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Sexual dominance is not a work of fiction, a paperback novel, or 50 shades of anything for me; it’s my life. From a very young age, I felt an overwhelming, sometimes crippling urge to dominate girls and women. To take, to own, to push them until they show me who they really are. But that urge was countered by an equally powerful desire to protect and cherish them.
This book is a collection of true-life short stories from my early years, grappling with the duality of what I often regarded as my twisted being into adulthood, when I finally learnt to embrace and revel in it. It details some of the amazing sexual encounters I've enjoyed with the spectacular women I've known, and my often conflicted thought processes throughout them.
This book is a collection of true-life short stories from my early years, grappling with the duality of what I often regarded as my twisted being into adulthood, when I finally learnt to embrace and revel in it. It details some of the amazing sexual encounters I've enjoyed with the spectacular women I've known, and my often conflicted thought processes throughout them.
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To understand who you are you need to recognise who you were. Like any young man I marvelled over the delicate beauty of the female form. The world is full of many wonders but nothing captured my attention like the line of a woman's neck as it feeds from her jaw to her shoulder, the subtle curve of her back or the taper of her ankle. The angelic qualities of her nature and sound of her voice, all of it so intriguing, so captivating but there was more. The passion I felt as I held such beauty in my arms was almost overwhelming. The emotion of the surrender, the look in her eye, the nature of the act itself and the power I felt as I entered her.
I was terrified for a while there that I was weird. I watched slave women on TV and found that I couldn't stop thinking about them. I thought about the sounds a woman makes while making love and I couldn't help but notice how blurred the sounds of pleasure and pain were. I wanted more than just sex I wanted to possess, devour, take and control. All this scared the crap out of me and I wondered if I was destined to end up some sick old pervert.
Looking back it all changed when I met my first naturally submissive girl. I didn't really know it at the time but as I kissed her firmly and held her head in my hand. As I gently squeezed her delicate neck and she let out a quiet gasp I knew that although she was a little scared and confused she was also, unmistakably excited.
I found over time that although not all women analyse why, most enjoy being taken by a strong confident man. Women have always tended to be attracted to me and I used to think that it was my good looks (laughing at myself) but now I realise that from somewhere, deep inside they can tell that I might force them to experience their darkest of desires.
I've arrived in a wonderful place of self understanding. I now know that I needed to understand the submissive mind before I could understand my own. The gift of submission is pure bravery and I treat it with unwavering respect. To look deep into a woman's eyes as she gazes up at me knowing that she is willing to offer herself body and soul is a awe inspiring experience. She's vulnerable, scared, excited and truly alive all at once. She knows that she will experience everything from pleasure to pain. From tenderness to torment and although it's all enough to make her want to run and hide. She knows deep down that she can trust me to protect her from harm.
Life I feel is all about the experience. I'm here to make those dark unrelenting fantasies reality. I want to be that man that orders you to your knees and undresses in front of you. The man that takes you by your hair and forces himself deep inside you. The man that pushes you until you shatter into a million pieces and then puts you back together again.
I like women that always wonder why when she likes a man he can't tell and doesn't force her into a corner and tear off her clothes. She's alive and wants to know how far she can push herself.
Sexual dominance is not a work of fiction, a paperback novel, or 50 shades of anything for me; it’s my life. From a very young age, I felt an overwhelming, sometimes crippling urge to dominate girls and women. To take, to own, to push them until they show me who they really are. But that urge was countered by an equally powerful desire to protect and cherish them.
My first book is a collection of true-life short stories from my early years, grappling with the duality of what I often regarded as my twisted being into adulthood, when I finally learnt to embrace and revel in it. It details some of the amazing sexual encounters I’ve enjoyed with the spectacular women I’ve known, and my often-conflicted thought processes throughout them.
To understand who you are you need to recognise who you were. Like any young man I marvelled over the delicate beauty of the female form. The world is full of many wonders but nothing captured my attention like the line of a woman's neck as it feeds from her jaw to her shoulder, the subtle curve of her back or the taper of her ankle. The angelic qualities of her nature and sound of her voice, all of it so intriguing, so captivating but there was more. The passion I felt as I held such beauty in my arms was almost overwhelming. The emotion of the surrender, the look in her eye, the nature of the act itself and the power I felt as I entered her.
