How can we become again like little children - with open hearts free of the numbness and guile that so infects us as adults - to become aware of God's continuing presence, filling our lives with beauty and meaning? This book points the way and shows us the path we must follow. The reader will soon discover that Christ is there at the beginning of our journey, accompanies us along the way - and is indeed the path itself - and waits for us with open arms at the end of our journey. Here is a book rich with insight into being able to see the extraordinary in the ordinary, the sacramental and therefore the relational nature of everyone and everything - and the consequences of this vision for how we ought to live our lives as believers. --Fr. Steven Tsichlis, St. Paul's Greek Orthodox Church, Irvine, CA.
Stephen Muse, Ph.D., LMFT, LPC, B.C.E.T.S is Co-Director responsible for the Pastoral Counselor Training program and Clinical Services for the D.A & Elizabeth Turner Ministry Resource Center of the Pastoral Institute, Inc. in Columbus, Georgia and teaches and supervises in the U.S. Army Family Life Chaplain Training program at Fort Benning. He has served as a part time instructor in the graduate counseling program of Columbus State University, as a clinical field supervisor for Auburn University counseling psychology program and as adjunct faculty with the doctoral programs of Garrett Evangelical Seminary in Illinois and Union Graduate Institute in Ohio.
Dr. Muse has taught and led professional workshops throughout the U.S. and Internationally in the civilian sector as well as for the U.S. Army Chaplains in the areas of his specialties which include healing combat trauma & abuse, training clergy as pastoral counselors, stress and burn-out of clergy and helping professionals, Orthodox Christian life and spiritual formation, and Orthodox Christianity and marriage.
He has contributed chapters in eight books and more than 30 articles, book reviews and poetry for professional journals and trade magazines, including national award winning research in the area of religious integration and clinical empathy of therapists. His work has been translated into Russian, Greek, Swedish and Serbian. He served as Managing Editor of The Pastoral Forum from 1993 to 2002. Previous books include Beside Still Waters: Restoring the Souls of Shepherds in the Market Place (2000); Raising Lazarus: Integral Healing in Orthodox Christianity (2004), and When Hearts Become Flame: An Eastern Orthodox Approach to the 'Dia-Logos' of Pastoral Counseling (2010).
Dr. Muse holds a bachelors degree in philosophy from Davidson College, an M.Div. from Princeton Theological Seminary emphasizing Greek New Testament exegesis and early church spirituality, M.S. and Ph.D. degrees from Loyola University of Maryland in Pastoral Counseling and has completed post graduate work in marriage and family studies through the University of Georgia. He holds Diplomate certification in the American Association of Pastoral Counselors; in Professional Psychotherapy with the International Academy of Behavioral Medicine, Counseling and Psychotherapy, and is an AAMFT Approved supervisor, Board certified in Traumatic Stress and in clinical hypnotherapy. He is licensed in the state of Georgia as both a Professional Counselor and a Marriage and Family Therapist and board certified as a life and clergy coach.
Prior to his reception into the Greek Orthodox Church where he is ordained as a Subdeacon and set apart for ministry as a pastoral counselor, Dr. Muse pastored a Presbyterian congregation for 11 years and helped begin an outpatient psychiatric clinic in Delta, PA. He is past president of the Orthodox Christian Association of Medicine, Psychology and Religion and a founding member and first parish council President of Holy Transfiguration Greek Orthodox Mission Church in Columbus. He and his wife Claudia have four children: a daughter killed in 1982, a daughter 34, a son 30, a daughter 29 and a grand-daughter, 5 with another on the way.
This book begins strongly, and ends strongly, several stories in the middle probably focus too tightly on the Orthodox mindset to be readily accessible to the casual Protestant reader - such as a personal encounter involving the Theotokos (the God Bearer, mother of Christ). But overall the writer uses personal experiences to illustrate, exemplify, and to draw the reader into exploring their faith from a perspective that I have not encountered too often in the world of popular American Christian culture.
Let's hear it: ONE TIME FOR YORK COUNTY, PA!!! I had no idea until he mentions it halfway through the book that the author was raised in my hometown! Love it!! And what a way to represent! This is a breathtaking, poetic, and deep devotional that brought life and love to my soul. You did us York people proud!
Drawing on his experience as a marriage and family therapist and an Orthodox Christian, Stephen Muse writes a series of 25 anecdotes on what it means to grow in relationship with Christ, each other, and the world around us. He pulls on stories from monasteries, childhood, and small moments in his life that brought him to contemplate deeper truths. Each entry includes reflection questions for personal or group settings that helps the reader take what they've read and apply it to their own lives.
This was a slam dunk. The writing is beautiful, the messages are profound, each entry is perfect for a daily read, and it really pushes the reader to confront themselves and the reality of God in their lives. It's not preachy or overly technical, and it's full of real world experiences that readers can relate to. I found myself drawn into deeper understanding and communion with God through these readings. It grew me as a person and as a Christian, and I'm incredibly thankful for this book being brought to my attention by our parish's book club!
It does tend to be more poetically descriptive than straightforward, so some readers may need to get used to that style of writing if they're not used to it in devotional reads. But it's worth it. It is primarily Orthodox, and though Orthodox elements are referenced, he does include footnotes explaining them, so I do think this could be accessible to any Christian reader. It's perfect for older teen/adult Sunday Schools, especially with the discussion questions already at the end of each segment. If you're ready for a deeper, more personal journey into your relationship with Christ, I highly recommend adding this book to your list!
Muse puts both spiritual reflection and some theology within his anecdotal stories from his life. The stories are fairly short and very readable. At some points wonderful analogies and metaphors. Not sure why but I really liked the book when I first began reading it, but that feeling wasn't sustained for me throughout the book. But if you like anecdotal evidence of the spiritual life, it is a good read. Personally I find anecdotal readings and case studies do not hold my interest for long.