Learning to Commit: The Best Time to Work on Your Marriage is When You’re Single

by Avrum Nadigel

Commit to a successful relationship! Ever wonder why your relationships don’t last? Why do you always get the proverbial cold feet? Even when you have such feelings for someone, do you wonder why can’t you find an enduring love? Quite likely it’s not the other person, it’s you — specifically, your inability to commit. This book, a personal account by a respected and experienced therapist, teaches the skill of commitment. Step by step, Avrum Nadigel demonstrates how to overcome the anxieties and resistance to acquire the skills to build the sustainable bonds of a relationship. Learning to Commit is the definitive guide on how to prepare yourself for a successful life-partnership. Whether you are single and yearning or coupled and conflicted, Nadigel’s techniques are reassuring and inspiring in the pursuit of a happier and more durable love.

154 pages, Paperback

First published September 15, 2015

Reviews

[Modya · Rating 4 out of 5]

Nice quick read. Simple ideas for a complex issue. Using different language there is a lot in there about confluence and projection. I would love to see more about introjection and what stops you walking away when things get tough. The section near the end of family trees is really interesting and it would be great to follow up in more detail with that section.

That being said, it's well written, flows really well and I look forward to any future books by this author.