I was terrified for a while there that I was weird. I watched slave women on TV and found that I couldn't stop thinking about them. I thought about the sounds a woman makes while making love and I couldn't help but notice how blurred the sounds of pleasure and pain were. I wanted more than just sex I wanted to possess, devour, take and control. All this scared the crap out of me and I wondered if I was destined to end up some sick old pervert.
Looking back it all changed when I met my first naturally submissive girl. I didn't really know it at the time but as I kissed her firmly and held her head in my hand. As I gently squeezed her delicate neck and she let out a quiet gasp I knew that although she was a little scared and confused she was also, unmistakably excited.
I found over time that although not all women analyse why, most enjoy being taken by a strong confident man. Women have always tended to be attracted to me and I used to think that it was my good looks (laughing at myself) but now I realise that from somewhere, deep inside they can tell that I might force them to experience their darkest of desires.
I've arrived in a wonderful place of self understanding. I now know that I needed to understand the submissive mind before I could understand my own. The gift of submission is pure bravery and I treat it with unwavering respect. To look deep into a woman's eyes as she gazes up at me knowing that she is willing to offer herself body and soul is a awe inspiring experience. She's vulnerable, scared, excited and truly alive all at once. She knows that she will experience everything from pleasure to pain. From tenderness to torment and although it's all enough to make her want to run and hide. She knows deep down that she can trust me to protect her from harm.
Life I feel is all about the experience. I'm here to make those dark unrelenting fantasies reality. I want to be that man that orders you to your knees and undresses in front of you. The man that takes you by your hair and forces himself deep inside you. The man that pushes you until you shatter into a million pieces and then puts you back together again.
I like women that always wonder why when she likes a man he can't tell and doesn't force her into a corner and tear off her clothes. She's alive and wants to know how far she can push herself.
Sexual dominance is not a work of fiction, a paperback novel, or 50 shades of anything for me; it’s my life. From a very young age, I felt an overwhelming, sometimes crippling urge to dominate girls and women. To take, to own, to push them until they show me who they really are. But that urge was countered by an equally powerful desire to protect and cherish them.
My first book is a collection of true-life short stories from my early years, grappling with the duality of what I often regarded as my twisted being into adulthood, when I finally learnt to embrace and revel in it. It details some of the amazing sexual encounters I’ve enjoyed with the spectacular women I’ve known, and my often-conflicted thought processes throughout them.
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November 15, 2015
5 "Peek Behind the Curtain" Stars
I’m always on the hunt for books from a male Dom’s POV; they aren’t very easy to find. So, when two of my Goodreads friends, April and Nana, recommended this to me, I grabbed it off of Kindle Unlimited and gave it a shot.
I had never heard of “The_Wolf_” before I picked up this book. (Surprising, since he has such a large following on Fet.) I was told that it was an intense, hot read, but, other than that, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. I didn’t read any reviews before hand, or even the blurb for that matter. I just dove right in.
And, God, it was definitely both hot and intense -- honestly, it's probably the hottest non-fiction I've ever read -- but what surprised me, what I wasn’t expecting, was my own level of emotional involvement.
I cried.
Not an ugly cry, not a full on sob, but the type where fat, hot tears fall before your face has a chance to catch up with your emotions. And they were tears of empathy for the author… But I’ll get to that in a minute.
Taking us on his journey through life as a sexual Dominant, the author uses vignettes to tell his story, which makes for a unique reading experience while at the same time narrowing the focus to solely his experiences as a Dominant. It's like finally getting a glimpse at what's behind the curtain. I love getting inside someone's head and in this book he unashamedly puts it all out there to let the reader know exactly what he's thinking. It's fascinating.
Warning: His experiences are varied, intense, and not for the fainthearted. Please take that warning to heart. This isn’t your typical SSC BDSM. There are no safewords. Once a sub puts herself in his hands, he will take her whenever, wherever, and however he wants to. And with whatever level of violence it takes to elicit the reaction he is looking for. If rape play, edge play, watersports, knife play, breath play and no safewords bothers you, then this isn’t the book for you.
