to them, let's be honest, raising a child is no quick walk in the park...
There will be times of conflicts, difficulties, and tensions along the way - not to mention those rebellious streak of teen years. Driven by the need to get whatever they want whenever they want and the need to fit in and be cool and popular, then playing the guilt card and blaming you for not loving them enough for not giving in to their demands, can wreck havoc on any parent's nerve.
You can blame it on pop cultures, but remember...you, as a parent, need to be their GPS (guided parental system) guiding them in a world that they think they're know it all, into well-respected successful individual and good outstanding citizen. Now what parent wouldn't want that?
That is biggest the priority of a parent and the biggest prize you can offer to your kid(s). They need you to!
Within "Instant Parenting":
* How to be a good parent by adopting the fundamental "6 Golden Rules" of parenting to raising children more easily and guiding them through life.
* How to apply the "art of codependent parenting" where you and your child both have mutual respects and need each other for survival as one form of parenting styles.
* How to improve interactions with your children by working on your "parental communication skills" so they will always respect and listen to you.
* How to manage yourself and your kids when they have done something wrong against your wishes and everything you've taught them, leading to arguments.
* How to get your kids on your side, by being ON their side, so they will always let you in on their life without hiding any secrecy, but always want you in on their life.
* Plus, custom practical "how-to" strategies, techniques, applications and exercises for better parenting skills for raising kids better.
...and much more.
Parenting should be a privilege to shape your children into the molding image of your lasting legacy for future generations to come; and you only have a limited time to do that for they do grow up so fast.
Don't let this one-time parenting opportunity to enjoy the good times (and even the bad times) to raise your kid(s) into who they will be, before it slips you by!
How to Be a Good Parent and Raise a Child with Fewer Conflicts Instantly!
Ah kids...what parents wouldn't do for their child? From the very first moment they are born into your arms, they instantly become the cherished apple of your eyes, and you would do anything for them.
As much as you love them and would give the world to them, let's be honest, raising a child is no quick walk in the park...
There will be times of conflicts, difficulties, and tensions along the way - not to mention those rebellious streak of teen years. Driven by the need to get whatever they want whenever they want and the need to fit in and be cool and popular, then playing the guilt card and blaming you for not loving them enough for not giving in to their demands, can wreck havoc on any parent's nerve.
You can blame it on pop cultures, but remember...you, as a parent, need to be their GPS (guided parental system) guiding them in a world that they think they're know it all, into well-respected successful individual and good outstanding citizen. Now what parent wouldn't want that?
That is biggest the priority of a parent and the biggest prize you can offer to your kid(s). They need you to!
Within "Instant Parenting":
* How to be a good parent by adopting the fundamental "6 Golden Rules" of parenting to raising children more easily and guiding them through life.
* How to apply the "art of codependent parenting" where you and your child both have mutual respects and need each other for survival as one form of parenting styles.
* How to improve interactions with your children by working on your "parental communication skills" so they will always respect and listen to you.
* How to manage yourself and your kids when they have done something wrong against your wishes and everything you've taught them, leading to arguments.
* How to get your kids on your side, by being ON their side, so they will always let you in on their life without hiding any secrecy, but always want you in on their life.
* Plus, custom practical "how-to" strategies, techniques, applications and exercises for better parenting skills for raising kids better.
...and much more.
Parenting should be a privilege to shape your children into the molding image of your lasting legacy for future generations to come; and you only have a limited time to do that for they do grow up so fast.
Don't let this one-time parenting opportunity to enjoy the good times (and even the bad times) to raise your kid(s) into who they will be, before it slips you by!
85 pages, Kindle Edition
First published August 7, 2015
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For instant results, this is the INSTANT-Series. No fluff. No joke. No horsing around. No monkey business. No time to waste. Just instant fast overnight results.
We know how precious your time is, or lack thereof. That's why we created the INSTANT-Series Guides to provide immediate solutions for common problems.
Our mission is to produce the success you want in the quickest shortest amount of time possible. Quick and to the point, without the pointless fluffs, useless theories, and same old common sense cliché everybody knows, but real practical actionable information that work, that are even only available to those who are paying a fortune for top-notch professionals to know.
Now you can figure them all out in the INSTANT-Series, without losing a leg, for less than a few bucks.
Be sure to check out our other INSTANT-Series Guides.
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August 28, 2015
As mom to two girls spaced seven years apart, with very different personalities, one adopted and one biological, I often face parenting challenges for which I do not feel adequately equipped. Instant Parenting is a short, easy to understand, book that has given me some practical guidelines and tools with which to work. While Chapter 1 helped me to honestly identify my current parenting style, I found the 6 Golden Behaviors To Parenting in Chapter 2 to be insightful and user friendly. In my opinion, Chapter 3 is where “the rubber meets the road” and it is where I had to take stock of my non-verbal cues as relates to parenting my children. My children usually know my state of mind based upon my facial expressions, eye contact and volume level. The exercises in Chapter 3 to teach myself how to control my non-verbal cues were quite difficult, and I’m still not completely in control, but I’ve definitely made progress. What’s interesting to me is that my kids have noticed a difference in how I interact with them and our relationships have begun to improve, ever so slightly.