Though his view of each scene is decidedly dark and at times guilt ridden, what prevents it from becoming overwhelming is the alternate POVs of his various submissives. The opposing viewpoints show the dichotomy of what they each take away from the experience. And, without fail, it is the submissives that give more detail, background, and light to each scene they recall.
Which begs the question... Is he mind-fucking you, even just a tiny bit, with his version of events to make it seem more non-con than it is or is his honest impression of events that dark? In some scenes, he is evasive about how well he knows the sub he’s with. Then, in contrast, the subs will explain that they had met online and had conversations before hand. These instances only serve to remind you that you are not getting the story of the whole man, only The Wolf. And the absence of the other facets of him shine a spotlight on what is missing.
The sex in this book is incredibly hot. If that puts me on #teamperv, then make me the captain because I loved it that much. Still, the more I read, the more worried I was for him. There was an emptiness within the book that pulled at me. So many aspects of himself that he keeps hidden, both from his subs and the reader.
Why does he separate these facets of himself?
By the end, my tears were falling.
For me, this was a singular reading experience. I definitely recommend it for those of you that aren’t easily offended and are looking for an unflinching look inside a male Dominant’s life. I sincerely hope he puts pen to paper again so I can get answers to some of my questions… Especially that last one.
I’m always on the hunt for books from a male Dom’s POV; they aren’t very easy to find. So, when two of my Goodreads friends, April and Nana, recommended this to me, I grabbed it off of Kindle Unlimited and gave it a shot.
I had never heard of “The_Wolf_” before I picked up this book. (Surprising, since he has such a large following on Fet.) I was told that it was an intense, hot read, but, other than that, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. I didn’t read any reviews before hand, or even the blurb for that matter. I just dove right in.
And, God, it was definitely both hot and intense -- honestly, it's probably the hottest non-fiction I've ever read -- but what surprised me, what I wasn’t expecting, was my own level of emotional involvement.
I cried.
Not an ugly cry, not a full on sob, but the type where fat, hot tears fall before your face has a chance to catch up with your emotions. And they were tears of empathy for the author… But I’ll get to that in a minute.
Taking us on his journey through life as a sexual Dominant, the author uses vignettes to tell his story, which makes for a unique reading experience while at the same time narrowing the focus to solely his experiences as a Dominant. It's like finally getting a glimpse at what's behind the curtain. I love getting inside someone's head and in this book he unashamedly puts it all out there to let the reader know exactly what he's thinking. It's fascinating.
Warning: His experiences are varied, intense, and not for the fainthearted. Please take that warning to heart. This isn’t your typical SSC BDSM. There are no safewords. Once a sub puts herself in his hands, he will take her whenever, wherever, and however he wants to. And with whatever level of violence it takes to elicit the reaction he is looking for. If rape play, edge play, watersports, knife play, breath play and no safewords bothers you, then this isn’t the book for you.
Though his view of each scene is decidedly dark and at times guilt ridden, what prevents it from becoming overwhelming is the alternate POVs of his various submissives. The opposing viewpoints show the dichotomy of what they each take away from the experience. And, without fail, it is the submissives that give more detail, background, and light to each scene they recall.
Which begs the question... Is he mind-fucking you, even just a tiny bit, with his version of events to make it seem more non-con than it is or is his honest impression of events that dark? In some scenes, he is evasive about how well he knows the sub he’s with. Then, in contrast, the subs will explain that they had met online and had conversations before hand. These instances only serve to remind you that you are not getting the story of the whole man, only The Wolf. And the absence of the other facets of him shine a spotlight on what is missing.
The sex in this book is incredibly hot. If that puts me on #teamperv, then make me the captain because I loved it that much. Still, the more I read, the more worried I was for him. There was an emptiness within the book that pulled at me. So many aspects of himself that he keeps hidden, both from his subs and the reader.
Why does he separate these facets of himself?
By the end, my tears were falling.
For me, this was a singular reading experience. I definitely recommend it for those of you that aren’t easily offended and are looking for an unflinching look inside a male Dominant’s life. I sincerely hope he puts pen to paper again so I can get answers to some of my questions… Especially that last one.
January 3, 2016
It's not often I go off on a rant about a book. I try, I seriously try to keep my anger (if present) in check, but I'll admit, I started this book immediately on the defensive.
And here's why... In the preface, he says:
"You are welcome to criticize me for the content of this book, but please take into account that when doing so, you are also criticising the women that desire and seek these kind of encounters and are questioning their right to make their own choices."
So here I am, reading this book, finding a multitude of things wrong with it, and then questioning myself on whether or not my review will be taken that way... If I give it a low rating, will everyone think that it's the content I had a problem with? That I took issue with these people exploring the darker side of their sexuality? That's just not the case, and you know what? Screw The Wolf and his manipulative statement for doing that, for trying to scare people (me) into not leaving true ratings. That's not me.
What I had a problem with was not the stories themselves. I applaud anyone with the bravery to explore their sexuality and darker desires, though I do doubt the veracity of some of these encounters. My low rating is based solely on how much I enjoyed the writing itself. I found it repetitive and full of glaring discrepancies. The sexual encounters were rough, no doubt, but predictable and redundant after a while (get on your knees, up now, throw down, choke, slap, choke some more).
There are parts in which The Wolf gives his version of events, and then, the next chapter, the female partner would give her version of the same encounter. This is when I started doubting the truth of some of the stories. She would be dressed in a plunging neckline dress in his version but naked in her retelling. Even if I said, okay maybe, just maybe, the memory plays tricks on us... Perhaps these little details are, in fact, remembered differently by these two lovers... There was still one that I could just not let go. Please tell me how it's possible that Lola, from Boston, and Sub_Missivekiitn, the hippy from Melbourne, both said "So that's what it feels like to be slapped in the face." Really? The exact same phrase? Curious...
Then at the end... The Wolf turns over a new leaf, deactivates his Fetlife account because he wants more from life; he feels empty. Oh wait! In 'About the Author'--"If you'd like to learn more about The Wolf, you can find him on Fetlife.com." What? But I thought...
If this were classified as fiction, I probably wouldn't be as annoyed as I am. Hell, I'll be honest... If The Wolf hadn't been so sanctimonious in the preface, telling me how to review, I probably wouldn't be as annoyed. But he was, and I am.
Truth is, this book is full of one sexual encounter after another. It's rough, repetitive, and blatantly implausible based on the number of discrepancies. I gave it two stars because some of the scenes were hot, but that's it.
And here's why... In the preface, he says:
"You are welcome to criticize me for the content of this book, but please take into account that when doing so, you are also criticising the women that desire and seek these kind of encounters and are questioning their right to make their own choices."
So here I am, reading this book, finding a multitude of things wrong with it, and then questioning myself on whether or not my review will be taken that way... If I give it a low rating, will everyone think that it's the content I had a problem with? That I took issue with these people exploring the darker side of their sexuality? That's just not the case, and you know what? Screw The Wolf and his manipulative statement for doing that, for trying to scare people (me) into not leaving true ratings. That's not me.
What I had a problem with was not the stories themselves. I applaud anyone with the bravery to explore their sexuality and darker desires, though I do doubt the veracity of some of these encounters. My low rating is based solely on how much I enjoyed the writing itself. I found it repetitive and full of glaring discrepancies. The sexual encounters were rough, no doubt, but predictable and redundant after a while (get on your knees, up now, throw down, choke, slap, choke some more).
There are parts in which The Wolf gives his version of events, and then, the next chapter, the female partner would give her version of the same encounter. This is when I started doubting the truth of some of the stories. She would be dressed in a plunging neckline dress in his version but naked in her retelling. Even if I said, okay maybe, just maybe, the memory plays tricks on us... Perhaps these little details are, in fact, remembered differently by these two lovers... There was still one that I could just not let go. Please tell me how it's possible that Lola, from Boston, and Sub_Missivekiitn, the hippy from Melbourne, both said "So that's what it feels like to be slapped in the face." Really? The exact same phrase? Curious...