I had the most difficulty with Chapter 4, as I could not relate to the idea of Parenting Like A General, so I pretty much glossed over it. In Chapters 5 and 6, the focus is on maintaining composure no matter what the challenging issue might be with my child. The idea is to focus on behavior, not character, and to not respond until I have spent time gathering information (by asking open-ended questions, in a neutral, composed manner) to make an informed response. A significant portion of Chapter 6 deals with controlling temper, something with which I struggle. The practical exercises provided, showed me how to reign it in when I am ready to explode – very helpful. The illustrations were good and forced me to think about current issues I am facing, especially with my teenager. The wrap-up in the last two chapters basically reinforced what was spelled out in more detail in the preceding chapters.
Overall, Instant Parenting, is a simplified book on parenting techniques that can truly make a difference in the way in which you parent your children – if applied. I have found, that since working on my composure and non-verbal cues when communicating with my children, we have calmer and healthier interactions – even when they don’t necessarily get their way. For this, I am grateful.
I had the most difficulty with Chapter 4, as I could not relate to the idea of Parenting Like A General, so I pretty much glossed over it. In Chapters 5 and 6, the focus is on maintaining composure no matter what the challenging issue might be with my child. The idea is to focus on behavior, not character, and to not respond until I have spent time gathering information (by asking open-ended questions, in a neutral, composed manner) to make an informed response. A significant portion of Chapter 6 deals with controlling temper, something with which I struggle. The practical exercises provided, showed me how to reign it in when I am ready to explode – very helpful. The illustrations were good and forced me to think about current issues I am facing, especially with my teenager. The wrap-up in the last two chapters basically reinforced what was spelled out in more detail in the preceding chapters.
Overall, Instant Parenting, is a simplified book on parenting techniques that can truly make a difference in the way in which you parent your children – if applied. I have found, that since working on my composure and non-verbal cues when communicating with my children, we have calmer and healthier interactions – even when they don’t necessarily get their way. For this, I am grateful.
August 31, 2015
I say this book is full of common sense, because it really is. But what I don’t mean is that this stuff is obvious and unusable. It’s the opposite. The author goes through a lot of scenarios which every normal parent can relate to. Child yells at you and misbehaves; you get super angry and yell back. We all snap, but this book walks you through how you should respond, step by step. It may sound obvious once you read this stuff, but it takes a lot of discipline. True to the title you can implement calm discipline techniques and begin understanding your child better instantly, but it will take practice.
Thankfully the book seems to get that; the author is clearly a parent and understands how people’s styles and habits differ. I found that as an avid reader on parenting, some of the things in here I already do, but quite a few were new to me. I’ll have to keep working on some of the techniques, but so far I can see some progress with my 2 and 4 year old.
It didn’t take me long to go through this one either, you can probably read it in an hour or two; the content is concise and skips all the “fluff.” It also doesn’t tell you to go buy anything which is a plus. You can simply follow the behaviors and hopefully connect more with your kid. Every parent wants that I think.
Thankfully the book seems to get that; the author is clearly a parent and understands how people’s styles and habits differ. I found that as an avid reader on parenting, some of the things in here I already do, but quite a few were new to me. I’ll have to keep working on some of the techniques, but so far I can see some progress with my 2 and 4 year old.
It didn’t take me long to go through this one either, you can probably read it in an hour or two; the content is concise and skips all the “fluff.” It also doesn’t tell you to go buy anything which is a plus. You can simply follow the behaviors and hopefully connect more with your kid. Every parent wants that I think.
October 7, 2015
This audio book gives you the tools to help you become a better parent. It tells you how to be an effective parent; how to better communicate with your children, and to control the volume of your voice. It also talks about maintaining your composure and being able to control your emotions first. It's never a good idea to get into a yelling match with your child, no one ever wins.
Each chapter hold invaluable advise on what we as parents need to do to raise our child to become the best person they can be. As this book points out, and I think some parents have forgotten, we are ultimately responsible for the way our children turn out. This book makes a good point, our child are our legacy, the way we raise them will reflect on us. What kind of adults do we as parents want to unleash on society? Good, law abiding citizens.
No matter if you're a new parent or not, this book is has a wealth of information to improve your parenting skills.
Each chapter hold invaluable advise on what we as parents need to do to raise our child to become the best person they can be. As this book points out, and I think some parents have forgotten, we are ultimately responsible for the way our children turn out. This book makes a good point, our child are our legacy, the way we raise them will reflect on us. What kind of adults do we as parents want to unleash on society? Good, law abiding citizens.
No matter if you're a new parent or not, this book is has a wealth of information to improve your parenting skills.
August 27, 2015
This book is a true inspiration, I was feeling completely overwhelmed dealing with my child's behavior. This stemmed from allowing her to get away with everything due to being a toddler. However as she grew the behavior got to the point it was embarrassing I truly needed help. That’s when I spoke to a friend of mine which in turn alerted me to Instant Parenting.
My child is prone to temper tantrums and I just did not know how to cope with this. After reading instant parenting I learned how to remain calm during these fits of rage, find ways to distract her and then allowing her to express her feelings in words rather than an outburst. Words are not enough to explain my appreciation of this book. All I can say is thank you.
My child is prone to temper tantrums and I just did not know how to cope with this. After reading instant parenting I learned how to remain calm during these fits of rage, find ways to distract her and then allowing her to express her feelings in words rather than an outburst. Words are not enough to explain my appreciation of this book. All I can say is thank you.
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