Then at the end... The Wolf turns over a new leaf, deactivates his Fetlife account because he wants more from life; he feels empty. Oh wait! In 'About the Author'--"If you'd like to learn more about The Wolf, you can find him on Fetlife.com." What? But I thought...
If this were classified as fiction, I probably wouldn't be as annoyed as I am. Hell, I'll be honest... If The Wolf hadn't been so sanctimonious in the preface, telling me how to review, I probably wouldn't be as annoyed. But he was, and I am.
Truth is, this book is full of one sexual encounter after another. It's rough, repetitive, and blatantly implausible based on the number of discrepancies. I gave it two stars because some of the scenes were hot, but that's it.
March 2, 2018
**WARNING**
A true account into the lifestlye of a dominant male named The Wolf.
This ain't your sweet and flowery 'mommy porn', so if this isn't for you, MOVE ON!
If ever there was a memoir I was obsessed with reading, THIS IS IT!!!
I LOVE reading from a males POV, and the cake topper on this is that the author is a real life Dominant male.
I totally blame Nana for putting this book on my radar, but at the same time, I have to give her a big slobbery kiss cause I didn't realize how obsessed I was to get inside The Wolf's mind.
This book also gives us brief chapters in which the 'submissive' gives us her insight to her time spent with The Wolf.
Between you and me......I googled the SHIT out of him and I really couldn't find anything, BUT...... Nana did find something special ;p I also provided his tumbler link below and only this past weekend, did I find and am now following him on Twitter :D
There is something so intriguing about this lifestyle and I am so happy that he decided to share his story.
Strip back the layers and layers of fluff that we read in these erotic romance stories cause there is nothing remotely romantic about what's written in these pages ;p
If a 'true' and 'real' dominant mind doesn't frighten you, then I think you'd be quite intrigued by The Wolf.
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**This is a brief review of the sample book**
Thank you to Nana who was so gracious to lend me this book; however because of the lending feature on Amazon (.com vs .ca), I could only read a sample of this eye-opening true story of The Wolf.
Read the synopsis of the book, cause that in itself is an explosive teaser of what this book is all about!
Nana, Thank you so much sweetie, I know I could only read a sample of this but because of you (seeing that you added this), I would NEVER have come across this book!!!!
I cannot wait to read this in its entirety!
OH! Nana was also very gracious to provide the link to his tumblr, so I jumped on that so freakin fast, it wasn't funny ;D
YES, I also watched some of his videos, and DAMN!!! To read about this genre is one thing, BUT, to watch it in action......Yeah, BDSM ain't no fairytale!
NSFW (not safe for work) but here's the link :D
A true account into the lifestlye of a dominant male named The Wolf.
This ain't your sweet and flowery 'mommy porn', so if this isn't for you, MOVE ON!
If ever there was a memoir I was obsessed with reading, THIS IS IT!!!
I LOVE reading from a males POV, and the cake topper on this is that the author is a real life Dominant male.
I totally blame Nana for putting this book on my radar, but at the same time, I have to give her a big slobbery kiss cause I didn't realize how obsessed I was to get inside The Wolf's mind.
This book also gives us brief chapters in which the 'submissive' gives us her insight to her time spent with The Wolf.
Between you and me......I googled the SHIT out of him and I really couldn't find anything, BUT...... Nana did find something special ;p I also provided his tumbler link below and only this past weekend, did I find and am now following him on Twitter :D
There is something so intriguing about this lifestyle and I am so happy that he decided to share his story.
Strip back the layers and layers of fluff that we read in these erotic romance stories cause there is nothing remotely romantic about what's written in these pages ;p
If a 'true' and 'real' dominant mind doesn't frighten you, then I think you'd be quite intrigued by The Wolf.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
**This is a brief review of the sample book**
Thank you to Nana who was so gracious to lend me this book; however because of the lending feature on Amazon (.com vs .ca), I could only read a sample of this eye-opening true story of The Wolf.
Read the synopsis of the book, cause that in itself is an explosive teaser of what this book is all about!
Nana, Thank you so much sweetie, I know I could only read a sample of this but because of you (seeing that you added this), I would NEVER have come across this book!!!!
I cannot wait to read this in its entirety!
OH! Nana was also very gracious to provide the link to his tumblr, so I jumped on that so freakin fast, it wasn't funny ;D
YES, I also watched some of his videos, and DAMN!!! To read about this genre is one thing, BUT, to watch it in action......Yeah, BDSM ain't no fairytale!
NSFW (not safe for work) but here's the link :D
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January 5, 2016(Edited Review)
I still won't leave a rating for this book. I didn't read more than the preface and sample, so it's a personal ethics sorta thang for me. What I will say is this:
-- Bravo to the author for taking some much needed directive and adjusting the preface (it no longer reads like a dictate to readers to review kindly lest the author's sexual partners be victimized by proxy). I take serious offense at authors that try to tell readers "how" to review (my original offer for raw shaved nuts still stands for any that would practice such a travesty ;).
-- And since the author has shown himself to be so wiling to accept constructive criticism, I'll offer this as well: The sample bit I read still reads like the perfunctory writing of a man with one hand down his pants the whole time. Consider getting an editor or (impartial) betas to help flesh out your disjointed tale. It needs less tell and more show in the writing style to really grip a reader with what each character involved is feeling/doing.
I still won't leave a rating for this book. I didn't read more than the preface and sample, so it's a personal ethics sorta thang for me. What I will say is this:
-- Bravo to the author for taking some much needed directive and adjusting the preface (it no longer reads like a dictate to readers to review kindly lest the author's sexual partners be victimized by proxy). I take serious offense at authors that try to tell readers "how" to review (my original offer for raw shaved nuts still stands for any that would practice such a travesty ;).
-- And since the author has shown himself to be so wiling to accept constructive criticism, I'll offer this as well: The sample bit I read still reads like the perfunctory writing of a man with one hand down his pants the whole time. Consider getting an editor or (impartial) betas to help flesh out your disjointed tale. It needs less tell and more show in the writing style to really grip a reader with what each character involved is feeling/doing.
January 4, 2016
I really don't know what to say about this book. I do know that I would never want to run into Mr. Wolf with his conceited self! I seen that a fellow Goodreads reader was not happy with this book. I get really curious and have to check things out when I see someone freaking out about a book.
This book was very interesting. Some of the things Mr. Wolf did to these women is far out there. I'm not sure that I completely believe every story because I think some actions would have landed him in jail. The one I really have a hard time with is the girl and the bob-wire. I climed a fence with bob-wire when I was about nineteen and let me tell you that if bob-wire touch any part of your skin, it's like being tortured. I sliced my hand open so I just can't picture anyone doing what Wolf claimed they did on it. If they actually did do what he says they did, then more power to them (I'm a wimp). I would think the female would be shredded, snagged galore, and in need of plenty of stitches.
I do appreciate being able to read these happenings from a man who actually did them, however I'm not convinced that all of it is true. The book read like a journal of fiction. I'm just saying.
I love rough and hard sex. I'm in love with non- con erotica and as far as the non-con in this book, I only had a problem with one of the women, the rest is, To Each Their Own. If you like it and it's your thing, then do what you do. I didn't consider any of this rape, and I don't believe any of these women were taken advantage of, and I'm only judging that off of who I was as a young girl myself. I was good at telling people, No Way, at 15 and the women this guy did these acts to were of consenting age. All this is just my opinion. I did still have a problem with the one act only because the girl changed her mind and asked him not to do it. She had gotten engaged after she told Wolf what she wanted him to do to her therefor, in my opinion he should have stopped. If this was fiction, I'd be saying he should have screwed her until she couldn't walk. Lol.
This book would have been four stars for me but that crazy sly business in the blurb just seemed to play off of womens freedom and rights to want these things done to them. Basically if we have a problem with what you did to them, then we are not being fair to the women in this book who wanted and liked it. I have no issue with what they want, but I think it was not tactful to put that in the blurb.
The other issue I have was how Wolf spoke about doing these acts since the eighties, yet during the tale of the things he did and said, he continuously used 21'rst century terminology for the descriptions and so on. Correct me if I'm wrong.
I would love to talk to Mr. Wolf about the way he thinks. I was hoping the book would have elaborated more on his thought process which was why I wanted to read the book in the first place.
I don't have any real issues with Mr. Wolf accept it seems his so called Confidence is a bit more like proud conceitedness to me. I'm surprised he hasn't been in any trouble yet. He's a brave man.
This book was very interesting. Some of the things Mr. Wolf did to these women is far out there. I'm not sure that I completely believe every story because I think some actions would have landed him in jail. The one I really have a hard time with is the girl and the bob-wire. I climed a fence with bob-wire when I was about nineteen and let me tell you that if bob-wire touch any part of your skin, it's like being tortured. I sliced my hand open so I just can't picture anyone doing what Wolf claimed they did on it. If they actually did do what he says they did, then more power to them (I'm a wimp). I would think the female would be shredded, snagged galore, and in need of plenty of stitches.
I do appreciate being able to read these happenings from a man who actually did them, however I'm not convinced that all of it is true. The book read like a journal of fiction. I'm just saying.
I love rough and hard sex. I'm in love with non- con erotica and as far as the non-con in this book, I only had a problem with one of the women, the rest is, To Each Their Own. If you like it and it's your thing, then do what you do. I didn't consider any of this rape, and I don't believe any of these women were taken advantage of, and I'm only judging that off of who I was as a young girl myself. I was good at telling people, No Way, at 15 and the women this guy did these acts to were of consenting age. All this is just my opinion. I did still have a problem with the one act only because the girl changed her mind and asked him not to do it. She had gotten engaged after she told Wolf what she wanted him to do to her therefor, in my opinion he should have stopped. If this was fiction, I'd be saying he should have screwed her until she couldn't walk. Lol.
This book would have been four stars for me but that crazy sly business in the blurb just seemed to play off of womens freedom and rights to want these things done to them. Basically if we have a problem with what you did to them, then we are not being fair to the women in this book who wanted and liked it. I have no issue with what they want, but I think it was not tactful to put that in the blurb.
The other issue I have was how Wolf spoke about doing these acts since the eighties, yet during the tale of the things he did and said, he continuously used 21'rst century terminology for the descriptions and so on. Correct me if I'm wrong.
I would love to talk to Mr. Wolf about the way he thinks. I was hoping the book would have elaborated more on his thought process which was why I wanted to read the book in the first place.
I don't have any real issues with Mr. Wolf accept it seems his so called Confidence is a bit more like proud conceitedness to me. I'm surprised he hasn't been in any trouble yet. He's a brave man.
November 9, 2015
I absolutely loved the honesty that poured from the pages. He knows he's twisted and is not afraid to share how deep his darkness goes. So very real and raw you not only get his POV, but also his subs.
I know some will disagree and that's their prerogative, but for me I see the beauty that is portrayed. How two consenting adults experience their desires, which are not all sexual and how fulfilling the connection between a Dom and his sub can be. Take me to a place where nothing else resides except utter contentment.
A huge THANK you to April, Nana and Dana recommending this wonderful book and to The Wolf who chose to write it!!
I know some will disagree and that's their prerogative, but for me I see the beauty that is portrayed. How two consenting adults experience their desires, which are not all sexual and how fulfilling the connection between a Dom and his sub can be. Take me to a place where nothing else resides except utter contentment.
A huge THANK you to April, Nana and Dana recommending this wonderful book and to The Wolf who chose to write it!!
July 1, 2015
I loved it. Very real and raw. It was fascinating to read his POV as well as the women. This should have a disclaimer about the hotness. Many women would love to be wolfmissives hahaha. I'll recommend this book to everyone (except my mother) gross. hahaha 5 heart racing stars. Well Done TW.
nope-not-ever
December 26, 2015DNF’d at 15%...this is going to be one of two things & since I am not a fan of non-con or dub-con I refuse to read more to find out. Either this is as the author says consensual sex between two adults told to readers in a way that implies non-consent OR it’s the evolution of a rapist. I won’t rate because my gut told me to ask a friend to pre-screen yet I read it anyway.
August 16, 2016
Dark and a little bit twisted. Interesting reading from a male POV, it included some of my favourite darker kinks. Although this book is not for everyone.
October 7, 2015
I'm unsure how I feel about this book, which I define more like a journal than autobiography. I liked the entries written by TW's partners, and you can see how much more details a female mind keeps while in the throes of passion. If you want something hawt to rub one, this is a good choice - if you're into kink, but if you want flowers and bunnies... oh stir away. This TW persona was interesting but shallow, however I'd like to read more about the man behind the persona. That would probably keep me more interested. I hope next writing endeavor is more substantial.
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October 27, 2016This man has now been arrested and charged with two counts of aggravated sexual assault and one count of attempted sexual assault. Those charges, where he lives in New South Wales, Australia, are equivalent to rape and attempted rape.
The stories in this "book" (<--implied sneer) are stories of a rapist.
The stories in this "book" (<--implied sneer) are stories of a rapist.
August 8, 2016
The wolf
A book that shows many sides of this complex man. He could be flirting on social media, taking women waaaaay past their boundaries or holding and kissing them. It was interesting reading how he finally grew up.
A book that shows many sides of this complex man. He could be flirting on social media, taking women waaaaay past their boundaries or holding and kissing them. It was interesting reading how he finally grew up.
April 22, 2018
This guy is known for being a serial abuser and assailant and using kink platforms to target young, inexperienced women. https://www.smh.com.au/national/nsw/l...
March 24, 2022
Honest
I was a member of FetLife during the time “The Wolf” was popular. I loved his writing, supported his community, watched his videos and even donated to a charity he supported.
I purchased this book not to have a part of him. I was not a fan girl with delusions of a relationship with him. He was a public figure I had some things in common. That was all.
This book was to awaken my darker, kinkier and more primal side. Mission accomplished. I still support this man. If you know than you know. If not you lie, judge or are indifferent.
I was a member of FetLife during the time “The Wolf” was popular. I loved his writing, supported his community, watched his videos and even donated to a charity he supported.
I purchased this book not to have a part of him. I was not a fan girl with delusions of a relationship with him. He was a public figure I had some things in common. That was all.
This book was to awaken my darker, kinkier and more primal side. Mission accomplished. I still support this man. If you know than you know. If not you lie, judge or are indifferent.
December 12, 2020
Very depressing
By the end of this book I was completely depressed. The Wolf came across as an empty man. I was hoping by the end of the book he would have been able to find a purpose to his life. I’m still hoping.
By the end of this book I was completely depressed. The Wolf came across as an empty man. I was hoping by the end of the book he would have been able to find a purpose to his life. I’m still hoping.
July 7, 2015
An absolutely honest look at one man’s sexual journey. And by absolutely honest, I mean, absolutely honest. He opens himself up and shares many of his sexual encounters, leaving himself and his desires on the page and is not at all apologetic about what turns him on. There should be multiple trigger warnings on this book because he does explore consensual non-consent. What I really enjoyed is that he also shared the memories from the woman’s perspective, letting them tell how they viewed the exact same experience. Especially when hearing from the women they share more of the care that he showed them, something that he seemed to leave out of each encounter. By the end of the book, without sharing any spoilers, the growth he shows and the change in him mentality towards his encounters is an eye opener. I applaud him for leaving everything on the page, no matter the feedback or flack he’ll receive. Good read, but just remember, trigger warnings!
Side note, this is a self-pub so there were some editorial errors, not as bad as some self-pubs out there and thankfully they did not ever pull me out of the story. He did seem to use an unnecessary ‘u’ quite frequently (that is completely a joke. I do realize that there are other ways to spell words than just the US way).
Side note, this is a self-pub so there were some editorial errors, not as bad as some self-pubs out there and thankfully they did not ever pull me out of the story. He did seem to use an unnecessary ‘u’ quite frequently (that is completely a joke. I do realize that there are other ways to spell words than just the US way).
May 6, 2016
thinking...thinking....thinking
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